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[–]32WithKidsAndDatingFDS Newbie106 points107 points108 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I feel like we should have a “big sister” program for someone to help us newbs get through this mess Lololol
[–]HottPinkSlugFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, Ive wanted to get some kind of 'old lady' designation flair on here
[–]SumtingUnique2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed!
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it'd be nice to have a space to ask any burning questions without making a new post!
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks! I knew there was something like thst but for some reason I don't come across it while scrolling.
[–]sira130 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That would be awesome
[–]thedevinefemmeFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a nice idea
[–]meo0722FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great idea!!
[–]chickennuggetspicyyyFDS Newbie75 points76 points77 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Joined 2 months ago & I literally owe everything to this sub for getting me through my breakup w a narc. I feel so empowered & proud to be a newbie 🥰
[–]ginnnnieFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sub makes my heart happy, I feel like people think like me and it’s amazing. High standards FTW!!
[–]LovLeighFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This gives me the warm fuzzies. I don’t know y’all, but I love y’all 💞
[–]feminist-hermioneAt-Risk Pick Me Youth19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I already loved this sub when I first started lurking. Getting flaired "at-risk pick me youth" when I first posted instead of "newbie" made me realize I really needed to get my shit together, and I appreciated this sub even more. Because that's why I joined - to help me get my shit together on becoming a HVW and dating HVM. 💕
[–]sugarcokeeeFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love this sub !
[–]JinxhourglassFDS Apprentice17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
❤️
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love newbies discovering us and us helping them grow. I do however dislike seeing people who have just discovered this sub giving advice which is directly against the FDS handbook. Please new joiners - sit back and observe the culture.
I've also noticed a LOT of LVM posts/memes but not much discussion making it to the top (moreso than back in January when I started lurking). It would be nice if seeking advice posts or similar would be more of a focus to help assist in growing ourselves. Be a more balanced sub of funny posts with serious discussion.
[–]m00n5t0n3FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks
[–]BubblyCeliFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for guiding us in the right direction 😭💖
[–]spreadmywings89FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is too cute! Love you ladies!
[–]melomaniac137 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤗🤗
[–]FitncurlyFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is cute ☺️, and this place is a breath of fresh air in an otherwise bleak internet. You ladies rock! 🤘🏼😎
[–]LadyButcherFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this sub❤️❤️
[–]ModernDayOracleFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love the amount of acknowledgement and support that goes on in the comments of posts. It's such a nurturing and growth-focused environment
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like to name drop this sub via PM to people in other subreddits of whom I think could be benefitted by coming here. I only do it via PM, though, so I don't get the sub in trouble with mods on other subreddits.
[–]teddyketolaFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sub is everything!! It's like having a supportive big sister :,) Thank you everyone <3
[–]SandwichClub_FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you all for guiding me through the bs of men and appreciating myself and my standards more ❤
[–]badnewsbroad76FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This community is a godsend and will remain strong because so many of us that have been in bad relationships internalized it and believed that there was something lacking in us but, reading through all the numerous, similar experiences has been very validating (in a positive way) as it helps to pinpoint the ACTUAL problem..so, thank you very much!
[–]suspended_animation_FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you <3 I feel safe here
[–]Aurelia_rFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I discovered this sub when I was searching for a post in r/femalehairloss and thank heavens for that! I remember staying all night reading through the wiki/handbook and feeling all sorts of emotions.
[–]Mediocre_sinnerFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks to all the pros out there for adopting me 😂
[–]badnewsbroad76FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mwah💋 back atcha!
[–]LaidLacefrontFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I been lurking for a while now and this prompted me to say something. I like the environment!
[–]WWisMyCo-pilotFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this sub because it's so direct. There's no beating around the bush or "maybe you need to communicate more" BS. Talking will never help when these LVM don't listen and don't care. It's really made me realize how much time I've wasted with a LVM. That's okay. Got an exit plan and already imagining a future without him.
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only love 💕
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm new and love it too. Unfortunately, all my comments keep getting deleted because I still haven't been assigned a badge. But I'm here, reading and cheering everyone on!
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hooray! :D thank you!
[–]selfdistructt_ionFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am so so glad I found this sub! Wish I did before I made all the blunders in my love life. This community is so supportive, educative and AMAZING!
[–]unbaguetteableFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this sub so so much! Been following for a few months and it has helped me realize many things about myself and relationships. Left a "situationship" that caused me great anxiety and felt empowered AF. Thank you ❤
[–]SashamorningmidnightThrowaway Account0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hello all of your Queens
I recently joined Reddit and have been reading the handbook, what an eye opener!
Thank you
[–]Seranova7788FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just recently found this sub and already it's been a lifesaver for me! This sub is gold.
Hi, ladies! I just found this subreddit the other day. I read through the posts and I love it too. I heard about it when I was reading through r/datingadvice and read quite a few complaints about it from a few moronic-sounding men. I thought, it must be a great community! Lol. I didn’t recently break up with someone, but I’d been having trouble getting over a guy who I never dated or had any relations with. He really didn’t deserve the mental space I gave him in my mind. Anyway, I feel a lot better after reading the advice that has been posted here. I know now that I’m the prize, I will find a much better man than him someday or I’ll just be with my awesome self, and he is a moron and missing out. I’m excited to be here :)
[–]ldf1820 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I so love this sub. Just wish I knew before what it has showed me
[–]PollyAnnaSunshineFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
<3
[–]diorgasmFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Teach me 🥺
I love this community so much
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[–]32WithKidsAndDatingFDS Newbie106 points107 points108 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]HottPinkSlugFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SumtingUnique2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]thedevinefemmeFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]meo0722FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chickennuggetspicyyyFDS Newbie75 points76 points77 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ginnnnieFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LovLeighFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]feminist-hermioneAt-Risk Pick Me Youth19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sugarcokeeeFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]JinxhourglassFDS Apprentice17 points18 points19 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]m00n5t0n3FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BubblyCeliFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]spreadmywings89FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]melomaniac137 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FitncurlyFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LadyButcherFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ModernDayOracleFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]teddyketolaFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SandwichClub_FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]badnewsbroad76FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]suspended_animation_FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Aurelia_rFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Mediocre_sinnerFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]badnewsbroad76FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LaidLacefrontFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]WWisMyCo-pilotFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]selfdistructt_ionFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]unbaguetteableFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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