How much do you personally want to keep private from a spouse/LTR?

Essentially, this is about red flags and sharing passwords/phone passwords.

Do you think that you'd want to keep your own things private but are open to a spouse/ltr partner to asking to check sometimes or borrowing your phone?

Or do you believe in open-phone policies where if someone doesn't want to do that, you'd view it as a red-flag?

Also for married people who may claim that things are different on this topic when it comes to marriage, when, how and why?

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Personally I want to respect the privacy of others and have my own privacy respected.