LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎

britkneeham · 2020-11-12T22:18:20+00:00

It should also be noted that this behavior isn't a guarantee he's a HVM. My literal sociopath ex also never ooked at another woman when we were together, but he was also cheating the whole time and posting photos of me and his exes (that he took, without our knowledge or consent) to a fetish site.

heythere360 · 2020-11-12T23:36:12+00:00

If men had the discipline to ban porn from their lives, they’d find being a HVM soooo much easier.

A million more times attracted to their wives, no ED, no constant fantasizing about every girl you see while holding hands with your wife.

I mean the list goes on.

I honestly think this behavior would be seen way more commonly if men decided to level up without porn. Now the few who do seem like Gods.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-12T22:47:16+00:00

It's called basic respect.

Immediately kick a man to the curb for looking at other women in front of you!

strainedcrow · 2020-11-12T22:44:51+00:00

This is good to know. It's a sign of respect. I actually won't entertain distractible men anymore, at least not after the first date. You should be able to sustain focus and interest in me during the date. If their eyes wander then so do I 🏃‍♀️💨

NotSoBunny · 2020-11-12T22:16:39+00:00

I agree. I had a LVM ex but he never looked at other women around me for the 2 years we dated He had other hvm like qualities but was still a total lvm.

guccitechno · 2020-11-13T03:43:06+00:00

I’ve never dated anyone that checked out other women in front of me. I feel like it’s almost emotional abuse, like a way to disrespect you and make you feel insecure. Any man who does this is automatically low quality af

anotherdamnloser · 2020-11-13T03:34:40+00:00

I find it common for guys to not want to look at other women on the first few dates. Give it time... also doesn’t mean they aren’t looking when you aren’t around.

orange_moon · 2020-11-13T03:45:47+00:00

What’s a HL?

2020-11-13T02:04:28+00:00

Her perception wasnt warped though. She saw men ogling women, she most men ogling women often, and had every reason to think it was the norm because it is.

NoT aLl MeN, but enough men that we're right to generalize. Nevertheless, we're also right to set our standards high enough to eliminate men who ogle.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-11-13T10:07:21+00:00

Yes this is true. I’ve sometimes watched men I know to be HV out with a group of friends and / or their wives, and they don’t even notice other women. I mean, I’m sure they do if the woman walks in front and in their plain site and they may look quickly like they would any person who walked in their line of sight - but there was no perceptible difference in how they glance at men or women.

Another thing I hate which isn’t always classified as ogling because it’s “quick” but the head whip. They will look quickly and whip their head around at any reasonably conventionally attractive woman. It’s so off putting. It’s like, is it constantly on your mind to be looking out for attractive women to look at?! I find that worse than a slightly too long look at someone in your plain view. The head whip just drives me insane.

Edit: even one of my HVM friends said “if he was really that into you, why would his head be whipping around?” In response to me trying to get over mY iNsEcUrItY. He was right.

2020-11-13T03:23:37+00:00

Oh yea definitely. All they do is project their LV ways onto other men.

They think all men “cheat, abuse, rape, hate women, can’t be friends with women, etc”.

randomgirlimok · 2020-11-13T03:07:20+00:00

Ok great, but why is she asking him to look at porn?

kittymeal · 2020-11-13T05:55:36+00:00

What is HL?

adertina · 2020-11-13T18:22:21+00:00

Had a friend break up with her boyfriend because she thought he was gay bc of this...so I was like “he kept ogling men?” and nope...weird stuff

Title	LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎
Author	Ok_Ad_67
Upvotes	756
Comments	45
Date	November 12, 2020 9:56 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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