Not that he is actually going to care for them himself. We all know it's a status symbol for men.

MarshmellowMedic13 · 2020-12-21T19:05:11+00:00

Scrotes literally perceive women as incubators and then sexually available childcare. On my Obs and Gynae placement, the number of absolutely useless/ thoughtless “partners” is shocking to stay the least. One women was literally bleeding out with doctors surrounding her and her boyfriend was on WhatsApp videoing HIS mum. Speechless.

Anyway, this situation is absolutely ridiculous, she needs to end this relationship ASAP before he messes with her birth control or worse...

GlitterMars · 2020-12-21T19:38:22+00:00

I had an ex who I thought I was in a relationship with. One day he informed me that we're fuck buddies and not in a relationship (that was surprising after 4 months), and told me he does want to get married, but not to me (thank goodness), because he only wants someone who gives him children and cleans the house. Now, even if not all men are sociopathic enough to just say it like this, most of them definitely think it. Then they have the kids and start to resent their wives.

UnpeacefulLily · 2020-12-21T19:30:16+00:00

The funny thing is she doesn't even want kids.

I love the sub this was taken from. Everyone is telling her to dump him. I hope she follows through and joins #KickHimOut2020

Telephonia · 2020-12-21T18:52:33+00:00

Hahaha he’s gonna get dumped

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-21T19:03:31+00:00

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katthekanuck · 2020-12-21T19:37:14+00:00

I don’t really want kids for a number of reasons, but I’m at the point where I’ve decided if I DID have them, I would purposely use a sperm bank. If I’m going to potentially wreck my body pushing out babies it will be for no ones “status” but my own.

strangerinthealps_ · 2020-12-21T18:49:56+00:00

Friendly reminder that there’s still time to #KickHimOut2020.

WildTenderness · 2020-12-21T18:51:33+00:00

She's so close 😭

frogirl1993 · 2020-12-21T19:01:09+00:00

In otherworld I don't care if you live or die as long as you give me what I want

2020-12-21T19:46:09+00:00

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RabidWench · 2020-12-21T20:01:00+00:00

Any time these posters say "I don't know what to do" I want to start smacking them. YES YOU DO KNOW WHAT TO DO. They're just in those subs for people to talk them into the response that they KNOW in their gut is bad for them: ignoring all the red flags and being complacent until he ruins their life. I need deep breathing meditation after reading some of these....

Cognitivedecadence · 2020-12-21T19:05:47+00:00

OMG I hope she runs like hell from this relationship and never misses a BC pill

Wildestrose1988 · 2020-12-21T20:07:10+00:00

"issa jooooke" they'll always use that excuse whenever you call them out on their bullshit. You're not joking I'm having a serious conversation with you and you're telling me to go die. when she leaves him his life will continue to spiral out of control and she'll be better than ever

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-12-21T20:20:47+00:00

I found that guys below 25 are not good for relationships as a millenial myself. I wonder if that's true for Gen Z

CatusCactus · 2020-12-21T20:47:24+00:00

LVM like this see raising child as “women's’ work” & the men are only around for the fun stuff. Most men who get divorced don’t get full custody of their kids because they couldn’t handle it. The PTA meetings, making lunches, getting them dressed, etc. Usually they just remarry and get the step mom to do the work.

He doesn’t see her as a person, he sees her as a resource to give him and take care of kids. She doesn’t have her own dreams, life, etc., she’s just good to be a mom

sunologie · 2020-12-21T20:44:39+00:00

“How can someone who loves me talk like I’m just an incubator” honey... he’s a man...we are all just walking incubators to them.

BabyBlankieieieieie · 2020-12-21T20:20:17+00:00

You know what to do, babe! Kick. Him. Out!!!!

Telephonia · 2020-12-22T05:41:09+00:00

Wow.. are things getting worse, or is my mom just woke af?

She never did domestic labor, and made my dad hire someone to do it. Not bc they were rich, but bc she refused to do “second shift.” She just made my dad make more money bc that wasn’t something that was up for discussion. She was just like I’m not gonna do it so you do it or figure it out..

It seems creepily consistent for men to think that even tho they earn less the woman is more attractive, make more money, and do all the domestic labor.

Even tho my mom would like grandchildren she understands why I wouldn’t want kids and encourages me to adopt if I want them. She had very very easy pregnancies also from what I have gathered.

these guys just say the Darndest things..

Solid-Liquid · 2020-12-22T15:10:17+00:00

What is with men making “jokes” about their SO’s dying?

When I was seriously sick 2 years ago battling then unknown pneumonia, my ex didn’t contact me for 2 days, knowing I was sick. When I called his ass out for not checking up on me, he said that “he’ll be the first person at my funeral to make up for not checking on me”

...but was wondering why I was mad....

chatrebelle · 2020-12-22T02:59:12+00:00

So melodramatic, why don't you just die for what I want ?

awkchihuahua · 2020-12-22T19:57:31+00:00

I was having coffee with my best friend the other day and we were talking about why we both only want 1 child (more free time, careers, etc), and I said "I wonder why all the guys I meet want 2-5 kids", and she blurted out "because they don't have to actually take care of them", and man that hit me hard.

chateauduchat · 2020-12-22T02:11:28+00:00

Girl, just say you don’t want kids upfront instead of trying to sneak that fact in mid-relationship.

This is so much unnecessary drama.

He’s not saying you’re his personal incubator just because he tries to point out that dangerous pregnancy complications are unlikely for someone who is otherwise healthy.

He wants kids, you don’t. Neither of you are bad people because of that. Work it out or break up.

Title	Not that he is actually going to care for them himself. We all know it's a status symbol for men.
Author	whydenny
Upvotes	404
Comments	47
Date	December 21, 2020 6:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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