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[–]persephones_torchFDS Disciple195 points196 points197 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Porn has ruined our perception of human bodies that's for sure
[–]mypepsipussyFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Well it think it’s ruined it for the perception of a woman’s body. Also age. Let’s make them look as close to underage as possible. I don’t see many hot men in porn unless it’s porn for men. Gay men. Which is fine but it’s just like, why is all porn catered to men?
Straight men in porn are fucking ugly with surprisingly small dicks. Gee I wonder why. It couldn’t possibly be like that because it might make the men watching porn insecure...
Gotta have those 9/10 18 year old looking girls with 5/10 30 year old men. It’s so male gazey it infuriates me. Where are the 6’2 ripped men with hair, and big dicks? I’m actually not turned on by a gangly old guy with a dick the size of my middle finger.
I don’t like porn for various reasons but there’s nothing about it calling for me. It makes me mad just thinking about it to be honest.
[–]Lakersrock111Throwaway Account[🍰] 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya I love my triangle bush! It’s sexy and womanly!! And if a male can’t handle that, then he can go have sex with someone else!!
[–]myousernameFDS Disciple289 points290 points291 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
The notion that women's nether regions must be hairless, poreless, and smooth is borderline pedophilic. Literally only pre-pubescent girls have that.
[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice89 points90 points91 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not borderline. Reminds me of my mom saying “ why do You girls all want to be dolphins” 🤣
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[–]booooooooooooooooooFDS Newbie121 points122 points123 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's horrible. But you should be grateful to have dodged that pornsick guy. Anyone who would say that doesn't deserve to fuck you. Your vulva will be appreciated by the right person.
[–]eobardsthongFDS Newbie64 points65 points66 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s why I don’t shave. I’m proud to be a grown woman, I’m not gonna pretend to be a child when everyone in my life wants to treat me like a girl anyways.
[+]purplefuzz22-16 points-15 points-14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean I personally prefer being completely hair free down there .. idk why but hair just feels too unattractive imo and makes me super self conscious... but most of my partners past and my current one didn’t really seem to care if I had a little trimmed up patch down there .. but I guess that is super concerning if a man is like dead set on his lady having a completely hairless and smooth kitty ..
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t “personally prefer” anything because your preferences are shaped by your environment which tells you that your naturally occurring body hair needs to be removed. You “don’t know why but hair feels too unattractive” - the reason “why” is that you’ve bought into a story that tells women they aren’t ok the way they are. They don’t tell this to men. It’s only women.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple65 points66 points67 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I remember my ex used to say he'd be willing to scrub his dick a bit with a wet towel if I say I'll do something sexual. Like not even a shower, and he hadn't showered for days. Ughhh. So tempting, right? It was a dead bedroom situation in the end, obviously!
Now a man must have a shower directly before we have sex, that's a rule I have. I don't care if it's a bit inconvenient. If he won't shower then he's clearly not that into doing it with me, so I automatically will lose interest anyway. I even tell him what soap he can use and ban him from using cologne down there. You'd be surprised how many guys spray their groin with body sprays and things, and I don't want irritation or UTIs. It's my body you're going to be putting yourself in, so I say what goes.
[–]Parking-ActFDS Disciple28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My rule Ive made too. Must shower before!!!
[–]VaporwaveVampirePickmeisha™️31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always told myself I shaved for myself and because it makes me feel clean and hygienic, but when I think about it on a deeper level, I do it because I’ve been told subconsciously it’s gross to have body hair.
[–]M1nettePickmeisha™️32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Frankly, if women stopped catering to those ideas, men would have no choice but to take what they get.
[–]camillarosesFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I was talking to a seemingly perfect checked-all-boxes man recently. Was so excited. Until we were FaceTiming and he said, and I quote “if you want me to spend any time down there I’ll need you to wax first”. Gross. Pass. Bye.
[–]SaremisFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Think on it as a dodged bullet.
[–]insultin_crayonFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And by "time down there" he means a two second tongue flick followed by an excruciating 10 second car waxing hand rub straight to the clit.
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[–]Nicolo_UltraFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
SO many dudes can barely wash their own ass, much less even manscape for us, that this needs to become a battle cry and NOT a request.
[–]insultin_crayonFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Its gay to wash your ass bro." 🙄
[–]WillowFreak70 points71 points72 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine isn't a landing strip as much as an abandoned air field that only experienced pilots can land in. Paraphrased from Kate McKinnon on Saturday Night Live
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[–]ivy176FDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My exs hung down to mid thigh. It looked like a fake ball thing you'd buy from a costume/joke/adult store
[–]randomyellowumbrellaFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did they dangle when he'd wear shorts ?
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They probably did out of boxers. I struggle to remember much about the whole 12 year relationship at this point lol
[–][deleted] 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve always found it interesting that women are supposed to be hairless EXCEPT on their scalps, where they are expected to have long shiny manes. If that ain’t indicative of patriarchal slow-down oppression I don’t know what is.
[–]CloacaDiddlerFDS Newbie78 points79 points80 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And yet I still get in fights with guys about how swiping a tongue at a clean, well groomed pussy is SO much worse than ramming an entire smelly rod of weird tasting meat down your entire mouth and throat. Funny enough none of these men have experience sucking dick, just know that THEIRS is the rod of gods, and yknow, women seem so into the blowjobs in porn. Hookers even gave their buddy one for free once, I think, because it’s so fun or something...maybe...
To be fair, I prefer less hair in places where lots of sweat accumulates. Armpits and genitals should be shaved/trimmed for both genders, in my preference. I don’t like sucking a dick that has long hairs all the way up the shaft, but that’s my preference and I don’t make anyone feel bad about it. Still, the expectation that men will be scraggly monsters and women MUST look like fresh china dolls is so unbalanced that you can’t help but dissect the reasoning behind it. Surprise! It’s misogyny.
[–]Eleonora0FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fucking well said 👏
[–]jesza09FDS Apprentice33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don’t shave or do any sort of hair removal down there anymore, just a little trim when I have my period for my own comfort. I absolutely could not be with a man who preferred hairlessness
[–]Parking-ActFDS Disciple15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same!!
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Hair is protection, its there for a reason like nose hairs and eyelashes. Sure do a nice trim but dont think you have to be bald!
Any man Ive been with has no issue with some hair.
Id rather a man not be bald, just trim it up a bit and look like a man not a bald 13 year old boy.
To add, frankly the 5 o' clock shadow down there is like sand paper on my lady part. I like it trimmed so its still soft but not a ' 70's bush'. haha.
[–]JOEYMAMI2015FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh what is up with that? You see way too many fishy, smelly vaginas memes and jokes but not one sweaty balls ones! If men really hated vaginas, the human population would have gone extinct eons ago lol
[–]SaremisFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also I feel less when I am 100% shaved, idk if anyone experienced the same. And shaving that much is bad for your health as risk of infections increases.
[–]rosa_sallyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I very much enjoy being completely hairless. I’m hairless irrespective of partner status or time of year. The moment a man gives up grooming, I walk away. It’s completely symbolic of how they feel about you. If they can’t be bothered to trim their balls and have a shower, they won’t bother with any other partner duties.
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[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think comparing the hair on your head is the same. Facial hair, however, is the same. They are both hair you get after puberty. Some guys beards are SICK. Shave or not, please fucking care for and trim all your hairs. Head, shoulder, knees and toes 😂
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[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, some of these dudes just need prison showers... with the hose and powder and all that. Now I hate beards, thanks lol
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[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not even the nose hair growing into the mustache? If you can handle that you are my hero
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[–]CytrinexFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I remove my pubes too tbh. I know they're natural and protective, and think I look a bit weird without them, but tbh sex feels better for me personally without them (that and heavy periods are much more manageable for me). I ask that the men I sleep with trim theirs down for the same reason if they don't already, but don't really care why other women do - to each their own. Personal preference and all. Re the supposed increased STD risk, I don't sleep with people who can't prove their sexual health status is clear
[–]even_thrillerFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm the same as you too. I remove mine and regardless its personal preference.
[–]CytrinexFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True. But can we also not shit on those who want to?
[–]NinauposkitzipxpePickmeisha™️0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never really have shaved (I used to do the bikini line but kept getting infected ingrown hairs), but I've started getting waxes when I know I'll be in a swimsuit. About once a year I'll give 'er a buzzcut because it's just a forest. My bf keeps his pubes super trimmed though and it makes me feel like I should groom. But I don't want to lol.
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