AWALT, even the person you think breaks that law

Rommel0502 · 2017-05-13T14:18:04+00:00

I think a problem some have with accepting AWALT is looking at it as a moral rather than a scientific fact. Getting pissed at a woman for acting on her evolutionary drives is no different than getting pissed at a peacock for mating with the male with the brightest feathers.

Women select mates in the way they do because natural selection has dictated that this is the best way to promote the species. Nothing more, nothing less. This is why sexual strategy is amoral. Its about survival of the fittest, not survival of the best feelings. Looking at it another way, if she didn't behave in this manner, that would actually imply something was wrong with her from a psychological perspective by going against her core drives.

No matter how sweet she seems, no matter what she says, she is still a product of thousands of years of evolution that determines at her core how she will act. The sooner you accept this, the happier you will be.

ctrl_alt_el1te · 2017-05-13T16:21:49+00:00

Side note: AWALT does not mean that all women are always going to be like 'that' at every moment. It means that all women have 'that' in them and it can come out at any moment.

Much more often than not it's the guy's fault for not holding it down as an alpha, but it can happen for any reason. So expect this and plan accordingly. NEVER lose your edge because as quickly as you may start to think she's the exception, she will find a way to teach you this fundamental truth. And you can't even get mad at her for it because it's all part of the game - all you can do is work on being a better player.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-05-13T18:26:02+00:00

Guess what?.. A week ago I find out she's hanging out with a guy at a coffee shop from a friend. She didn't tell me this. God knows what they were up to. I confront her the next day and she almost immediately breaks down in tears apologizing.

It's important not to assume anything actually happened beyond them being at a coffee shop.

AWALT means a woman will always have temptation.

AWALT does NOT mean she will always act on temptation.

Circumstances matter a lot. When fear of getting caught is very high she will be more interested in avoiding risk.

She took the risk of flirting and now she paid the price when she was caught.

It's justice I guess...

brinkleybuzz · 2017-05-13T21:39:55+00:00

You learned a valuable lesson about abundance mentality. I learned the same thing about 20 years ago when I was your age.

Young, attractive women naturally have an abundance mentality because they are constantly approached by guys. This gives them lots of options, which they constantly explore and evaluate. Know that when you're in a relationship, your girl is likely being pursued by other guys and she isn't shutting them all down because she thrives on the attention and validation. I've been with a number of women and this was the case for every one. Sure, there are levels to this, but AWALT.

In other words, women are the ultimate "players" in the relationship game, always working the angles, never revealing their hand and maximizing their advantages to get what they want, a relationship with the best possible man. 99 out of 100 women couldn't tell you how or why they do this because it's instinct, built into the female hard wiring which drives them to seek the best possible mate. AWALT is a feature not a bug.

The reason men get played in LTRs is because we get complacent. We get soft and stop improving ourselves and our SMV. We get oneitis and stop approaching and flirting with other women. Our girl has lots of other options but we don't have any. This results in the woman getting the balance of power in the relationship, which never ends well.

My advice to you is to spin plates before you get into another long term relationship. Read Rollo's post Plate Theory on the Rational Male blog to understand why this is so important to developing an abundance mentality and learning how to manage women in relationships.

The only way not to get played in the relationship game is to learn how to become a player.

Medical_Faggot · 2017-05-13T14:17:26+00:00

Seriously man good job. I don't know if I had the willpower right now to immediately ghost someone like that instantly. Any Tips? Are you in abundance mentality? Keeping chicks on the side? Meditate? Or do you just break it down to your personality which allowed you to do that

greatslyfer · 2017-05-13T21:23:16+00:00

I shit you not some guys will read this and still think they found the special unicorn that's different from every other girl.

sickofallofyou · 2017-05-13T19:31:35+00:00

My ex: A nice church girl that wanted to settle down and have 6 kids hoped on a coke dealer's dick first time I let her out of my sight, rode it to mexico, did coke with him (i couldn't get her to smoke a joint, and could afford all the coke she wanted), dumped him, his dealers showed up and stole her truck because he spent his drug money, then she hopped on her new landlord's dick to pay rent, bareback, got pregnant, then he locked her on a farm for a bit, abused her and she went crazy. She tried to get back with me after 7 years, from half way across the country. Blew my phone up for 6 months before I accidentally responded. Had to rip her heart out to get rid of her. She probably started cutting after that.

joh2141 · 2017-05-13T18:11:13+00:00

Yup and be sure not to become some bitter, boorish loser who's resentful at everything because of it either. It's just natural. Like when you see a fine piece of ass walking by. Honestly who gives a shit right? There's no harm done in looking and women look at guy's asses all the time as well? If you were to live life based on these questions and your mood reflected on that, you WOULD turn bitter.

So take stock and don't fool yourself no matter how infatuated you get with a woman; if she gets joy out of attention (and all women do; it's a "law" my MOTHER told me that if you don't show woman attention, they will die... kind of a sad admission) then chances are she's the same cock hungry slut who chases the tingles. Just like we are the same pigs who can't stop thinking about what we can stick our dicks in. It's just biological. If you WANT to be MORE than just "monkey see monkey do" about this nature, just don't compromise what makes you masculine... because you will forget what it means to be human.

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-05-13T19:35:44+00:00

Yes AWALT but dude grow up...

Learn from this. It's not popular opinion around these parts but you fucked up. You're also 18 for fucks sakes, getting tied down at that age is stupid for 2 reasons;

You miss out on a lot of potential options, not just women but career wise.
She's an 18 year old girl, if she's hot every man from your age to 70 wants a go. And people 10 years older than you have more game and money than you can ever have at your age - unless your a pro athlete in which case plow on.

'She was my unicorn. She was, to me, the only pure soul in a world filled with attention-seeking, dick chasing sluts.'

Fucking hell, I get it... AWALT - if you behave weak she will lose interest and go find somebody else. Women are non confrontational by nature and will do it on the sly, rarely leaving until the next option comes along. Have a long hard look at yourself and asses where/when you were weak and alter it for next time.

I say this because i've been there (many times). I know it sucks and it's a difficult hit your ego. But the benefits of 'doing it right' are tenfold. Your behaviour and attitude is the most important factor, you can't let it slip.

Kryptic_Knight · 2017-05-13T18:28:55+00:00

The real sad thing is that these stories will continue, even if these self proclaimed "red pills" think they've found a unicorn...they never do of course, what made it even worse is that OP frequented TRP, showing that people just peruse without actually implementing any of it.

TRP is a mantra, a bible, a lifestyle, not just cute little gems you can parrot to your friends.

ProfoundSavage · Sat May 13 15:24:23 2017 UTC

Solid post.

AWALT is a pure, objective, FACT that all of us need to accept at some point, and then accepting it isn't even enough. we need to continuously stoke this awareness by consistently reading posts just like this to remind us that there ARE NO UNICORNS.

argcisman · 2017-05-13T18:03:16+00:00

Just remember, only blaming AWALT when a girl cheats on you is just rationalizing that you did nothing wrong on your part. Sure, some girls cheat for the thrill and there is nothing you could've done about it. But more often that not it's the man's fault that she cheated. Maybe you went too much alpha and didn't show her enough comfort which is necessary to some extent for a healthy LTR. Or maybe you went too beta and go too clingy. It's up to each individual to self-reflect over what went wrong in the relationship. I just find it so lazy to just blame AWALT and not analyze what you might have done wrong.

HS_Did_Nothing_Wrong · 2017-05-13T16:02:09+00:00

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[deleted] · 2017-05-13T17:27:30+00:00

She was fine until caught and then upset and then blamed you. Of course, if you mentioned this she'd say she was conflicted and sad about it all along but then....blah....blah....blah

Typical. Shit's sad. Imagine being a typical woman.

This is why I will never LTR again.

Flynn-Lives · 2017-05-13T15:46:12+00:00

If you were "naturally red pilled" you'd plate the girl and see other women. i also had my fair share of premature nexting earlier on, to which several members of the community pointed out potential fault. It's an ego thing, you have to remove your sense if ego and pride from the equation. Why should they affect it anyway? Hoes gonna hoe.

thechaosz · 2017-05-13T19:24:02+00:00

What do you think you did wrong to revert away from the red pill? I was a beta till 30, found this sub and it's infinite knowledge, books, sites etc and never looked back. Though I acknowledge it's all life Long struggle and I'm still sheddin beta friends

They last 7 years have been amazing

2comment · 2017-05-13T20:50:35+00:00

Yup. Humans are gonna human.

We're just DNA machines. All there is are rule benders. Genetic/cultural/environmental/peer group/individual variation sets a different point women will act out their programming but it will never eliminate it. Same with men.

We're at a point in history where the culture works against men [men are automatically assumed the enemy, men actively work against each other for female validation, etc], her peer group is more times than not shitty, tech works against men [tinder and men became even more disposable than ever in general], environment works against men [here I mean modern food consumption triggering early puberty in females and other such variables], that an average dude can only hope that a) she's genetically and b) individually predisposed to be better than the rest. These are all-around shitty odds. And this unlikely angel will still likely cheat and branchswing 100x more than her identical self 300 years back.

Just think of it this way. You're in a tribe that just won a pyrrhic victory but lost a bunch of warriors, and thanks to the surviving widows the male to female ratio was now 1m to 3f. Plus, your gang killed the elderly, lame, annihilated or enslaved all the other men of the other side and now there are around 4 fertile female slaves for every man -- you'd think many men of the tribe would be monogamous or abstain?

And that's what modern women have every day, a couple dozen dicks waved at them in every direction with no real consequences of grabbing the ones she just feels like. So she cheats? She comes out neutral or ahead financially in divorce and same in the social group. And why would she give a shit anyway. The next cock listening to her sob story is around the next corner.

But instead of being dead like the male-favoring alternative, the lower men are just invisible. We know this was the typical history from genetic analysis, around 80% of women had kids, only 40% guys. So it's almost always been this way on some level, just now amplified. The table is tilted, game is rigged. You play on female terms, you lose. The only way out is to be a top 20% guy, also less invested in any relationship than they are and maintaining options. And they'll love you for it, too.

BargainBinBoyfriend · 2017-05-13T22:54:13+00:00

You got strength, kid. The great majority of guys would have broken down after a week of that.

nsquared5 · 2017-05-13T15:55:07+00:00

Recently, I went to a distant family member's funeral with my aunt, who is twice my age. I am in my late 20s.

Before we reached the funeral, she was pretty normal and was conversing as usual. As soon as she reached there and met any relative, she would cry like babies for 10 20 seconds and then would go back to normal. Thanks to redpill, i could scratch beyond the surface and see the real value of those tears, and the power they would have had in her relationship. She is married to a guy who was pretty alpha before marriage and slowly turned into a complete beta. I can connect the dots now.

I really thought she was an amazing women, which i think she still is, but then AWALT. They cannot overcome their programming to manipulate the shit out of anybody and would continue doing so till it solves their agenda.

beginner_ · 2017-05-13T16:10:51+00:00

AWALT yes.

Still, if you are going to freak out so easily, best not to LTR at all and only do plates. You know it will happen and what you will do so why be exclusive at all if it bothers you so much?

JamesStarkIE · 2017-05-13T20:18:47+00:00

Ehh, the formatting came out as a wall of text on my Necro comment, I hope you guys aren't TL/DR obsessed, the lyrics and song are well worth the read and listen!

noct3rn4l · 2017-05-13T20:43:22+00:00

u/twelvepac Ah, to be young again haha. Ghosting is a solid option but definately not the best for your penis. Hear these wise words of wisdom, downgrade her to a regular plate, make her work for your affections, but keep it moving and keep seeing other girls. Pussy loves a feeding frenzy, and if a chick is that crazy to create 14 fake fb accounts, the frenzy is strong in that one. This isn't the safest course of action, but crazy is fun as hell and you're only 18, enjoy it and bring her out to public locations and be a social butterfly and let her unwittingly be your secret weapon to disarm and declothe as much talent as you can handle.

Spoopsnloops · 2017-05-13T23:35:43+00:00

I block her

and have ghosted her since

I am not mad, sad or hurt

That's red pill. AWALT is AWALT, but maybe what some people can't get is that it's how you handle it and yourself. You can fall too deeply/obsessively in love and let your heart and soul be crushed, or you can be emotionally stable about it.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-16T01:27:24+00:00

I don't understand what's so hard about the term unicorn. They're called unicorns because they don't fucking exist. That's precisely why we call them that. If she's too good to be true, then guess what Motherfucker? She is too good to be true. You find a unicorn? Good Now slap some sense into yourself and see her for what she really is.

redpect · 2017-05-13T18:41:11+00:00

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JamesStarkIE · 2017-05-13T20:16:51+00:00

this is my first comment on TRP(have been Lurking a while and am a 40 year old long term AMOG who has been a Self Defense Instructor for 15 years and many more in the Security Game so maintaining AMOG is often a matter of keeping your teeth in,and in some cases of Life and Death) so I hope I understood the rules properly as I am basically quoting the Lyrics from a Necro track here as I

Believe it to be on point(and from 2001 so is in my Era of favourite music and shows that Pussy has always been AWALT and Certain Men have Always been AMOG's)

and 2. That you all including(especially!) the OP could do with listening to the track in question(Long term TRP'ers will get a good laugh out of it, and new heads will get some pointers)

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11. The 12 king pimp commandments!

Uh It's pimp gator Peep the jewels

A king pimp's been here for years representin' There's rules to this shit I'll break down a lesson Step by step Like a booklet for you to sweat And try to apply To make yourself fly No. 1: must be strong in mind and spirit When idiots talk inferior shit Brush it off when you hear it Never fear it Don't put a knife to a broad Cause the penis is mightier than the sword Peep the metaphor You'll find more Cats invaded your crib with nickel-plated 38's imitatin' Satan you wouldn't be intimidated You must play past the devils trickery Prison, liquor and hits of E Nicotine and chicks with V.D

No. 2: must control seven or eight cunts at once A freak for each day of the week, the eight is a lottery stunt Must handle them with cleverness, kindness, shrewdness Intelligence but never with an iron-fist

No. 3: only fuck with a bitch when you're both clickin' Sparrows don't fly with eagle, peacocks can't strut with chickens

4: must withstand all criticism Cause a man whose wife is gettin' pimped doesn't understand her sippin' Jism It's a profitable business to rationalize into cynicism That it's wrong but it isn't

No. 5: never let a female be equal with you Equal right's a fantasy it will come back to normal soon Refuse to have oral-sex with your woman unless you choose Do not accept: if you do me, I'll do you She was put on earth to serve men She may enjoy a cuntlick, but deep down she'll loose respect for you then Only animals you see lickin' sex organs are dogs and cats Females know, during their period cunts are filthy like rats

6: you'll use violence in self-defense To protect yourself, friends, family, women and what you possess

No. 7: never strike a bitch with a pipe or a knife Only strike 'em to shock 'em back to reality's light Toss a bottle at her, hit her with a golf club Break a mirror over her head but never make her draw blood You can start flippin' Grippin' her like a victim But never start hittin' This is called the king pimp's whippin'

No. 8: since Cleanliness is next to godliness You must keep your hygiene clean regardless A shower a day'll do and keep your physical being In the best condition possible it could be in

No. 9: you're never stingy, greedy, drifty or cheap When it comes to you and your peeps You owe yourself the best treats

No. 10: never sweat when a bitch leaves you knowing The story of a man's life, a bitch coming and one going They come better the next time They only make room for a higher grade bitch, the next one is always a Better kind

*11: you're only expected to keep a woman a term of four years unless You're fortunate enough to get re-elected And if she leaves before her term is up, she faked it Cause she wasn't ready for a king pimp anyway, kid Let her fuck with the other 51 pimp-types, they're better for her Welfare pimp, blind pimp, dumb pimp etcetera 12: there's leaders and followers

A king pimp never follows a hollow-headed dick swallower Or a trick equipped with a wallet full of dollars Even a scholar Of Cabala doesn't get followed The only one that got it like that solid is god, kid Cause he's brolicy, understands every topic on how a pimp rocks shit Follow these rules, you'll have mad D-cups and A-cups Bitches runnin' around butt naked with pretty make-up The respect these bitches will have for you will be sacred Slut, pay up I'll put your fuckin' head in the toilet, wake up!

The 12 king pimp commandments No doubt Respect it It's pimp gator All you pimps all over the earth Rock with this" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2oJOJ7_V6k

i_have_a_semicolon · 2017-05-13T14:48:49+00:00

You know, a girl can suppress her AWALT just fine if she's getting what she needs from the guy she's with. Her fault for not communicating it to you prior, but she likely doesn't even understand her AWALT tendencies. It's fine for you to live your life however you want. But I believe that since she didn't violate any rules in relationships , you guys could have fixed this problem going forward. Oh well.

You can't ever get a unicorn. If you don't work on the relationships you're in, you'll never have a successful one. But since you're so young you should have a few fuck ups under your belt so you know what's what.

It's never one person's fault when relationships split up.

wn36 · 2017-05-13T17:48:00+00:00

She told you OVERTLY that you weren't being man enough. She cheated because of you. You're not red pill bro.

Unstoppable316 · 2017-05-13T17:11:49+00:00

You guys really think ALL women are like this? I'd say this isn't the case in super religious areas, or with a lot of the older married couples I know. I think you guys create a self-fulfilling prophecy by expecting this. I'd agree that all liberal feminist women like this, but if you come from a time or place where it's one man and one woman, and the family is valued highly, this doesn't happen nearly as much.

paynehouse · 2017-05-13T19:04:30+00:00

You should use her for sex now. Nothing more, nothing less.

redrummilf · 2017-05-14T00:55:14+00:00

I've been all good with the AWALT for a long time. Every romantic relationship I've had with women has ended on my terms. I walked away from my true oneitus once upon a time after seeing her 5 years later on a train in a different city. Walked right away because she had too much power over me and I guessed how things might end up. I've questioned myself a few times over the years about whether I should have given the relationship a chance. Had fate brought us together again in a different city far from where we grew up because we were meant to be? Did I walk away from my soulmate? There is one thing that has finally put my mind completely at rest and has left no doubt that I did the right thing.

Brad Pitt.

The man of ALL men could not keep his woman in check. What chance do the rest of us mortals truly have of guaranteeing loyalty from our woman? Well let me tell you its alot fucking less than Brad. AWALT²

You red pilled married super duper alpha men keep telling yourself you have everything taken care of. You don't. None of us do. Never ever. Ever never.

ranoutofthrowaways2 · 2017-05-14T04:34:16+00:00

What if she wasn't doing anything with the guy? I mean where I live, it's pretty normal for a girl to go hang with a guy, without needing permission from her boyfriend.

StirlingG · Sun May 14 4:37:33 2017 UTC

She will possibly learn a great lesson from your appropriate response the first time she fed on this instinct. The next man will be very lucky. It can never be you, though.

paintboy71 · 2017-05-14T19:08:08+00:00

What if denying our instincts is one of our instincts?

GOATmar · 2017-05-14T19:42:06+00:00

Great post, and almost mirrors my first adult relationship.

Women are all stimulus junkies, and social media addiction/cock-hopping/hollywood/hookup culture has corrupted every single one of them. This cultural indoctrination is so powerful, you cannot blame them for succumbing to this immense pressure. So getting angry is futile.

Treat every woman with this in mind and you will never lose.

beundertaker · 2017-05-14T02:10:48+00:00

Relax you're 18 kid. you haven't experienced shit. you need to fall for a couple more unicorns.

enkae7317 · 2017-05-13T23:52:04+00:00

I understand AWALT but damn bro. She was just out with another guy at a coffee shop it could just be a friend ya know. Don't you think you might've overreacted a little bit too hard?

politbur0 · 2017-05-14T03:35:14+00:00

So I met a girl about a year-and-a-half ago and we had been dating since in an LTR. Having just turned 18

Edgy teenagers seem to have taken this sub over, eh.

HarmonizedInsanity · 2017-05-13T14:54:48+00:00

I have my unicorn, she has a lot of masculine mental tendencies and doesn't want kids still even at 30. We aren't getting married anytime soon even after 5.5 years. Our finances are seperate but she pays her half. She ingests red pill content on her own time.

I've been a beta bitch in the past, but after that I know she's serious when she says I'm the only person she can stand to be around. She pushes me to do what I want, even if it's quitting a well paying but shit job.

And if she were to AWALTs one day, it would suck, but i would recover by slaying mountains of 20 something gash.

Title	AWALT, even the person you think breaks that law
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Date	May 13, 2017 1:12 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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