Sorry if it is TMI at all. We have good sex and we usually have sex every day. But I am starting to wonder if these "quirks" are due to porn sickness, for context we're both 28.

  • he takes a super long time to cum, this is "good" sometimes because I enjoy our sex but sometimes I do get sore.

  • typically takes a super long time to get hard and even still it doesn't feel like a full on erection.

  • he talks about how his "dick is broken", how he USED to have a much easier time getting hard but "has no idea" why it's so difficult for him, jokes about needing viagra.

  • says it could just be age but he is not that old

  • has been interested in "kink" activities before, used to constantly ask for anal sex, I tried it and decided I didn't want to do it again so we never have. but he has asked for other things before that you really only see in porn such as mild BDSM stuff.

  • usually only wants sex in missionary now and doesn't really look at me. could just be lazy.