One of the most embarrassing things about America is how the family court system ALWAYS sides with the mother, no matter how abusive they are.

scottieducati · 2020-09-05T16:36:36+00:00

Kind of like how when female teachers “have sex” with students, it’s not called what it is - rape or sexual assault.

lionstrikeforce · 2020-09-05T18:06:48+00:00

"Honey if you feel so bad about yourself, how did you get the school lead in the play?" FUCKING MONSTER FUCK YOU I LITERALLY SCREAMED IN ANGER.

nightrave · 2020-09-05T16:53:52+00:00

I don't think it's only valid in America. I think worldwide the courts are in favour of women regardless of circumstances

Mythandros · 2020-09-05T16:59:43+00:00

Disgusting. I honestly feel ill right now.

How the fuck can people do this and sleep at night?

This girl is being traumatized by her mother (and the piece of human garbage that lives with her) and they are still forcing her to go with the mother.

This is evil. Right here.

Johnnyrock199 · 2020-09-05T17:06:18+00:00

I can't fucking believe this. Seriously. CPS is supposed to PROTECT children! What the fuck???

kona_worldwaker · 2020-09-05T17:22:07+00:00

Jesus fuck that was a hard watch. Imagine being more interested in getting your way than your children's safety. I feel sorry for the dad in this. Being torn away from his kids and knowing they are subject to a lifelong sentence of trauma because his ex wife is batshit.

I really hope these kids stay safe and Jake gets a long prison sentence with the best kind of prisoners.

spygrufunkopop · 2020-09-05T18:26:48+00:00

“If you felt bad about yourself, how did you get the lead in the school play?” WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?

bakedphilosopher · 2020-09-05T19:03:47+00:00

Crying little girl: "I woke up with blood in my underwear!"

Some condescending jerkoff: "well yea, but you got the lead in the play, oh and don't you do gymnastics?"

What the ever loving actual fuck? I shut the video off at that point. Holy fuck what a hideous system.

Azad_h · 2020-09-05T18:36:07+00:00

NaH dUdE heR mOtHeR iS bEInG maNiPulaTed bY heR boYfrIend

IronJohnMRA · 2020-09-05T19:09:29+00:00

"And her younger brothers..."

Why aren't we hearing about the boys? Why aren't we seeing them? How did everyone miss this? Why isn't anyone talking about it?

RavynArcadia · 2020-09-05T18:39:32+00:00

You know I'm only for the death penalty if it's deserved but that mother and pedi BF should be hooked up to a car by their legs and dragged through rough terrain until parts of their body fall off. Then keep going.

degdayton · 2020-09-05T18:32:18+00:00

Ugh the “well if you felt so bad about your self how did you get the lead in the school play” damn I’m not into physical assault but that woman needed to punched in the mouth, that was straight up sexual assault apologetix if I have ever heard it

bmihlfeith · 2020-09-05T17:08:31+00:00

Also, don’t expect the family court to do the right thing. Having been though the system I can unequivocally tell you that the court only operates in its own best interests and couldn’t give two shits about your children.

The judges have a palpable hatred of the family court litigants. Their rulings clearly show that their only interest is getting you the fuck out of their courtroom and keeping you there. All of my rulings have also had a huge financial penalty in the form of “parenting classes” at the cost of $500, each time. I’ve been sent to 6 of them. The same class. It’s purely punitive and retribution to the litigants with the message of “if you file anything again I will punish you again.”

Fuck the family court.

The_Drunken_Whale · 2020-09-05T17:34:01+00:00

r/eyebleach

-Cyber_Renaissance · 2020-09-05T16:56:16+00:00

and to make people care about, there has to be a woman who's indirectly being harmed!

Lugnutcma · 2020-09-05T16:45:33+00:00

I don't know about ya'll, but I'd just have to say "Take me to jail then for believing my daughter and sons are getting molested. Put me in jail for that or for killing this animal or you ensure me they are all 100% safe...your decision".

cheapshotfrenzy · 2020-09-05T17:19:29+00:00

And a majority of the too comments on the linked post have been removed

Loumier · 2020-09-05T17:28:35+00:00

I don't have words to describe how disgusting this is.

Detective-Efficient · 2020-09-05T17:57:23+00:00

Has anyone still not seen this?

More context here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/im3kh7/

Resgignickell · 2020-09-05T20:36:10+00:00

Honestly dad just has to take her and flee for his life. I don't know exactly where, but when your government literally tells you that your child WILL be molested and you can't do anything about it it's time to question the validity of this government.

lProtheanl · 2020-09-05T19:19:29+00:00

I have a son now. The child’s mother....were no longer going to be together and she has extreme anger issues. So far it is all directed at me. She says things like I’ll never see my son again, I’m moving away for good, she uses him to threaten me all the time and it breaks my heart. I believe with all my heart that if something as serious as this happened I would end up in jail or dead. There is NO WAY in hell I would hand over my screaming child like that. I wouldn’t be able to sleep, I wouldn’t be able to eat, I wouldn’t be able to let go. I would literally pack some bags and run away. Respect for the father and I truly hope that Sophie is now safe with him. I can handle quite a bit as far as uncomfortable and terrible content goes but hearing her scream and then hearing her describe the acts done to her made my jaw drop and me cover my my mouth. Pure evil.

Thank goodness the child is safe and I hope all involved get sue punishment. CPS and the judge as well.

superhobo666 · 2020-09-05T21:14:28+00:00

It's even worse in Canada. There were women in my home town who were addicted to heroin and pimping their kids out for drug money and the courts still sided with the mothers in those cases. Meanwhile the fathers couldn't get any custody at all, and there was one case I remember where they actually did take the kids away, and put them into a foster home where they got abused and raped again, and eventually killed. Meanwhile the father couldn't even get supervised visits.

Apparently pimping your kids out for drugs and drug money is okay when you are a woman.

Sergey32321 · 2020-09-05T20:42:33+00:00

Why did YouTube take the other Istandwithsophie video down?

Why are reddit admins removing Istandwithsophie posts, I.e. in r/outoftheloop?

What the fuck is going on, why are they censoring this poor girls struggle?

The first google searches of this hashtag are all dead or banned links? What the fuck is that about?

2020-09-05T19:52:59+00:00

Children and used as PAWNS in the onsided chess of family court. Motto is to harass men mentally physically emotionally economically

Courts flourish and enjoy from the suffering. Despite video evidence of that girls statements the Feminist Judge won't budge. Moreover this is Texas.

RIP relationships and families. I would rather stay alone than bringing my children in this living hell. Every cell in my body burns hearing that screech. I would have personally gone violent path for justice

YouTube deleted the video. Media won't talk about this. Yes this is Real life

jacksleepshere · 2020-09-05T20:00:04+00:00

Not much makes me rage more than seeing people being abusive to children and get their way in court after the fact.

Erethiel117 · 2020-09-05T20:55:24+00:00

Disgusting. What a fucked up system man. I feel so bad for these two.

Mordcrest · 2020-09-06T16:11:59+00:00

If that was my daughter, I'll tell you right now I'd fucking take her and leave. You can try to arrest me but I'd never let my little girl go back to a home where she is being FUCKING RAPED.

infrictus · 2020-09-05T19:51:12+00:00

Women are way more abusive than men, the only difference is that when a man does it, its abuse and everyone exposes him wich they should, but when a woman does it, its discipline and shes just a strict parent, women get away with this kind of stuff all the time but when they go to court for it they get away with it since they are women and they play victim and say “shes just a bad kid”.

Neovarium · 2020-09-05T18:36:57+00:00

Now. Why does this happen?

The answer is easy. The court doesn't care about the child's wellbeing. They only care about MONEY. States earn more money if the richer side of the family pays child support. If the mother made more money then the father, this wouldn't've happened.

obi2kanobi · 2020-09-05T18:27:57+00:00

JFC..... makes me sick. I want to throw up.

Worse yet, this isn't the first vid like that. Nor the last. There's pure evil out there.

ultimateformsora · 2020-09-05T18:50:55+00:00

That shit is fucking disgusting and I feel awful for that poor child. Imagine living in a world where shit like this happens on the daily thanks to maternal privilege.

Not to say there are nothing but bad moms but examples like these need to be taken into consideration when essentially blindly always choosing the maternal figure to raise the child.

Spurnout · 2020-09-05T19:46:07+00:00

I couldn't get through the whole video, sick to my stomach. This is why fuck America right now. We're so twisted.

IAmNotRobertoBye · 2020-09-05T19:53:06+00:00

This is fucking disgusting, it brought tears to my eyes. CPS isn't doing horse shit. Poor Sophie, her "mother" is a fucking whore that deserves to be tortured to death.

2020-09-05T20:35:22+00:00

Holy shit. That is so fucking sad.

Edit: I’m fucking blown away. That is the saddest video I’ve ever seen. That judge should be ashamed. I’d demand a resignation. That is unacceptable. So fucking sad. My heart goes out to that poor girl.

BowtiepastaMasta · 2020-09-05T23:40:41+00:00

This is way more than men’s rights. This is a poor child screaming at the top of her lungs for help. If that was my child I would go to jail for her. I would’ve knocked that cps bitch right in the teeth. And the boyfriend would be eating through a fuckjng straw after the bat to the teeth I’d give him.

iFunnyPrince · 2020-09-06T01:35:23+00:00

My god. I just watched this video on LSD.

Gonna go cry and cry and cry, and drink for a little while. What awful human beings.

joseflamas · 2020-09-06T01:36:33+00:00

USA usa usa, the biggest shithole on earth

rpecaut · 2020-09-06T03:41:26+00:00

It seems the only way mothers aren’t sided with is if drugs are involved.

jjusedtobeonice · 2020-09-06T06:46:55+00:00

i hate how you can hear whoever she's talking to laugh around 1:28

at least do that thing where you kind of chuckle while laughing. how the fuck do you do that ??

even if i was just a friends parent who was listening to poor sophie i'd be fucking crying with her

quietsilk · 2020-09-06T10:47:05+00:00

Sophie's mom and her mom's bf needs to be locked up in prison ASAP. This is terrible! I feel real bad for Sophie because, she is scarred for life mentally.

Mmadjackk · 2020-09-10T14:41:59+00:00

What the fuck is the point of cps if they dont do their job. Im actually speechless

katievsbubbles · 2020-09-05T18:49:38+00:00

I'm a woman. I feel so bad for this little girl. I sincerely hope that she and her brothers are safe and that her "mother" and the boyfriend have been prosecuted to the fullest.

Give custody to the most fit parent. It shouldn't be hard.

Most people can make a child, not every person knows how to raise them. This truly sickens me to my stomach.

We also as people need to realise that not every man is going to be a rapist; i think this is too prevalent a thought and why people tend to think children will be "safer" with their mothers. I have a son and i refuse to raise him to think that it is okay to do that and I'm certainly not going to make him feel like he will be that. In the same breath not every woman will be motherly.

Do we know the outcome of this story at all?

Edited

bmihlfeith · 2020-09-05T17:03:23+00:00

As a divorced parent, and having 8 step siblings myself with two step parents, I KNOW that if you remarry after your divorce you are putting YOUR needs ahead of your children. It is NOT in their best interest to be forced into this unnatural situation living with your new boyfriend/girlfriend. Just look at the statistics for children being raised with “steps”, it’s not pretty.

I would NEVER willingly force my children to live with strangers. Strangers who would compete directly with my children for my attention, affection, time, resources..etc.

Parents who remarry (in most cases) are being intellectually dishonest about their children’s best interests and are putting their own desires ahead of their children.

Why can’t parents see this? Makes me sick.

MiloFrank · 2020-09-06T02:00:23+00:00

I'm a man, and I have custody of my daughter, in Texas. I spent thousands upon thousands of dollars to achieve this. Just earlier tonight my daughter said "Mommy left me. You didn't " because of something we saw on TV. I had an extremely proud Daddy moment.

2020-09-05T19:07:04+00:00

Not in my case...

skgody · 2020-09-05T19:59:09+00:00

I really think it’s deliberate because they know there is a much higher chance that when these kids grow up they will have a significantly higher chance of being involved with the criminal justice system and other government agencies.

It reminds me so much of milking a cow.

McZachary2 · 2020-09-05T20:15:03+00:00

Anyone have an update on this? I can’t imagine how the mother of all people earns custody despite the allegations. I don’t know what the dads story is, but they could at the very least be put into foster homes until this shit got settled

DoktorZombie1 · 2020-09-05T20:37:02+00:00

That mom is a piece of shit and that Mr. who touched her should get hit by karma

Empress_Rach · 2020-09-05T20:40:15+00:00

This is disgusting. I wish I could say I haven't seen this elsewhere but I have and it's fucked.

hazawillie · 2020-09-05T20:53:35+00:00

No shit. I hate this. Makes my stomach turn

hoopsrule44 · 2020-09-05T20:57:50+00:00

Ok I agree with the sentiment that it has to be stopped but why can’t the video go into how to stop it?

Like what can I do about it?

Godrelia · 2020-09-05T21:36:11+00:00

Disgusting Animals, gods curse on the mother and her boyfriend.

Imagine your Child having the courage to report sexual assault to you, and you justify it as a parent, what kind of devil do you have to be...

2020-09-05T21:43:45+00:00

Not always.
Women do get sole custody at least 94% of the time which makes single dads with sole custody rare.

2020-09-05T21:56:34+00:00

This is why I honestly think it should be up to the kid which parent they stay with because she clearly loves her father WAY more than her mother, especially now that all this abuse is happening but apparently popping babies out of your vagina (Something every female organism can do) is some kind of super power

Luchadorgreen · 2020-09-05T22:13:09+00:00

Unless the Dad is insistent on flaying his son’s penis, then they’ll jail the mother for trying to protect him.

AnunnakiBukkake · 2020-09-05T22:13:52+00:00

This makes me physically ill.

Sevyn13 · 2020-09-05T22:18:47+00:00

What does “safe for now” mean? Is she with her dad now?

Sevyn13 · 2020-09-05T22:21:20+00:00

I would take her and leave the country.

wrekd · 2020-09-05T22:22:17+00:00

I guess I'd go to jail.

IntellectualKittens · 2020-09-05T22:32:40+00:00

That and we don't have medicare for all.

q00qy · 2020-09-05T22:39:24+00:00

imma go vomit now

sparkybooman27 · 2020-09-05T22:56:38+00:00

Holy shit when the person says “if you felt so bad about yourself then how did you get the lead in the school play.” My heart broke for that little girl.

jmcsquared · 2020-09-05T23:15:21+00:00

Oh man. If I was her dad and knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that they were abusing her, bitches would get shot.

Romulus-sensei · 2020-09-05T23:15:23+00:00

Damn i was having a good day it fucking hurts to see this i can't, just thinking about how traumatising all of this is

LVKiller420 · 2020-09-05T23:37:57+00:00

That was disturbing to watch on so many levels. Anyone who does this to children deserve the absolute worst.

Lunatic_Cheshire_Cat · 2020-09-05T23:38:44+00:00

I'm not good with showing emotions or feeling sad about things but this video did something to me. I was sincerely horrified by watching it. I hope the girl will be okay someday. A fate like that can destroy a person forever.

Captainx23 · 2020-09-05T23:46:03+00:00

Fuck the bitch who said "Well if you felt so bad about yourself, then how did you get the lead in the school play?" Im sorry, but how is that AT ALL related to a child telling you they are being raped?

SuperManagement · 2020-09-06T00:03:28+00:00

Omg this made me tear up.

Neveah_Hope_Dreams · 2020-09-06T01:08:49+00:00

This is so freaking sick.

I've seen simular videos of children crying because they are forced to be with their abusive parent and it's awful.

But this is something else.

So freaking sick. That disgusting vile mother and her twisted pedo of a boyfriend need to be locked up.

#StandWithSophie

CheshireDemonChild · 2020-09-06T01:14:39+00:00

I recently started to follow this case. Also California has made a law, giving these fucks less time in prison.

a_posh_trophy · 2020-09-06T01:18:35+00:00

That's when daddy puts one between mummy and her paedo boyfriend's eyes. Sooner or later there will be a breaking point.

cringemaster69420666 · 2020-09-06T01:23:13+00:00

Not ALWAYS but yeah definitely way too much

Knox_Stars · 2020-09-06T01:28:52+00:00

Straight to the wood chipper with Jake

Creature_73L · 2020-09-06T01:29:00+00:00

Fuck man. Couldn’t watch that. Had to stop at less than a minute and a half. Started to feel myself begin to cry. Too much

SIIIOXIDE · 2020-09-06T02:09:16+00:00

Why don't we riot over this??? Riot over cops killing men but wont do shit over the government allowing kids to be raped. . .

WTF is wrong with humans?????

gaia2008 · 2020-09-06T02:14:11+00:00

Title 4 d

thefudmaster · 2020-09-06T02:42:18+00:00

In my fantasy world, I wake up to the news that every family court building, CPS building, and any other entity benefitting from Title IV being burnt to the ground.

No loss of life, just a warning to stop the corruption. If it gets rebuilt it gets burnt down again.

reaperjac · 2020-09-06T04:19:20+00:00

Shit like this makes me sad we don't live by the gun now days....

kraftmacn3 · 2020-09-06T04:29:08+00:00

We need to start sterilizing people. This is disgusting. That woman should have never had the opportunity to reproduce.

KalashniKing · 2020-09-06T04:30:55+00:00

Well, time to get me hammer

Chun_Lai · 2020-09-06T04:58:12+00:00

JusticeForSophie

Uttermostmeat66 · 2020-09-06T05:02:26+00:00

I don't think this is an issue appropriate for MRA. This is a failure of the us justice system in general, she should be removed from the home and placed practically anywhere else

king_long · 2020-09-06T05:07:55+00:00

Currently dealing with something similar to this(not to this extent, thankfully), as my 7yr old states he’s afraid to even speak in her presence.

Born_Hanged · 2020-09-06T05:22:55+00:00

This was horrifying to watch. Seeing and hearing a little girl scream for help is nothing short of bone chilling. It's also horrifying to see the father, knowing full well he can't retaliate or he will probably lose all custody and possibly go to prison, just sit there helplessly - however, my full commendations to the father for maintaining his composure and having the foresight to know that his efforts will eventually pay off.

Also, the woman questions the little girl about how she could simultaneously "feel bad about herself" after being sexually abused and lead in a school play? Abhorrent, to say the least. "How can you possibly be depressed? I saw you smile today". See how ridiculous that sounds?

Charge "Mr. Jake" with sexual abuse, and the mother with accessory as well as abuse. I hope they rot.

KingAntonino · 2020-09-06T06:24:49+00:00

I think i want to vomit, how can a judge do something like this?

LegendaryEmu1 · 2020-09-06T07:19:48+00:00

That woman fucking saying 'If you felt so bad about yourself, then how did you get the Lead in the School play?" makes me very angry.

Must have been torture to hear about this, see her reaction to having to go and have nothing happen. Because he would go to jail.

Rockbottom503 · 2020-09-06T07:47:55+00:00

The truly fucked up thing here is that if Sophie hadn't have said her mother watches, she'd have likely been taken far more seriously.

Neko404 · 2020-09-06T07:59:28+00:00

Oh my God that makes my blood boil.

I don't condone violence but if I was that man.... If she was my daughter.... I would have given it my all to have kept her at my side. I know, I'd probably have been killed by the police in the end....

merton1111 · 2020-09-06T13:26:04+00:00

"Women and children"

Umbran_scale · 2020-09-07T17:24:08+00:00

I just hate the fact it took this kind of rallying cry for justice to be properly served, this should have been a no brainer and should have been resolved without the need of a protest.

and to those horrid abominations of life that caused this horrific shit should be shot, burned and buried in an unmarked grave and have all records of their existence removed so they become nothing more than a bad memory to the world.

cheeseman23658 · 2020-09-10T12:56:48+00:00

that was very hard to watch i feel very bad

goodthanksforasking · 2020-09-19T07:05:57+00:00

I am so sorry for this girl. I hope she is in safe custody now and living a good life.

Yoshiezibz · 2020-09-24T17:41:47+00:00

Fucking disgusting, yet if an accusation of rape or abuse happens to a man police smash his door in at 2 in the morning to take him off the street.

I hope that girl is away from her mother now. How can people be so insensitive to children when they clearly don't want to go with a certain a parent.

WhatsGoodMahCrackas · 2020-09-27T01:18:26+00:00

This is so sad can we hang pedophiles

SpoiledDillPicked · 2020-09-05T17:54:28+00:00

Wow, that whole incident would of made world news fuckin with me.

maximus1487 · 2020-09-05T18:42:53+00:00

If i was her father this would be my reasoning: The law is not on my side? Then i won't obey the law. I'd definetely would have killed the fuckersa myself and if for soe reason i can't i'd ask someone else to do it. This is unbearable. I'm speaking from anger so i might be wrong but...

sschroeder82 · 2020-09-05T20:52:33+00:00

Here's what you do: you take every person who has any part in this event; the mother, the boyfriend, the child service workers, etc...

You dig a pit, shoot them all in the fucking head, and bury them...

And then, you 'try' to move on (which for her, the girl; will be basically impossible).

...

As someone who has mental issues: Borderline personality disorder from all reasonable indications... i can't explain to you how infuriating it is...

Because, I don't even care to seek to further explain myself to any psychiatric provider; as to formally have BPD diagnosed...

It's not worth the emotional turmoil, associated with trying to explain yourself, only to be met with myopic dismissal; which inherently resembles the narcissist gaslighting: that leads to you developing issues of this sort, in the first place.

If you want to critique me, as to say: but your not actually diagnosed with borderline personality disorder... then you're the exact type of person who I seek to avoid in life.

Why would I willingly accept and carry forth in my life: acknowledging my circumstances as that of being a male with BPD; when it's one of the most difficult combinations of issues to face (up there with DID, psychopathy, sociopathy, [which those two are being reformed into antisocial personality disorder] and the likes of such). These issues so stigmatized they are even being excommunicated, in many regards, within the common psychiatric domain...

...

Statistically, 1 out of every 10 people with BPD will end up successfully committing suicide...

I don't sincerely see myself going any other route; and no, I don't want your sympathy, in that regard. I'm 26 now: I don't care to even fathom life, as being worth living, beyond say 45... if that.

I just wish there was a better way to prevent occurances of {this} nature... because nothing makes me want to CTB, more than knowing that people have to suffer such emotional betrayals: in abusive and traumatic events, be them (physical, sexual, emotional).

And yet, despite having all the desire to 'play God', as to fix issues of this level; i know that even an impressive effort to change the world, as to advocate and mediate... will never be enough to stop this malevolant-aspect of humanity.

And knowing {that} is, exclusively, why I don't have much desire to continue to be a part of society...

"The world is fine, the people are fucked" - George Carlin on environmental issues...

"You wouldn't get it..." - Joker, as portrayed by Joaquin Phoenix: is exactly how this feels.

JimmyJamToeJam · 2020-09-05T18:04:18+00:00

Dox me, I don’t care. What is this man’s address? California?

WillNewbie · 2020-09-06T01:18:33+00:00

There is an anime called The Rising of the Shield Hero. I recommend it for anyone on this sub because it does touch on topics that line up with the beliefs of this sub. (Spoilers ahead if you're interested) But what I want to talk about is a situation in which the protagonist is forced to protect the princess from a plot to have her killed by her older sister. She runs away with him, and he becomes a wanted man because they believe he kidnapped her. They even doctored footage showing him and his friends murdering soldiers trying to protect her, but no one was badly injured and they were going to kill her. Whenever she tries to speak up against this, they say she's been brainwashed. This is one of the problems with America. If a child wants to be with her father, she is being brainwashed. This isn't about the child, it's a bout the mother. It's about the parents fighting over the child and it should not be that way. I a nine year old says that they're being abused, they most likely are right, especially with that kind of emotion. How could you see a screaming child and not think that there may be something wrong here? It makes me sick. The worst part? Feminism would have that little girl go to the mother. And feminism just killed a little girl.

ActuallyElla · 2020-09-06T02:23:23+00:00

Yeah feminism wants to address this bullshit too. We’re all hurt by it.

Title	One of the most embarrassing things about America is how the family court system ALWAYS sides with the mother, no matter how abusive they are.
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Date	September 5, 2020 3:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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Comments

Why did YouTube take the other Istandwithsophie video down?

Why are reddit admins removing Istandwithsophie posts, I.e. in r/outoftheloop?

What the fuck is going on, why are they censoring this poor girls struggle?

JusticeForSophie