I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done.

sojourner_truth_ · 2019-10-30T11:26:11+00:00

Once a man has an inkling that you are available to be a chump for him, he rarely changes that opinion on a long term basis. I may be a cynic, but I have seen plenty of the "baby I'm so sorry, I was a fool, it'll never happen again, I can't believe I almost lost you" song and dance... it always ends with the guy continuing to be a low value man who does not respect the woman in question.

hoIds_up_spork · 2019-10-30T11:18:00+00:00

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ManchurianCantaloupe · 2019-10-30T11:32:46+00:00

He even types like a fucking loser.

fistfulloftosca · 2019-10-30T14:31:11+00:00

These type of guys literally only want you once you're totally done with them. I have been in this situation - 18 months, even, and only after I had moved on and was happily dating someone else did he resurface and finally admit he was in love with me and blah blah.

TheObservationalist · 2019-10-30T17:45:55+00:00

Say it with me: NO BOOTY CALLS

2019-10-30T16:51:52+00:00

"I wanted to msg you so much all week"

So why didn't he? 🤔

2019-10-30T11:42:07+00:00

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daggerite · 2019-10-30T12:35:08+00:00

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lightupmyjass · 2019-10-30T17:52:18+00:00

Babe, yes! You’re an inspiration to me. You deserve so much more.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-10-31T02:36:29+00:00

"I'll respect that". Like he's THE DECIDER of whether or not he will respect your no.

Nothing about this is sincere. Never give him a second chance.

2019-10-30T14:26:08+00:00

Block his loser ass

dearie909 · 2019-10-30T21:21:31+00:00

Ha! Men don’t ‘pine’ for a woman, he simply gets horny or drunk (or both) and then forgets all about his lil ‘feelings’ once you allow yourself to play the fool/he jacks off. The latter of the two is infinitely more agreeable in my opinion, because then only one of you will feel like crap afterwards. NEVER allow yourself to be at the whim of a man; most of them don’t even deserve women anyway

irrelephantphotons · 2019-10-30T15:15:40+00:00

🙌 Well done! 🙌

Deadgirl1888 · 2019-10-30T18:01:02+00:00

Ugggh I hate dudes like this.

vicvicsum7 · 2019-10-30T18:31:47+00:00

Wow...sounds familiar. Maybe all men are the same.

soaghettidarkness · 2019-10-30T19:39:08+00:00

Hahaha make that fucker heel. Good work

emtkristie · 2019-10-30T18:13:28+00:00

Fuck that guy. They always want what they can’t have and if you give in to their BS, it’s the same shit all over again. I’ve been with my husband for 8+ years (married for 3+) and it’s always the same shit. He’s an asshole, treats me like crap... I start packing my shit up and all of a sudden it’s “I’m so sorry, I’m so fucked up, I love you so much” blahhhh fucking blahhhhh. If I could afford to leave I would. But with 2 kids it’s just not possible at this very moment. Why can’t they just be fucking decent humans to the ones that give them everything?

PrincessTiaraLove · 2019-10-30T21:47:18+00:00

He’s a loser and he feels the burn! Good girl, make him suffer!

buttertits4lyfe · 2019-10-30T20:04:55+00:00

If I were you I'd never message him again regardless of what he says. Good for you for being done.

ariesv123 · 2019-10-31T02:54:52+00:00

does anyone have any advice on how to deflect that “damn I wish I didn’t fuck up” after you call them out? My guy does that SO often to me

ariesv123 · 2019-10-31T02:57:04+00:00

does anyone have any advice on how to deflect that “damn I wish I didn’t fuck up” after you call them out? My guy does that SO often to me. At this point I KNOW it’s just a way to make me feel bad and he doesn’t sincerely mean any of that shit

Lucretia123 · 2019-11-04T09:48:22+00:00

Booty call

murph623 · 2019-10-30T16:39:24+00:00

Good for you!!

sweetnessalive · 2019-10-30T21:53:16+00:00

Tell him he can eat your pussy! Then say thank you and kick him out 😂

dearlittlefucker · 2019-10-30T13:03:35+00:00

Still being too nice, I’d just be sarcastic and play him a fool. Tell him to come over and don’t answer the door then later excuse you felt deeply sleep and didn’t hear.

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