Why does TRP advocate against marriage?
Cheating
Between 15-70\% of married women cheat.
I’ve read numerous studies on what percent of married women cheat. They vary wildly - from 15% to 70% (Source, Source). Keep in mind that these numbers are self-reported. In a separate study when asked their partner count, women doubled the number of partners they originally reported after being told they would be subjected to a polygraph test. This leads me to believe at bare minimum 30-40\% of married women cheat.
In addition, since 1990 the number of married women who report having an affair has increased 40%. The number of men who cheat has stayed steady during this same time period. It appears women are starting to believe that having an affair while married is actually good for their marriage (and because of technology they can get away with it)(Source). According to psychologist Dr. David Holmes, a marriage expert, women are also significantly better at hiding their infidelities than men. In his experience women who cheat rarely get caught, while men get caught more frequently and admit to having cheated when confronted.
Sex
Only 48\% of married women want regular sex after four years (Source)
The odds of you getting married and having more sex than if you weren’t married over a 10 year-period is pretty much nil (assuming you’re not the Hunchback of Notre Dame). Not to mention you’re fucking the same woman the entire time. Not to mention she’s probably getting roasted by some other dude on the side and you won’t even be able to tell.
For additional reading go ahead and look into what happens to a woman’s sex drive after she has a child (or what happens to her vagina), take a look into what percentage of marriages are sexless, or pull up the data on how often you have sex after your partner moves in with you or marries you (hint: less, and less). Getting married will likely result in you being unsatisfied with your sex life.
Divorce
Men only get full (6.6\%) or partial (12.8\%) custody of their children after a divorce 19.4\% of the time (Source).
Your kids aren’t yours. Not only will you rarely get to see them, but because they are raised by their mother they will constantly be told what a terrible person you are. Nothing like having your kids taken away from you, and then having them hate you, and all of this being completely out of your control.
Approximately 40-50\% of marriages end in divorce.
Women also initiate the vast majority of these divorces. When you take into account no-fault divorce combined with her ability to force you into paying alimony and child support, is this really a surprise? When it comes to marriage men have everything to lose and nothing to gain, women have everything to gain and nothing to lose
The U.S. Census Bureau reports that 37\% of married women making more than their husbands, but only 3\% of men receive alimony. Make more than your wife? Pay up sucker. Men pay 97\% of alimonies.
Have a pre-nuptial? Judge can still void it at his discretion. No matter how great your lawyers are, you aren’t walking away from a divorce without shelling out some series dough. There is a cost to stupidity, and when it comes to divorce it’s a number that can be calculated.
Do The Math
If 30-40% of married women cheat, and 52% of married women don’t want sex after four years, and 40-50% of marriages end in divorce, how good do you think the odds of you having a marriage that isn’t a complete train-wreck is? Sure, there’s some overlap between each statistic, but even then the odds are downright terrible. Maybe 20%? If you're lucky? And those are only three factors.
Here’s The Kicker Ya’ll
My favorite study is when men are asked what the probability is that a woman will cheat, they say 50%. Those same men are then asked what the probability is that their partner will cheat on them, and they say 5%. We hamster away the odds of bad shit happening to us because we believe we are different. Every man knows more about relationships, and red flags, and women than every other man. That stuff doesn't happen to us because we are so smart and experienced. It happens to other men. I've got news for you brother, you are not the exception. Your logic as to why you are different isn't logic, it's your hamster after snorting an eight-ball.
On top of that, the media continues to tell us not to be afraid of marriage. The majority of articles I read that present this information end by saying…”but there’s hope!” or some other bullshit like that. They quote a psychologist or therapist who is either a woman or SJW that is telling us that it’s going to be okay and not to worry. They are right. Women should not be worried. Feminists should not be worried. There isn’t a man in existence that shouldn’t be scared shitless. It’s your children and money that are on the line.
Final Words
When you decide to put a ring on it be sure to visit Walmart first and buy a shopping cart worth of vaseline. You’ll need it in 5 years when your wife’s divorce lawyer bends you over his office desk.
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