Single mom turns down a successful handsome guy, gets upset when he goes on a date with a younger more attractive woman.

aww40 · 2013-12-29T20:57:58+00:00

Why is it that it makes me an asshole if I judge you for what makes a good mate, but you're completely justified in making assumptions about me based on your own needs?

CAinCa · 2013-12-29T20:54:57+00:00

I think paying attention to the web address "wealthysinglemommy.com" should really give you all of the insight you need without the ponderous text. Is she wealthy because she inherited the money her father made or is she wealthy because of the money she extorted from an ex-husband?

And unless you are speaking directly to your toddler (and you enjoy referring to yourself in the third person), there is nothing worse than an adult referring to themselves as "Mommy" or "Daddy."

"Women are constantly patting themselves on the back for how difficult their lives are and no one corrects them because they want to fuck 'em." -Bill Burr

Mengs87 · 2013-12-29T19:44:47+00:00

Imagine the horror! Leaving an old saggy 30 something year old single mom for some tight 20 something (shakes head) ...... The nerve of some men

leftajar · 2013-12-30T00:59:59+00:00

This bitch is a divorce ADVOCATE.

There's a video on her about page, where she's actually SELLING how great divorce is.

At the same time, she complains guys don't want to date her.

aniw · 2013-12-29T20:26:23+00:00

This kind of thing is always really interesting to me.

“I have the hardest time making decisions,” he said without a hint of shame. “Today I got so overwhelmed shopping for shirts that I had to call my mom.”

He said it without a hint of shame. He doesn't give a fuck, he is confident in his insecurity, but she suggests he should at the very least lie about it.

don’t we all have our own, unspoken 10-point scales? Be honest — you do, and so do I. Mine happens to weigh heavily emotional intelligence, generosity and not giving a crap what other people think.

She even goes on to say that she is attracted to this very behavior, but her hamster avoids the fact that she is also attracted to strength and a drive to overcome insecurity, or at the very least hide it from view. I'm not saying this guy deserves anything, he sounds like an afc, it's just interesting how contradictory a hamster can be. It's so easy for young men to get confused, and not know what to do, who to be, or anything. Most men want to be the best version of themselves...but they so often model that version off of what the media, and women like this, say that they want instead of looking at what they actually go for and why. Even if you construct your self form the ground up it's so easy to get confused. You spend time trying to build this image in your head of the best man you can be, you dawn your white knight armor, and do your best. Then the dissonance comes in as you realize this image you are trying to be is not what women are attracted to, furthermore it's not even the right thing to do. Everyone is taking advantage of you, as you scramble to be good, and you find yourself worn thin unable to help anyone not even yourself...until eventually you take the pill and put yourself first. Through the bitterness, you realize how to accept people for who they really are. Then, and only then, can the lonely man approach self-actualization in my opinion.

This woman was probably very beautiful when she was young, hit the wall, and now has no idea what the fuck is going on. It's easy for me to think, "This woman is a reason why a lot of men hate women." but in a way I kinda feel bad for her. The whole state of society and how we connect with each other is fucked.

junk2sa · 2013-12-29T22:53:59+00:00

Her attitude is wrong on so many levels. Her derogatory attitude to "Wall Street" men, like he passed the Bar and CPA but shouldn't feel like maybe he deserves more than the local crack whore. He bared his soul to her and she decided to treat him like a little pet project. I guess that was his mistake, opening up to such a back stabbing, judgmental, vain, greedy on-line trollop.

too_long_didnt_read · 2013-12-29T19:22:43+00:00

I write here all the time about the importance and joys of dating as a single mom.

-twitch-

...yes, a man will find you attractive, stretch marks and saggy boobs included.

Comes complete with a lack of self-worth. You get the whole package!

“I have the hardest time making decisions,” he said without a hint of shame. “Today I got so overwhelmed shopping for shirts that I had to call my mom.”

Sounds like you found a quality man there. I'd hate to see him in traffic, losing his mind on whether to slow down for cars on the on-ramp or get over.

...primary goal being to date women who rank 7 or 8. That’s right. This 40-year-old man is still operating on the frat-boy rating scale of women’s fuckability.

You have the intention of finding a quality male (which ya didn't, btw), but get pissed when he has the intention of finding a quality woman?

“I think you got your ego hurt because a 6 single mom rejected you,” I told him. “I don’t think you’d ever date me seriously. You’d be embarrassed by me.”

Wasn't she talking about his "frat-boy rating scale" and now she's resulting to fifth-grade level remarks?

tl;dr Hamster gonna hamst.

johnnydoedoe · 2013-12-29T20:11:37+00:00

I've slept with a single mom for about 5 months until she went back to her baby daddy.

Used the excuse, more convenient because her family knows him

calvingarner · 2013-12-29T23:07:07+00:00

Another piece of evidence that single moms are in their position because they make poor decisions.

ilike2partyhowaboutu · 2013-12-29T23:03:12+00:00

and his primary goal being to date women who rank 7 or 8. That’s right. This 40-year-old man is still operating on the frat-boy rating scale of women’s fuckability

Men supposed to only go for ugly women? hahahaahahahaaha

A scale I might add that she is very well aware of... perhaps she was riding the frat boy scale and picked up a few new terms?

EarnestMalware · 2013-12-29T20:24:09+00:00

"A certain beauty standard reigns, and young women with little baggage are the prize." Give that woman a gold star! Men bring more to the table than a twat. I only accept filet mignon, the fat rump roast can go to betas.

cagethepepper · 2013-12-29T19:34:31+00:00

Single moms are so hot.

masturbates furiously without lube cuz that's how I roll

_DiscoNinja_ · 2013-12-30T01:53:18+00:00

He didn’t understand what I was saying.

The hell you say?

trudatness · 2013-12-30T00:06:24+00:00

“I think you’d break my heart,” he said. And who knows? Maybe I would.

WTF? Mad because dude know knows you're a head case?

Goatsac · 2013-12-29T23:45:04+00:00

Dumb bitch rejects guy, guy finds more attractive mate, dumb bitch gets mad.

Women need to check their retard privilege

Cyralea · 2013-12-30T04:52:15+00:00

This is vagina privilege for you. An ugly, washed up single mom with a chip on her shoulder believes she's entitled to a super-hot millionaire with the personality of George Clooney. All those dudes she fucked in her youth probably elevated her notions of what she's actually worth on the market. Of course such a low value prospect would complain about there being a scale at all.

DanReggins · 2013-12-30T04:39:47+00:00

yes, there are plenty of awesome, available men out there, yes, a man will find you attractive, stretch marks and saggy boobs included. And yes, there are countless men who are enthusiastic about being part of a family with children.

I write this, and I really truly believe it.

I lol'd. 10/10, would read again.

Whisper · 2013-12-30T00:53:37+00:00

I don't see this as hamstering, because upset in this case means "sad and disappointed", not "angry and blaming him for the universe not being fair".

drrrrrr · 2013-12-30T22:00:39+00:00

Single mom who brags about how she gets alimony / CS and encourages her friends to divorce for the $. Wonders why a young successful dude doesn't want to wine and dine her....

Her hamster is swole as fuck

2013-12-29T23:37:36+00:00

with increased connectivity, we'll see more and more of these 'single mom acceptance' posts. Hopefully guys will be able to overlook them and move on to their own red pill improvement.

There will always be those who will rationalize their degrading looks as being 'more experienced.' Hell, even I did that a couple years back so I didn't have to workout hard...you get the idea.

niceguy_gone_cad · 2013-12-30T18:06:48+00:00

But I’m also human and last week I had my feelings smacked around when I was reminded that in the hierarchy of male-female mating, women with kids tend to rank low.

O RLY? No shit sherlock. Guys prefer women with no kids! fucking amazing!.

2013-12-30T20:27:23+00:00

I must lack reading comprehension because i could barely understand what she was actually upset about.

opencover · 2013-12-31T05:55:21+00:00

She threw her husband out and got a good lawyer and as much child support as she could for as long as she wanted to bother extracting it.

She thinks this is OK because her mom was divorced too.

One lesson to learn: strongly prefer girls from intact homes raised by both their biological parents together.

zephyrprime · 2014-04-21T16:59:14+00:00

God, this is what's wrong with this forum. It's full of people who are just butthurt by their rejections from women. Post like this aren't even factually correct! No where in the article does it even mention the man in question even going on date with anyone else. The op has just projected his insecurities onto this article.

The women in this article was smart to realize that this guy was out of her league. She was wise to end things right away as she did.

JustLikeJC · 2013-12-29T23:54:42+00:00

Maybe

D'aww

through_a_ways · 2013-12-30T07:19:32+00:00

But here I found myself face-to-face with the dominate scale of our time

I wish native English speakers would master their own language.

vaker · 2013-12-30T00:42:10+00:00

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Title	Single mom turns down a successful handsome guy, gets upset when he goes on a date with a younger more attractive woman.
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Upvotes	117
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Date	December 29, 2013 7:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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