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[–]arnezuaraFDS Newbie 276 points277 points278 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I actually saw someone say that this also means that they don’t trust you around “other men” 🤔
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 178 points179 points180 points 5 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Men really be acting like they’re noble and doing you a favour ‘protecting’ you from other violent men whilst emotionally abusing you, trying to gaslight you and serial cheating behind your back, which is one step away from becoming a DV abuser in the future anyway.
Right cos there’s nothing aggressive or abusive about emotionally abusing your partner or exposing them to potential STIs without their consent. And even laughing at it.
I consider cheating physical abuse tbh since he is violating physical boundaries without your consent.
Men of today are turning to more emotionally abusive covert methods to control women as they know they can get locked in jail / lose careers for hitting a woman.
That doesn’t mean they’re ‘better’ people.
[–]BooksandEarlGreyTeaFDS Newbie 121 points122 points123 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe because they are a LVM already overstepping your boundaries and know other LVM will try it as well?
[–]arnezuaraFDS Newbie 105 points106 points107 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mmmm, yes,✨projection✨. Forgot about that for a brief second
[–]throwaway88043468FDS Newbie 369 points370 points371 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
The same way fathers threaten their daughters' boyfriends, to the point of cleaning their guns out in the open when the boy comes over. From that perspective men are actually very open about how dangerous they are. A teen boy is such a threat you'll haul out a shotgun to intimidate him? Yikes. That's bleak.
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 173 points174 points175 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This always puzzled me too.
And isn’t dad admitting that he failed so badly as a father than he can’t trust the child he shaped and raised to choose as well as possible and set healthy boundaries (or use the mace he handed her before the guy arrived)? Why the performative masculinity when he could have just shown up over the past 18 years and done his job as a parent?
[–]Bitter_Froyo_6742FDS Newbie 148 points149 points150 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't think this argument really works. It's not about the degree of threat to the girl that the boy poses
It's a joke referencing the fact that a daughter is a father's property, and only virgins get a decent bride price. It's not about the girls safety. It's about the father's assets. It's no different than him handing him the keys to his car and jokingly saying he's dead if he comes back having scratched it up. The joke isn't that the teen is a particularly bad driver. It's that the adult is a particularly possessive car owner.
These types of father's don't actually care about their daughters wellbeing.
[–]throwaway88043468FDS Newbie 60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It wasn't really an argument, just an observation. They play it like it's about their wellbeing but yes, it's just another 'ownership' thing.
[–]FodderFigureIllushunFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
An old coworker of mine had a husband who wouldn't let their teenage girls do anything because "he knows what goes on in men's minds". There's nothing wrong with protecting your children but I had to side-eye him for that. How would he know what goes on in men's minds if he weren't exactly the same? I asked her what he meant by that and she wouldn't explain it to me. "He just knows."
[–]Kylie_FanFDS Newbie 108 points109 points110 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They protect their gfs the same way they would protect their house, their car or any other piece of property.
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
[–]RevolutionaryStars 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And both Pickme's and Libfems alike have the audacity to act like men are stupid little innocent children who have no idea about male behavior.🙄
[–]deep_faked_beansFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess when it's them being jealous and controlling it benefits them to acknowledge it, but when it's random women criticizing men or asking men to call out other men, it benefits them to pretend it doesn't exist.
[–]creamtart_FDS Apprentice 93 points94 points95 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Of course they know, and they won’t make any effort to change it because it benefits them. Instead they’ll keep conditioning pick me’s to delude themselves into thinking men are the victims so they can relentlessly defend men.
[–]RadfemBlack 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Jessica Taylor ❤️
[–]hensbanexFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you!! so happy to see you on FDS, I follow you on insta and twitter!!
[–]puzzlebittiesFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was my ex. He was cheating and assumed all men cheated.
My current bf would never say anything like that, its Saturday here, he's out doing his thing tonight, he invited me, I said no I have other plans. No argument, no warnings about staying away from other men while I'm out, just acceptance and we will both have good nights separately
[–]RoseelesbianFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Men are aware. They just don't care. Stop trying to appeal to your oppressors. This is why feminism is about liberation and not equality.
[–]kitnbFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They know… And they choose to ignore it and do nothing to stop in.
[–]bepbep7471 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
They only give a shit about it when it comes close to "their property" though. Typical territorial pissing without any effort to be part of the solution.
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[–]arnezuaraFDS Newbie 105 points106 points107 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 173 points174 points175 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Bitter_Froyo_6742FDS Newbie 148 points149 points150 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwaway88043468FDS Newbie 60 points61 points62 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]FodderFigureIllushunFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Kylie_FanFDS Newbie 108 points109 points110 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RevolutionaryStars 31 points32 points33 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]deep_faked_beansFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]creamtart_FDS Apprentice 93 points94 points95 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]RadfemBlack 8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]RoseelesbianFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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