AMA With Red Pill Mods SoftHarem and RedPillSchool, ask us anything.

quickquestionfor · 2013-12-21T18:16:24+00:00

Would you consider opening the subreddit traffic stats up for public view? It is an easy to do option as stated by a reddit admin a few months back(see quote below). It would be interesting to see traffic spikes and growth due to the ROK and second most hated subreddit events.

"Moderators may now choose to set their subreddit's traffic statistics page (e.g. /r/changelog/about/traffic[1] ) publicly visible by checking the "make the traffic stats page available to everyone" checkbox in subreddit settings." which then shows basic statistics like views, subs and etc over time.

Also would it be possible to update and/or have some more manosphere links and maybe a quick blurb about their focus? I think it would help people new to the TRP that want more tailored advice to their situation. Like dalrock speaks to family and religious TRP values vs redpillroom who speaks to more traditional values vs ROK's anything and everything approach. Some other good blogs are also out there as well like thumotic and illimatable man's new blog to just name a quick couple.

Thanks and you guys are doing an awesome job all around and good work keeping this sub's signal to noise ratio high.

hermit087 · 2013-12-21T19:36:55+00:00

What are the odds of this sub surviving, say for another two years, without being shut down by reddit? It already has a big bulls eye painted on it, and all it would take is one scandal/story being picked up by the mainstream media(like RoK recently).

Its true there are other sites it could move to, but I think it would never be the same.

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YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-12-21T19:51:39+00:00

I just wanted to thank you both for doing an amazing job with this subreddit. You've poured a lot of sweat and blood into it, and it has developed into something much more amazing than even I expected.

I think I speak on behalf of everyone here at TRP when I say that we appreciate what all the mods here do for our community.

P.S. The new icons look awesome.

magicalbird · 2013-12-22T00:20:33+00:00

What do you think about the madonna vs whore complex?

It seems like everyone on /r/theredpill has a huge hatred of whores when those are the ones that put out easily that makes sex easier. If you don't marry them and preferably don't LTR them what's the point of such a big complex running around on /r/theredpill that goes against making sex and therefore sexual strategy easier?

Zackcid · 2013-12-22T00:25:38+00:00

How many true mods do we have anyway? I'm looking at the list down there and see some names that I've never seen. One is even an endorsed contributor and he's in the mods list.

Who are the mods exactly?

Furyk_Karede · 2013-12-22T03:33:59+00:00

What are your opinions on the blue pill and purple pill debate subreddits?

GaiusScaevolus · 2013-12-21T19:14:11+00:00

Who is currently your favorite Red Pillesque thinker/writer? Which of the RP blogs do you read most regularly? What goal(s) are you working on right now to improve your life in the next 6 months.

Also, good job with sub guys. Keep it up.

redpill_man · 2013-12-21T18:35:23+00:00

Question 1: I've been seeing more and more MR stuff on the sub lately (although looking at the front page today it looks ok). I actually unsubbed from them after I realized what a bunch of whiny bitches they are. I'm not gonna lie I hate seeing the MR stuff here. Do you guys think it takes away from the this sub, or are you ok with it?

Question 2: Seeing how just about everyone hates us, do you think this sub-reddit can survive long term?

redpillschool · 2013-12-21T17:15:21+00:00

I know there are many, for example 16 commandments of poon by CH, but which three basic principles of RP are your favorites?

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Moroten89 · 2013-12-21T17:37:33+00:00

How did you discover red pill?

SoftHarem · 2013-12-21T18:20:16+00:00

Thoughts on real social dynamics? Specifically tyler?

gurglemel · 2013-12-21T19:49:08+00:00

We always hear of people who complain about circumstance before their own behavior, but I still can't decide on whether or not I should move out for a better social life and independence...mostly because I need cash for a company I'm trying to start

Oniichan_Overload · 2013-12-21T20:18:11+00:00

Do you generally feel society is moving in a positive, or negative social direction, and why ? If negative do you feel people such as us have any responsibility to try, and correct it.

rugbytitsandmedicine · 2013-12-21T20:32:11+00:00

How tall are you guys, how much do you weigh, what is your body fat %

What is your yearly income.

Cheers,

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Demonspawn · 2013-12-22T12:33:13+00:00

Could you guys describe the difference between red pill and PUA? Or are they very similar?

still_very_alive · 2013-12-21T17:39:05+00:00

Are there any Red Pill concepts in general you don't agree with? Say, things that get tossed around here that you don't really think is true?

How important do you see women, and sex, to a RP lifestyle?

Also, how old are the two of you?

Are there any surveys done about the demographics of the people here?

CptDefB · 2013-12-21T17:54:25+00:00

Introversion;

What are your suggestions on turning a commonly perceived weakness into a valuable strength in regards to Game?
Any suggestions on how to deal with a pervasive "just-don't-give-enough-of-a-fuck" feeling when it comes to approaching tens of dozens of women, solely for the purpose of getting laid? I mean... I do love sex very much, probably more than I love the gender I have sex with, I'm just tired of dealing with their shit.

LeRedPill · 2013-12-21T18:04:41+00:00

Do you think being physically defined in a way you can only become through a gym membership is important, or does it not matter as long as you're slim and well groomed.

Personally I hate physical exercise, but I watch what I eat and have a slim to medium body type. It doesn't seem to cause me any issues at all, but I wonder whether I'd have even more success if I was more defined with larger muscles.

Dubstyles · 2013-12-22T04:34:54+00:00

I understand what shit tests are but when i'm with a girl i have trouble recognizing when she throws them at me. Am i missing something?

redpillschool · 2013-12-22T02:48:41+00:00

1 week into red pill, really keen and been pushing myself heaps to improve.

What kind of places or things did you do, that you felt accelerated the process of improvement?

I've been going to clubs, going to the gym and plan on using meetup.com to meet strangers. Any other you found beneficial?

Flaydogg · 2013-12-22T08:34:55+00:00

I don't know if it is too late to post, but I'll give it a shot. Can you respectfully and logically explain what TRP has against single mothers? Allow me to re-phrase that, is TRP against single mothers? I would like to avoid making an actual post over this question in order to avoid trolling. This is an honest question, by the way. I'm just curious.

redpillschool · 2013-12-22T16:39:15+00:00

What are your views on women? I've been lurking for a bit and I see a lot of guys in the comments saying things like "women are retarded". Do you agree with that kind of view?

higherstandard · 2013-12-22T20:24:54+00:00

What is the best piece advice you would give to a 22 year old male just getting into medical school and unplugged?

[deleted] · 2013-12-22T22:49:33+00:00

A few links on /r/becomeaman have become inactive and outdated. Any plans on grouping everything together and updating it for future use?

Drvibe · 2013-12-23T20:20:23+00:00

What role do RPS and Softharem think kino plays in the seduction process? Do you guys agree with the PUA terming of it or do you think its creepy? ( of course it depends on context.....)

-Anteros- · 2013-12-21T17:13:43+00:00

*What is the difference between Red Pill Examples and Field Reports, also why do we have a Mens Rights section?
*Are we spreading ourselves too thin with all this?
*Where do you see the community in the next 5 years?
*Can you put The Flowchart on the sidebar ?

deepthrill · 2013-12-21T17:10:48+00:00

Softharem: We discussed this briefly in IRC the other day, but I'm hoping you can expand upon the idea that everything we preach eventually comes down to sexual strategy, and that self improvement is a by-product, or is ultimately just used to get sex with higher quality women.

I'm not sure I agree, but you seem pretty adamant about that point.

What about MGTOW?

I believe you said something along the lines of the world is driven by the desire for sex. That other things can give you happiness, but ultimately it's sex which matters.

Forgive me if I am misquoting you, but I think you get the general sentiment I'm asking.

HArvey13 · 2013-12-21T17:55:42+00:00

Any experience with South African girls?

redpillschool · 2013-12-21T18:01:39+00:00

On the topic of shit testing, which do you think is better, coming up with a witty response, or just being indifferent to them? For example when I'm in a conversation and I spot a shit test, I usually just figuratively "walk past" them. I guess this only works when the shit test is a statement and not a question. But when that is the case I usually say something like "cool" or "oh" and then move on to something else because I feel like coming up with a response requires me to put too much emphasis on the shit test which gives me more of an opportunity to fuck it up. Do you think that wittier responses yield better results?

mrust · 2013-12-21T19:15:29+00:00

What was the inflection point for you when you changed from accepting TRP intellectually vs actually internalising it?

I find I've really improved at frame control, recognising and dealing with shit tests, setting boundaries, etc...

But I still have to work hard to deal with big picture issues. I feel like I'm still chasing unicorns and though I'm not prone to one-itis anymore, I tend to treat women as friends first, making it difficult to establish a sexual frame. It either happens on the first meet or it never does. Any advice?

Currently I just follow 3 meet rule and next.

Demonspawn · 2013-12-21T20:44:43+00:00

Is a girl who is 19, been in a 3 year relationship and had a total partner sex count of 7, too many to consider a ltr?

SmokeU · 2013-12-21T17:35:11+00:00

I'm a successful athlete. Live in a great waterfront place on the beach. Have a great job. And have lots of skills. However my life has led me to move a lot. I'm alpha of alphas and a lot of times that intimidates other guys to the point they either try a power move (usually fails) or they get pissed and feel insecure. If I met me I would probably feel inadequate. Anyway It ends up with me not having my own tribe and difficulty finding friends to take the boat to the bars. Also I tend to be picky with women and get stuck on one, Very high quality female at a time. American royalty types. However I'm bored and I don't know what my next move should be. Any suggestions?

SoftHarem · 2013-12-21T18:17:42+00:00

I personally think marriage was a man made development. The high leaders of the world knew that if the majority of men didn't have some sort of sex outlet, they would become uncontrollable and bad for their wallets since they won't be working. The leaders got together and basically decided that the beta chumps needed a system to ensure sex was provided and their solution was to develop marriage, which was meant to give the beta chump a chance at getting pussy.

Their plan backfired and everything went to hell.

Thoughts?

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redpillschool · 2013-12-21T17:17:01+00:00

So I'm on break and 2014 is around the conner. I want to learn more about trp. What posts/comments would you recommend?

I texted a girl to come over, and I still haven't gotten a reply. Should I just delete her number and move on??

Can trp help me with my studies? (Like getting schoolwork done first)

What movies out there that I can watch?

Title	AMA With Red Pill Mods SoftHarem and RedPillSchool, ask us anything.
Author	redpillschool
Upvotes	65
Comments	166
Date	December 21, 2013 5:01 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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