Do women ever get any enjoy from sex

LillthOfBabylon · 2020-04-19T15:29:13+00:00

I hear they only have sex for there Husbands or Boyfriends out of obligation.

What asexuals do you live around?

Women like great sex, most of them dont want to rely on strangers giving it to us. And the women who do have alot of hookups and ONS disproportionately have problems.

mindsanitizer · 2020-04-19T15:44:33+00:00

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Asbelowsoaboveme · 2020-04-19T15:48:18+00:00

I love sex the most with a dominant good looking guy who’s romantically committed. The hottest part is knowing he’ll still be there in the morning, and knowing he has other options but only wants YOU.

Relationship sex is the really dirty kinky degrading stuff, I can really let my guard down and enjoy because I feel comfortable and safe and loved. Kink during casual sex feels more like a performance to make the guy like you, rather than an exciting bonding experience through vulnerability and power exchange. I have better, more frequent orgasms from penetration in committed sex.

rubbooyuri · 2020-04-19T17:49:12+00:00

I love having sex with a considerate, non-repulsive man who makes an effort, is considerate, and listens.

I tried disrespectful sex with randos, and awkward, selfish sex with guys who didn’t care. Other women can have em.

bonusfruit · 2020-04-19T17:19:08+00:00

This sub is a poor sample pool. Go to r/sex and read women admit they are addicted to their men's cum, crave more sex than he can provide, and all sorts of thirsty tmi until you're sick

PollaTronante · 2020-04-20T03:20:50+00:00

This post is a joke, right?

AngelFire_3_14156 · 2020-04-19T15:25:01+00:00

That second sentence is so NOT true, especially when you have an attentive lover!!!

I thoroughly enjoy sex with my husband. It's difficult not to, and since we've been in lockdown I've been enjoying him quite a bit.😉

NarniaFox · 2020-04-19T15:48:54+00:00

It is exaggerated. Although women tend to have lower sex drive and it seems to be totally accepted and even expected from them to have sex when they aren't in the mood, they can enjoy sex. It's just harder for them to enjoy any sex, as without partner being attentive to their pleasure, it's quite hard to get orgasm.

Penetration can be great and can be a disaster, it depends on the context. A lot of women can't get off only due yto penetration, so without enough foreplay and attention to clit it can be quite dull.

Visserman75 · 2020-04-19T23:30:47+00:00

Theres lots of asexual women on purplepilldebate. Don't think they are anything close to a representation of the women you would meet in your daily life.

SplushkaMcOwlFace · 2020-04-19T15:30:08+00:00

I had a bad experience in previous relationships. In my current relationships, it's great. It all depends on a man.

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Mrs_Drgree · 2020-04-19T15:55:15+00:00

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Mimoxs · 2020-04-19T17:26:58+00:00

Only enjoyable if they're semi-strangers. Once you get to know someone well it becomes boring.

And no that does not change depending on who you are. If you're the most attractive man on Earth it's still true.

keepcalmandhydrate · 2020-04-19T17:55:43+00:00

Uhhh, wut? o.0

Of course women can enjoy sex. The guy has to be willing to learn what that woman likes, but it’s definitely possible. To be fair, women need to learn what their man likes too. That’s just the golden rule.

The times that I haven’t enjoyed were because I wasn’t in the right headspace to enjoy it or there was half-ass foreplay before a brief period of missionary jack rabbiting.

TL;DR - your lady will enjoy sex if you let her teach you a few basic moves and don’t force her to fuck you when she’s not in the mood to do so.

Reisiluu · 2020-04-19T19:45:11+00:00

Women get enjoyment out of sex when the sex is good physically and/or emotionally. Those who hate it are not having it with the right partner, or have a medical or medicine related problem. For example, hormonal birth control can affect the ability to get aroused and lack of arousal makes sex painful.

WicGoingAnonymous · 2020-04-19T21:47:09+00:00

Good sex is amazing. A-ma-Z-ing.

The problem is that you need a guy to be good at sex or good at listening and execution in order to have good sex.

For a women, it's easy to have bad sex. It's hard to have good sex.

And that's why you are probably getting a different vision by being on this sub. Because for instance, I'm someone that brings up that 'good sex isn't just penetration with a random dude' on here a lot (and I stand by that), but that's within the context of a lot RP here saying that women at least had fun out of their pump and dump, so they weren't tricked, and even if they were tricked, they got their fair share.

Like...that doesn't work with a typical women with a typical female sexuality. Women invest bad sex to get good sex in return. In a pump and dump, they don't get a return for their investment.

Which isn't the same as saying that women don't like sex.

Female_urinary_maze · 2020-04-19T23:49:06+00:00

The sad state of affairs you described is completely avoidable.

Penetration feels terrible if the woman is not warmed up and aroused. If she's actually ready it feels great!

A man can usually give a woman orgasms if the two of them communicate so that he knows what feels good for her. Not all women can orgasm from penetration alone, but for most of those who don't all it takes is adding clitoral stimulation. (Which is very easy to do with your fingers before during or after penetrative sex)

These sex ed videos may help you get started in regards to understanding how women orgasm and feel sexual pleasure in general. https://youtu.be/EmCA7jr0bCs https://youtu.be/hUB0A-a1ROs

RottenRobyn · 2020-04-22T20:59:04+00:00

This sub really doesn’t seem to understand that all people are different, and not every member of every gender likes the exact same things. In general, sex is a physically and mentally pleasurable activity for most women. It’s true that not all females can experience orgasm through penetration alone, but it’s possible for a woman to enjoy a sexual experience even without reaching orgasm. Some women can climax through sex while others can’t, some women get off to sex while others do it for their partners. It really just depends on the individual in question.

slavicgypsygirl · 2020-04-22T21:44:22+00:00

I only like non exclusive dating but thoroughly enjoy sex

Sexual incompatibility does happen sometimes but has been very rare for me

tenchi1 · 2020-04-23T03:59:17+00:00

Men who didn’t care about my experience are the reason why I didn’t enjoy sex for many years. They would get their fun and that was it. They were not invested in my pleasure. They were selfish and did not care to either wait until I came or ensure that I would come.

If women are routinely not enjoying themselves with you you should communicate with them more freely during sex and ask them what they want what they like and make sure they orgasm, too. My sex life with my husband is the best sex I’ve ever had because he cares about my experience and is attentive to my needs (as I attend to his as well). Mutuality is critical to a fulfilling sex life. Make sure she orgasms :)

FlavFal · 2020-04-19T15:33:47+00:00

Those women are probably having sex with ugly limp dicked men. I have no issues orgasming from penetration, multiple times in fact.

TheOGJammies · 2020-04-20T04:51:55+00:00

We love sex. Most men are just garbage at sex. Porn sex is trash.

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-04-19T15:28:02+00:00

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Lacuna-Foil · 2020-04-19T16:50:32+00:00

I'm certainly capable of it, and I have had a couple of good rounds, but for the most part I've just... not. But I think that's more having terrible taste in boyfriends when I was younger and not dating much as I got older.

Once or twice it was just truly terrible, the others were mostly just to make the dude I was dating happy. It always was over fairly quickly so it didn't chew up my day or anything.

wtknight · 2020-04-19T16:46:39+00:00

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Title	Do women ever get any enjoy from sex
Author	bluefiremagic
Upvotes	6
Comments	71
Date	April 19, 2020 3:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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