Won 50/50 custody yesterday of my son never give up fight for you’re kids. Woman wanted 900 a month plus daycare pushing $1500 a month now she gets around 100 bucks a month and must split daycare putting her negative hundreds per month. A outcome usually doesn’t happen never give up. Went thru hell.

Camstermail · 2019-03-06T15:09:02+00:00

They can truly be evil even after months of her having my son months of getting financially shafted she wanted me to even pay her Attorny fees. Thankfully I had really good friends that helped me financially and a crafty legal team if it wasn’t for that I would have lost terribly yesterday. I am beyond thankful of the people standing behind me. I only wanted to share custody of my son and she wanted it all. Now she can Enjoy her massive mortgage on her house with no support from me 😁

wastingtoomuchthyme · 2019-03-06T16:01:46+00:00

What state?

Also it ain't over bro. I've been there and had something similar happen - lucky for me she forged my name on some financial documents and I could prove it... Made the future a bit easier

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-03-06T17:47:19+00:00

Good for you brother.

DO NOT MARRY ANYMORE. Please.

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-03-06T14:54:33+00:00

Congrats!

stent00 · 2019-03-06T17:33:36+00:00

Good to hear a success story at a reasonable settlement for 2019. My question is did your ex make about the same money as you? In my situation me ex was a stay at home mom and my lawyers even said It would be impossible for me to get primary custody because of that fact. I get raped for 1650 a month and get my kids about 35 % of the time. I make over 80 grand a year and she makes barely 19 a year.

murph55 · 2019-03-06T15:04:42+00:00

Awesome! You are the 3rd sucess story on this topic I've heard in the past three weeks! Things are turning guys, its just too slow!

DangZagnut · 2019-03-06T14:55:42+00:00

Good news for a Wednesday morning.

Docbear64 · 2019-03-06T16:44:06+00:00

My friend got 50 /50 custody and was saying the courts were being nicer to fathers now . they reduced how much he needed to pay severely .

I hope it's true to many men get ruined financially for simply wanting to be involved in their childrens lives and not running away and hiding like a coward.

jkarovskaya · 2019-03-06T18:57:56+00:00

This sounds excellent.

As a precaution, I would change all passwords on your bank, investment, and financial accounts, and go 2 factor

Change locks on your house/apartment if she ever had a key and could have made a copy.

Inform people at your office that she is not allowed in to see you at work, because she could cause huge trouble or make a scene.

Delete all social media , at least for now. Later on you could create new under a slightly different name, make sure to block her

Make sure all your friends /family know what's going on.

Change your phone # so she can't use it or have someone else call/text you

Meet her in a public place to exchange the children, best to have a recording device (if it's legal in your state) and RECORD EVERY WORD SHE SAYS.

If you ever have to go into her house, bring a friends as a witness, so she can't accuse you of abuse or assault.

good luck!

fugitived · 2019-03-06T16:19:31+00:00

I'm so so happy for you I know what you are going through. Tomorrow is my turn... Wish me luck.

justletmemakeanacc · 2019-03-06T16:08:42+00:00

Congratulations man. Revenge is toxic but sometimes it feels so damn good.

rsXer · 2019-03-06T16:49:54+00:00

Congrats!! Wow! I’m stuck with 915 a month. Shitty ass lawyer.

Ih8Feministsandsjws · 2019-03-06T18:17:37+00:00

Woman wanted 900 a month plus daycare pushing $1500 a month now she gets around 100 bucks a month and must split daycare putting her negative hundreds per mont

Very happy for her.

GopherItMan · 2019-03-06T16:02:37+00:00

Congrats man! It is hard for men out there now.

sicrobb033 · 2019-03-06T17:46:53+00:00

congrats on that, i won 60 (me) - 40 (her) for my daughter 3 months ago. after around 10k in attorney fees and kicking the mom out, i get the child support and hold all basic rights to her. now the mom has to come to me to visit or anything.

9_line07-15 · 2019-03-06T19:33:26+00:00

Brother! You sound just like me. I’ve said it a hundred times. NEVER give up fighting for your kids. I have two boys as well and got my 50/50 a few years ago. I as well went through hell to prove that just because I was a man, and had just left the military, I still can love my kiddos. Damn good at it too. Take a wild guess who actually checks their hw, who helps them with math (they’re about a year ahead in that subject), who throws the football and gets out in the snow with them, etc. etc. I’m happy for you man! Congratulations! Now get out there and raise your son. Help us dads show society and these brain dead women we are JUST as important and capable of showing affection to our kids.

nunhgrader · 2019-03-06T16:44:10+00:00

Good for you! I mean the outcome - not the stress btw. You should write a book about the entire ordeal.

InputEmitter · 2019-03-06T16:46:06+00:00

Congratulations!

Satyricon6 · 2019-03-06T16:51:40+00:00

Congratulations! Your a father that gives a shit about his child. Glad you stuck it to her!

gbevans · 2019-03-06T17:30:18+00:00

who's your lawyer?

pablosito · 2019-03-06T17:36:25+00:00

Did you have to pay for her lawyer?

Dan77UK · 2019-03-06T16:47:24+00:00

Congratulations dude

NotMyWomen · 2019-03-06T17:10:38+00:00

raises fist

jigaboorainstorm · 2019-03-06T17:54:46+00:00

My trial is end of this month. Yes a fucking trial how embarrassing and trashy and mine is asking for all of the same things plus lifetime alimony.

Here we go !

JBD_ExaneE39 · 2019-03-06T16:14:18+00:00

I'm considering filing for divorce but my genuine fear that she will neglect my kids has me petrified to make a move. I literally am Mr. Mom, however as all of us know here that because she has a vagina she is automatically a "more suitable parent". If you don't mind me asking what route did you take to gain 50/50? I feel my only option is to prove she's unfit to have them but my knowledge on the subject is lacking.

Samuraidweeb · 2019-03-06T16:32:23+00:00

No thanks bro

gaia2008 · 2019-03-06T17:59:07+00:00

Yeah brother Man

badgerninjacow · 2019-03-06T18:01:16+00:00

Great news.

TheTastelessBatman · 2019-03-06T19:21:07+00:00

Small step for man, giant leap for MGTOW. Kudos man

listerine411 · 2019-03-06T19:29:09+00:00

I feel like so many cases where the guy gets screwed, it's because the guys rolls over and falls on his sword.

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2019-03-06T19:55:52+00:00

Well done mate!

Maybe judges are starting to wake up too?

God knows it's about time. Instead of pandering to women the justice system needs to go back to being "just" again.

AverageLedditor · 2019-03-06T20:26:38+00:00

really makes you think what a child needs 1500 euros for lmao

MuleFool42 · 2019-03-06T20:32:21+00:00

Nice! Society goes along with the idea that the child is "hers" only and so usually family court goes along with that. But if the court makes men pay because 'it's his child too and he's the parent/legal guardian and responsible', then nobody should be complaining when fathers fight for their kids, take care of them, and don't send money to the mother just 'because.'

I don't think women are prepared to be away from their kids that much, this is great and I hope things go well for you.

duescruentus · 2019-03-06T22:01:12+00:00

Sad that winning means 50/50, shouldn’t that be the standard?

Congrats man, you went through hell for a great cause

coeetus · 2019-03-06T22:01:20+00:00

happy for you but sorry in the great scheme of things. but you seem to have a great positive attitude. hope the bs will end sooner than later. best of luck!

jc27 · 2019-03-06T22:38:40+00:00

Honestly, thank you for diving on the grenade for the rest of us. By refusing to roll over and take it, you're contributing to changing attitudes around men during divorce proceedings.

Turns out we can care about kids and aren't just an ATM/provider, who knew?

Orangecup05 · 2019-03-06T23:20:28+00:00

As happy as I am for you -it's nothing at all compared to how happy I am for your son who will get both his parents.

Congratulations to you, brother -but it ain't about you. Congratulations to your son. His father is a good man.

Spilledmychips · 2019-03-06T23:23:30+00:00

Yep the courts are aware of the “I’m a woman the courts will believe me”

I sat in front of a female judge who told the woman I was charging she didn’t believe her story at all. After all the “I’m a female, I’m successful, people love me, I would never do anything this male claims.”

Right on Op

tangoshotz · 2019-03-06T23:47:14+00:00

Massive congrats dude, I’m sure your son will thank you for being a good father in the future.

Sparta_00 · 2019-03-07T03:36:51+00:00

I really believe the courts are very slowly turning. A lot of these judges hear this shit all day and always the same bitching. It's starting to catch up to the women like the boy who cried wolf.

st8ovmnd · 2019-03-06T17:42:53+00:00

congratulations brother! it's the best feeling in the world.

mgtoman · 2019-03-06T17:51:37+00:00

Want to give us details of the legal team?

Thermotastic · 2019-03-06T18:22:33+00:00

This is great news and a even bigger step forward for you and many others that have to deal with such difficult times. Women want it all and none of the responsibilities.

AntiAbleism · 2019-03-06T18:40:10+00:00

Nice, a victory for men!

RobertTheGenius · 2019-03-06T18:48:32+00:00

Proud of you for fighting for your children. I did and I'm much happier and I know you will be to 👏🏻👏🏻

Global_MGTOW · 2019-03-06T19:22:56+00:00

Congrats!

VVXMR · 2019-03-06T19:24:47+00:00

Congrats man never give up the fight.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-03-06T19:32:52+00:00

Congrats, I hope more men start doing this.

TheArbiter1224 · 2019-03-06T19:48:59+00:00

Lucky man. Im glad it turned out the way it did.

ValhallaWillCome · 2019-03-06T19:58:19+00:00

I hear so many horror stories it truly warms my heart when I hear stuff like this. Chin up, be proud and teach your son how to be a proper man! Best of luck in the future!

cleverbutnotoverlyso · 2019-03-06T20:45:03+00:00

Sometimes you’re the bug this time you got to be the windshield. Congratulations !

Lunchie83 · 2019-03-06T20:52:28+00:00

Yes!

JackIsBackWithCrack · 2019-03-07T02:03:44+00:00

So she doesn’t have to pay child support? Typical.

fickle_fuck · 2019-03-07T02:43:51+00:00

I think the point of this post along with all the men chiming in and congratulating him is just another reason that you should never get married. OP is one of the lucky ones in a lot of ways.

Hot5oup · 2019-03-07T07:07:43+00:00

Love your son to the fullest and do whatever you can for him. Great job and keep up the good work

YoungCardiac · 2019-03-07T09:51:04+00:00

Damn Straight! Good on you mate!

coldfusion718 · 2019-03-06T20:55:16+00:00

Get into the habit of always opening/closing a rear passenger door of your car each time you leave it.

This will build muscle memory so that you never accidentally forget your son on a “one-off” day.

Those days will also come out of nowhere. She will call you when you’re in a rush and ask you to take him to daycare because she’s just not feeling well that day.

Congratulations on your win! Your son has a bright future now that he has a man in his life.

astuteglute · 2019-03-06T22:02:53+00:00

Congratulations! Mine went down to 1/3rd of my pay from 1/2 and I get them half of the time bc I spent half of my gross income on attorney fees.

pixelies · 2019-03-06T22:03:39+00:00

Great news! Congrats!

Camstermail · 2019-03-07T00:37:36+00:00

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Camstermail · 2019-03-07T00:38:37+00:00

If you have 50/50 custody she shouldn't get any money from you. That's blatant misandryism on the part of the gynocentric court system.

AutisticCyborg · 2019-03-07T01:07:12+00:00

Well done bro God bless.

newyorker1818 · 2019-03-07T01:15:26+00:00

Fuck you I won't do what ya tell me intensifies

unsoives · 2019-03-07T02:01:02+00:00

Congragulations dude that's amazing!

ManyRoadLessTraveled · 2019-03-07T02:26:53+00:00

Awesome. Congrats. Be careful and document. She coming for more.

wolfoftheworld · 2019-03-07T02:59:53+00:00

I'm glad you conquered the system, bruh! Good on you! At least your son will still be able to see you more than some dads who get the complete shaft.

Sparta_00 · 2019-03-07T03:26:24+00:00

Have a "friend" introduce her to heroin. Problem solved. I've got full custody lol.

Thompoes2002 · 2019-03-07T10:51:33+00:00

How did she react?

MabMouldheelX · 2019-03-07T16:14:05+00:00

900$ a damn fucking month? What the fuck??? Thats insane? What was her full reasoing???

rsXer · 2019-03-07T16:49:18+00:00

Too late to fight. Case is closed. Bank account maxed out. It’s funny to me how she has her masters from a reputable university and I haven’t even gone to high school and I’m expected to make bank and pay. So pathetically unjust. I wish the judge told her lazy ass to get up an get a job.

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