"You're probably gay", "you're just some loser virgin", "you're being such a pussy", "you're weak", etc.
If you hear this kind of stuff, you're not sufficiently intimidating. A cornerstone of masculinity is the capacity to be physically/mentally intimidating. Basically, superior in power, as power is an aphrodisiac. Money is power, but it's a specific kind of outsourced power; the power to acquire resources. It isn't a form of personal power. This is why guys who are loaded but have little physical or mental prowess HAVE TO throw money at women to see any action (don't CHOOSE to out of choice, but owing to a lack of of options.)
Such men are unworthy from an attraction viewpoint, they are unattractive as men. Their money makes them a temporary option to be exploited, but such men are happy to be exploited because it's the easy way to get laid; it means they don't have to change anything about themselves. It means they don't have to reject who they are to become something better, even the weak can be prideful.
Women are attracted to intimidation and fear, primarily. It makes them tingle/pine. Plenty of women are enthusiastically fucking cavemen types, but how many are fucking scholastic types for anything but a shot at their money/status/maintaining some sort of purely aesthetic reputation? The caveman will always elicit more passion, and thus more love from a woman than the super-intelligent guy who she may respect purely on a logical level (most women don't even respect logic if it doesn't aid their agenda.) At the end of the day, your intellect won't make her want to spread her legs. Your aggression will.
Intellect and money augment the mentally and physically powerful man, but they are insufficient crutches for a man without either. An intelligent warrior can get laid and command respect; a pedantic nerd can't. A rich Machiavellian can command respect, a rich idiot is the guy everyone mooches off. Why do you think Michael Jackson read the 48 laws of power? He was a rich idiot. He got rich because he had a monetisable talent, but he lacked "street smarts" which from now on, you should think of as Machiavellianism.
If you're intimidating you won't have people talking down to you (they fear your potential to seriously fuck them up too much.) Women get off to fear and want to fuck guys they're scared of. Men who can make them feel fear tell her emotional solipsism on some level "this guy is powerful" and a guy being powerful means "I find this man attractive, I'll fuck him." Why do you think so many women fuck drug dealers, thugs, and other degenerates? Because they convey power. Women don't give a shit about morals when it comes to sexuality, just power.
In tribal times only a very physically/mentally powerful man would have a lot of resources. Now as we become more intelligent and women can get resources alone, a man doesn't need to be physically or mentally powerful (meaning a propensity for violence in either capacity) to amass resources. He simply needs to be sufficiently smart to get a fairly well paying job (people who aren't mentally powerful don't tend to start their own businesses, they always work for someone else or fail when they go at it at alone.) Pussies very rarely become successful entrepreneurs.
So money is power in what it can get, but it's not personal power as eg: a STEM nerd can make a fuck ton of money, but he has little Machiavellian ability, little physical mass and thus conveys no personal power. With no personal power, he cannot generate attraction (or respect outside of his respective field.) Thus to get personal power he needs to study/practice/learn to think like a Machiavellian and go lift. But how many STEM nerds do you think know this is the path to their social redemption, and are willing to take such a path? Not many, I suspect.
You must be warrior in body and in heart. Those are the type of men women fuck, and other men respect. Everything else in the reproductive/respect game is superfluous.
Machiavelli summed this up best with the following quote:
"It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both."
Become a warrior, get loved later. Love does not come before power, it comes afterwards, if at all.
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