I see this ALL. THE. TIME (FDS-members included!). Women closing off their convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘. It's very small, futile, why would you care? But you're sending the wrong message that way. I'll explain why.

Who DO you actually want to send this to? A friend, your family or a stable life partner maybe (when he texted it first or he's done something really nice for you (read that beautiful handbook!). That's cool, send all the kisses in the world and some more! More power to you for loving the close people around you!

But why the fucking hell would you send this to someone you just met, online or offline?! Stop it, sis! What do you want to look like? A strong, stable, valuable woman or an agreeable PickMe who shares lovey-dovey/common shit to anyone that might cross her path?

I have heard and have made every excuse in the book. 'I send this to everyone, it's not a big deal'. 'Its not like you're actually expressing love'. All true, but... Make people work for your 'kisses, wishes & love', may they be online or offline.

I'm a huge advocate of sending '🌸 'or '☀️'. It's fun, it's young and.... It intrigues men. They're used to women sending '❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘', it's basic. The impact of such an emoji is much more powerful when you don't spread it around like a virus.

I'm in a happy relationship right now, and ALL the guys I had contact with, mentioned something about my absence of those emoji's. It made them wonder... Hungry for a bit of confirmation. It made me stand out. Use this wisdom to your advantage 🍀