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[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist[M] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (1 child) | Copy Link
ahem - to our friends at r/AgainstHateSubreddits - I thought feminism was about choice?
[–]Random192859184196 points197 points198 points 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
I’m seeing more “men” lately who don’t even split rent, they just crash with their girlfriend. They cheat on her and when they finally get dumped they move in with whoever they were cheating with. Most men that I know are straight up gold diggers.
[–]HolyIsTheLordFDS Apprentice165 points166 points167 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Lol A guy I went on THREE DATES with wanted to move in with me last year right after I bought my new house.
Sorry, buddy, I don't date hobosexuals.
[–]forevergirlfriend6FDS Newbie96 points97 points98 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Where in the hell do men get their audacity, it's like that shit never runs out
[–]HolyIsTheLordFDS Apprentice90 points91 points92 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Even weirder, he had a super nice ranch house. I think he was wanting to sell it, pocket the money for savings and investment, and then live with me while I'm footing the bills.
The guy didn't know what he was up against by dating an FDS chick, though. >:-)
[–]yggiwtmiihFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He might have just been living with another woman and looking for another house to live in instead.
[–]voodo2020FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Geez...what a hobo lol
[–]Ghost_namesakeFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hobosexual! I love this!!
[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS STRATEGY COACH53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I saw this pattern through a friend. And the terrible thing is that the exes never just fuck off forever with their "better" new girlfriends, they will be creeping around trying to get back into the apartment to steal things or the whole car. And the police won't take it seriously, as if stealing from an ex is any different from stealing from a stranger.
[–]Summerisle7FDS Disciple19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
they will be creeping around trying to get back into the apartment to steal things
100% accurate.
[–]Davina33FDS Disciple43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This was happening to one of my friends. She has a beautiful one bedroom flat back in our home city. She got to know this guy who treated her very well at first. He was buying her expensive bags and watches and he slowly started staying over longer and longer. It got to the point he was living there. He stopped paying for food shopping and didn't help her with any of the bills. She was 32 and he was like 50 or around that age and a taxi driver. He didn't speak about future plans so she dumped him. He was living in a shared house.
[–]Summoning-FreaksFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know life can get hard, but a 50year old in a shared house has no business dating. But men are utterly shameless.
[–]CatSweetsFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Story time: some years ago, I was at a tech event for women and started chatting with a some of them. The topic of relationships came up, and one of those women started talking about her boyfriend, how great he was, etc. I asked how long they were dating, it was less then one year but they were already living together.
She then proceeded to tell us how they came to live together: apparently, he had broken up recently but was still living with his ex when this girl and him started dating. Then he'd go to her house and everytime he said he'd better leave, replied "no, stay on a bit longer". So he stayed and stayed and finally ended up being her boyfriend and living with her. And she was laughing while she told us that, because she didn't want him to go back to his ex and thought she pulled a big smart scheme to get him.
I was laughing on the outside but on the inside I was like "girl you're really proud of this???" 😬
[–]throwthisawayred34 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i would've made a judgey stank face tbh
[–]tallwomenneedlovetooFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s a hobosexual. They lay their heads wherever they can convince a woman to let them sleep. They don’t care about anything else about the woman as long as he can layup, eat, and play his Xbox all day.
[–]PollyAnnaSunshineFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One of my ex’s friends was like this. He was functionally homeless and spends most of his day trading cryptocurrency and exercising 😒
[–]PasDeToutFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Quite a few of them appear to be MRAs/PUAs talking a big game about gold digging women while living off the women in their lives. Paul Elam is one example.
[–]honeybeerollFDS Disciple76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lmao Adam gave eve his own damn rib but these guys won't even give money
[–]AlextheAnalystPickmeisha™️36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
EXACTLY!! He literally would have had NO WIFE if he hadn't been willing to give of himself.
Who do these people think they are.
[–]honeybeerollFDS Disciple26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Who do these people think they are."
Girl that's the question of the century lmao
[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I would not be splitting rent with a man. If I wanted to split rent I would get a roomate where we'd have out own rooms and be responsible for own groceries and cleaning up. Men want you to not only pay half the rent bill, but pay for their pets, run their errands, buy and cook groceries, clean up after yourself and them! No no no. Why pay and be someone's maid?
[–]AlextheAnalystPickmeisha™️39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's like going to work, and every month on payday your employer debits money from your account.
"Hol up, shouldn't you guys be paying me??"
"No. You pay us for the privilege of working here."
"Ohhh.... Well, in that case, NEXT!"
[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This comparison is such an accurate way to describe it!! Well said! At least with an actual roomate I can have my own bed and I don't have to pick up or run errands for them. Trust me though its better to just get your own place!
[–]AlextheAnalystPickmeisha™️3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you. 😊
its better to just get your own place
I am very much on board with FDS's advice regarding cohabitation. If you're changing status from girlfriend to something else, you should change to wife, not roommate or tenant. Remember that AITA post (it may have been posted here, I don't remember) about the 10-year girlfriend who's bf bought a house in his name only and wanted her to move in and pay the same rent as the other tenant who was getting double the benefits? Almost all of the comments were screaming "Red Flags, don't live with him!!" and the few comments who called her TA were massively downvoted. At that point I don't think she'd gone through with it yet - whoever and wherever she is, I sincerely hope that she backed out and left that loser!
[–]FDSxMuffinVSrat62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My grandfather built my grandmother a house.
My dad bought my mom a house.
I'm supposed to split rent?
[–]amievenreal99FDS Apprentice20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Now cry, because those ideals are long gone.
[–]Samvanderkamp123FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
A friend of mine who was desperate for a relationship recently let one of these LV guys move into the home she owns. She has a child. The LV gives her money when he doesn’t have a vehicle repair to pay for.
She cooks every night, the food he likes, and constantly cleans up after him. She has organized his car insurance and medical insurance and booked a vacation. She does every single thing.
He is good company, I will give him that. And she is happy. Sometimes being on your own for years seems too hard. But over time, these guys cost so much, financially and in terms of emotional labor. I hope it’s worth it.
[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Single mothers who own a home are prime targets for these leeches! They audacity they have to believe they're entitled to a woman's hard work when the nvm was too lazy to build that for himself.
When he doesn't have a vehicle repair? How many repairs could it possibly have!
[–]Samvanderkamp123FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, it’s incredible. I think LV’s buy old vehicles which they run into the ground and don’t maintain. So they end up having to replace the transmission and the brakes and the wheel bearings and the radiator... Plus he keeps having accidents so his insurance is sky-high.
[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's terrible. Doesn't say much for their thinking process does it! . Instead of buying one reasonable priced newish vehicle and taking good care of it, they buy a junker and end up spending 10x what it's worth on repairs.
[–]Samvanderkamp123FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s exactly it. They can’t buy a newish car because they have terrible credit or no credit at all - they don’t hold down a job or they work intermittently for cash.
[–]Sinful_SerenityFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My bf pays all the bills that would usually be shared, I only pay for my car and a few other personal bills. But he buys all my clothes, food, pet supplies, etc. But I never have to ask, that's the best part 😁
[–]oscine23FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have one lone pickmeisha friend and for five years her bf lived with her rent free, free vacations, drove her car, cheated, and lied. As soon as he had some money in his savings and didn't need to rely on hers anymore he left for a weekend saying he needed a break. Once he was safely away, he called and broke up with her and moved in with a 20 year old stripper.
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