I hate that literally every bi-sexual woman I know has had at least one vile creep spring this on her. Most recently it was the other way around.

A man I have known and respected for many years said he was surprised that the woman he was seeing for the last few months ended their relationship abruptly. She had apparently confided to him that she had a couple of sexual encounters or relationships with women when she was in her 20s and he took this as a green light to hit her up for a threesome. They are both in their late 30s now. This had the effect of her going ice-cold on him. He couldn’t work out what he did wrong. I couldn’t believe he was so stupid. A man of science so lacking in empathy towards women he could not treat her a an actual person, but instead as a ‘register of sexual attributes’.

Male lurkers, being bi doesn’t make a woman interested in a threesome, ‘ENM’ or any other lazy-assed excuse for sanctioned cheating. She’s not the subject of your creepy fetish either.

If I’m straight, does that mean you’d be ok with me asking for a three-way with you and one of the two hot barmen I met out with my friends last week? No? Really? Don’t like being pegged? What about I just go have a three-way with the barmen and leave you out of it entirely if you’re not comfortable having sex with me and another man? I mean, there must be something wrong with you if you can’t accommodate my needs for two men at once, right?

Are men really this depraved/stupid/entitled/audacious? It’s ok, I know the answer, I’m just so very tired of it.

Edit: Also, just because a person tried it before doesn’t mean they want to do it now. I once dyed my hair the almost opposite to what it’s been all my life. Grew it out, never did it again. Are you really going to try to convince me to dye it a color I really hated again? Just how important do you think your opinion of me is? I am telling you now it is not that important.

Men, do not come at me with your nonsense.