So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-01-06T07:48:04+00:00

A HVM doesn’t let a woman do this for him.

throwaway23004345 · 2021-01-06T05:06:45+00:00

Chile I saw this too but didn’t comment bc I don’t want to come across as a hater... but I’m glad someone agrees 😩

KindredMaximus · 2021-01-06T06:03:22+00:00

From one of the safest countries in the world to one going through a hellish second wave. We won't let her back in without a strict quarantine, costing her thousands. Very poorly timed. She had to go there because he could not have come here.

compscihelp111 · 2021-01-06T07:11:30+00:00

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LockLimePie · 2021-01-06T09:15:15+00:00

It broke my heart to see that she left her PUPPY and her family and her friends. Its late and I'm too sleepy to watch the rest of this but it seems like she put way way more effort into the entire thing than he did. He makes her obviously uncomfortable by talking about her seeing other guys at one time or something and just in general seems less enthusiastic about it, she was the one who had to bring up feelings and the fact that she wanted to take the relationship seriously. Uprooting your life for a man is never a good idea imo. Uprooting your life for a man you've never met is a recipe for catastrophe.

compscihelp111 · 2021-01-06T05:20:21+00:00

Thoughts? Do you guys pick up red flags from this guy?

If so, list them down!!! What are your thoughts on meeting men across the world like this?

She probably thought they had a connection because they're both loners with anxiety.

EDIT: CAN SOMEONE TRY TO EMAIL HER OR REACH OUT TO HER???? Tell her the red flags and send her this thread please!!!! i cant find her email :(

justforfds · 2021-01-06T13:48:10+00:00

His body language read disinterested, passive tolerance.

When they first move closer, he is ALLOWING her to kiss his cheek, he just receives while she is the one giving all the emotion. He only gives her side hugs.

The SINGLE occasion he enthusiastically hugs her and kisses her, fully turning to embrace her and hold her hand is when he hears that she hadn't seen anyone for 5 years before him. He verbalizes it as him being special and reacts to that. Isn't it enough that she likes him? No, it has to be that he is the best ever.

I think this will be a hard learned lesson for this woman.

My sister did the same thing in her late 30s, travelling repeatedly to see men across the world. My BIL scammed her for a Visa. He refused to marry her till things got hard at home and he had no options to go to other countries. Then he rushed her into a marriage with 2 days notice. If it wasn't for our worried brother dropping everything to fly to her side, at great expense, she'd have been alone in a country where she didn't know the language.

She pays for everything and does everything and he pockets his salary. He contributes nothing at all and cheats on her. No doubt in the inevitable divorce, he will claim 50% of her assets.

plummyjellyfish · 2021-01-06T11:53:11+00:00

I can think of about a billion better things to do with 10kAUD than flying to meet some guy who has promised and given nothing in return. And speaking as someone living in Oceania, why the heck would you leave bright and sunny Australia for the pandemic-stricken hell which is UK? I just want to shake her - snap out of it, you lovesick fool! lol

devilousblossom · 2021-01-06T12:19:30+00:00

I get a reallyyyy bad vibes. I don't like how he keeps belittling and demeaning her "as a joke", making her out to be desperate. At least she corrects him and isn't afraid to speak up. I didn't like the part where they were talking about interracial because I heavily got the feeling that he's a fetishist. He doesn't call he "Sri Lankan" or "South Asian" or "Asian" he calls her BROWN. There are soooooo many races that have have a range of brown skin tones. Guys like him lump them all into one category as part of a sick colonial fetish. She also said he didn't help at all with the cost but because "it was her choice and she would have felt bad". She was too afraid of him not being willing to foot half the bill to even consider it so she would rather be a free live-in gf. The part where he started talking about murderers and how you should check someone's facebook profile before flying out to meet them...I wonder if she did that? I really hope nothing happens to her.

Old-Flower-9089 · 2021-01-06T04:37:30+00:00

Reckless, thoughtless person.

ciciplum · 2021-01-06T14:48:56+00:00

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omfgreuben · 2021-01-06T14:50:41+00:00

This is how a friend of mine moved states a few years ago (never met the man IRL, didn't tell anyone she was moving until the last minute), annnnnnnd she just moved back here because she's divorcing the abusive scrote who lured her away in the first place.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2021-01-06T14:54:49+00:00

Does she have a brain?

_tinyimp · 2021-01-06T19:20:49+00:00

I didn’t watch the whole thing bc she reminds me of Lele Pons and I just can’t with her lmao. I can’t believe she LEFT her puppy??????? And if she was going to completely relocate a HVM would’ve at LEAST paid for most of the expenses or flown there to help her pack and keep her company on the flight to the UK? She was trying so hard to make this a romantic montage and I saw more affection towards her from her chihuahua than her man ): Such an awkward video.

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IAteTheDragon · 2021-01-07T17:54:08+00:00

Ok I can't watch the entire video because it's just so so embarrassing 😟 Plus, she was the one to address her feelings towards him first, then wanting to meet him in person, then the flight, the money, the puppy, no no no 😱 It's so hard to watch, this guy is obviously ridiculing her every chance he gets, this is all so wrong, so backwards. The girl played it in the worst possible way ever. She's such a beautiful, gentle woman, I hope she gets out of this situation soon enough. It's obviously hard to watch cause it reminds me so much of my own past pickme philosophies and behaviours, I don't think I would be where I am today without such embarrasing experiences. I just hope she gets out ok and reunites with her sweet puppy 🐶

prettyexcitingnews · 2021-01-06T17:59:19+00:00

Why girl 😩

esthermaniii · 2021-01-07T11:00:38+00:00

I’m embarrassed for her.

orangeboobert · 2021-01-11T19:55:36+00:00

1:38 that eyebrow raise says “I have the power here, got her right where I need her.” Yuck. Also seems like traumatic bonding. Feeling connected over anxiety/mental illness and not real commitment or time.

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