Man Refuses to Allow a Homeless Woman to Stay with Him; Loses his Job, his Car, and nearly his Home Because of a Clearly False DV Allegation.

BDMR_lurker · 2016-08-16T14:03:46+00:00

Wow. Just wow.

All the effects of DV + rape, without the living together, the violence and the rape.

A woman can now simply point to a man she wants destroyed.

Justice is indeed blind, punishing in all equality the guilty and the innocent.

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And hats off to this man for saying "Fuck you, see you in court."

The justice system needs accountability. For its own good. Which is not the good of judges and cops, but the good of the nation.

blueoak9 · 2016-08-16T14:58:10+00:00

The fact that it was even investigated when it clearly was baseless just by legal definition says a lot about the institutional burdens men live under.

But at least: "Despite the woman’s clams that Cruz hit her in the face and threw her on the coffee table, Cruz was cleared of any wrongdoing: According to the deputy’s offense report, the woman had not a mark to show for it, and everything on the table, including a chess set, was neatly in order. In his report, the deputy mentions he punched Cruz to “get control of the scene.”

They figured out before his life was fully destroyed.

Electroverted · 2016-08-16T14:43:40+00:00

...And a shitty, excessive cop and a bureaucratic court system.

Devilsgun · 2016-08-16T13:48:23+00:00

That's monstrous on so many levels, and it all starts with a lying fucking cunt and a power-tripping White Knight asshole with a badge and a gun.

Alarid · 2016-08-16T16:38:33+00:00

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unbelievablepeople · 2016-08-16T15:27:26+00:00

Absolutely horrifying. And remember, guys, this can happen to any of us. Some of us might be able to afford bail and better lawyers and get out of jail more quickly, but not one of us is immune from being arrested for a false claim of domestic violence.

COVERartistLOL · 2016-08-16T17:33:15+00:00

Nine weeks later, he would find that his Infiniti car had been repossessed, that he owed $15,000 to the company that auctioned off the car because it sold undervalue, that the apartment management was threatening to evict him and he owed $954 in late fees, and that his job as a contractor with the U.S. Census Bureau was gone.

Wow, all over a made up lie. An is that even legal? Can the company that repossessed his car force him to pay that much, cause of there mistake? An not that I'm doubting this, but are there any other sources?

HugoBorden · 2016-08-16T19:14:46+00:00

And, by being a woman, she had many services available to her, and still chose to fuck someone's life up.

What a cunt. She'll go virtually unpunished, too.

DangZagnut · 2016-08-16T16:35:54+00:00

Another nameless "victim" will end up doing this over and over with no penalty .

Riley325 · 2016-08-16T16:27:05+00:00

I guess I should retain a lawyer, and get a webcam. Thanks women.

DoItLive247 · 2016-08-16T14:15:47+00:00

What isn't clear is if the woman was ever allowed in the residence in the first place.

HungryMoose1 · 2016-08-16T20:28:39+00:00

So the cop asked him to leave his own apartment? Why was he in there in the first place? Then he says I'd rather not leave, maybe you can interview her outside and he receives a punch to the face and 9 weeks of quarantine in jail? Holy shit, I wouldn't stop suing them until the day I died if that happened to me.

ABC_Florida · 2016-08-16T17:51:30+00:00

It is not worth to trust anyone. Women like this thug want to be the center of the Universe. They don't give a fuck about other people or society.

chambertlo · 2016-08-16T22:25:59+00:00

Tell me again how men have it easier in society when a woman can just point to him and accuse him of something he had no intention of doing. Go on, try to convince me that women have it harder than men. I will wait while your face turns blue from exhaustion.

Santaball · 2016-08-16T16:51:38+00:00

My God, this is why MGTOW is the future.

omegaphallic · 2016-08-16T14:49:22+00:00

Hopefully he sues they're asses off.

2016-08-16T19:13:35+00:00

god damn that fucking white knighting fuck. make a man leave his own house so he can talk to that woman. what the fuck? even if that woman did live there, the cop can not make him leave his own fucking house. that is abuse of power. you don't get to go into someone's home and make them leave unless you're arresting them for something.

2016-08-16T14:47:57+00:00

A lone voice in the wilderness...

rockdiamond · 2016-08-16T16:26:05+00:00

What's DV allegations? I wish it was in the title cuz I don't know what it is.

autotldr · 2016-08-16T19:08:08+00:00

This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 92%. (I'm a bot)

His attorney told him he could be out of jail in ten days if he took the plea deal - but 58-year-old Gilbert Cruz refused, saying he wasn't going to plead guilty to something he didn't do.

On May 14, after a Harris County sheriff's deputy arrived at Cruz's northwest Houston apartment, he asked Cruz to leave the apartment so he could interview the woman alone.

Cruz wants to win a civil lawsuit against the county so he can be repaid for everything he has lost, and he wants his arrest expunged from his record so that he can go on with his life.

Extended Summary | FAQ | Theory | Feedback | Top keywords: Cruz^#1 County^#2 jail^#3 bail^#4 Harris^#5

bigoted_bill · 2016-08-16T14:09:56+00:00

Why did he allow a homeless woman to stay with him. I wonder in the eyes of the law of she was a resident because she was allowed access to that home, was she mentally ill maybe? This is terrifying.... I posted in a video yesterday that you should always stay away from women that are in the midst of an emotional episode because someone will automatically assume you did something wrong. Of course I was downvoted into oblivion but this is another example of how not having a dick affords you the benefit of the doubt every time.

YottaWatts91 · 2016-08-16T19:54:30+00:00

Arn't the police suppose to be a little careful with things like this down in Texas?

Holy fuck.

2016-08-17T14:09:32+00:00

"B-b-but women never lie about rape!! That's just an MRA myth!"

uber_neutrino · 2016-08-16T21:51:43+00:00

His mistake was not hiring a lawyer.

I don't care what people say but you ALWAYS hire a lawyer whether you can "afford" it or not. You can't afford not to have your own.

Tymerc · 2016-08-16T22:08:28+00:00

Another story of where if the guy decided to go gut her like a fish and dump her in a lake I would have absolutely no problems with it.

So tired of seeing men having their lives destroyed because of how easy it is for women to falsely accuse them of things. I plan to spend my life single, but I doubt even that's 100% accusation immunity.

Tedesche · 2016-08-16T22:44:16+00:00

Bullshit. The article clearly states the cops didn't take her accusations seriously. Everything happened because the investigating officer abused his own authority. This is a case of police abuse, not a false accusation.

She should obviously have been charged with filing a false report and prosecuted for it, but she didn't succeed in ruining the man's life. The cops did.

Jaz_the_Nagai · 2016-08-16T18:47:33+00:00

Wow, like a modern Beauty and the Beast, but without any possible happy ending.

KING2313 · 2016-08-17T04:26:21+00:00

The Cop is still mainly to blame for being illogical and unreasonable. I think the solution would just to hire better cops

CHAINMAILLEKID · 2016-08-17T01:20:31+00:00

I'm not sure the false claim is the real problem here at all. He wasn't arrested for domestic violence, but for interfering with the investigation for refusing to leave his own house to give the officer privacy to interview the woman.

The excuse the officer used to arrest him had nothing to do with the womans claims.

zhengyingli · 2016-08-16T23:50:48+00:00

This post, while not at all defending what the man went through after getting arrested, suggested that the events leading up to the actual arrest might not have been as cut n' dried as the article would lead us to believe.

Hillary4Prisonstint · 2016-08-16T18:07:51+00:00

This website should be charged with rape. My phone has PTSD.

TheDarkMaster13 · 2016-08-17T00:03:46+00:00

This doesn't really sound like it was mainly an issue with men's rights, it's a systemic issue in the county's justice system. My guess would be that this is due to private jails looking to maximize their prison population.

EDIT: I'm talking about how the guy was kept in prison for much longer than he should have been. My mistake for not specifying. There are all manner of issues here, the man's rights issue was only the catalyst that got things started.

greatwhisper · 2016-08-17T02:40:26+00:00

This is not a men's rights issue. This article's title is terribly misleading, you this community it hurting its credibility with this article.

The guy is in jail because of disobeying an order from a police officer. The police officer seems to be in the wrong, but nonetheless, it's always stupid to disobey a police officer.

If anything, this story is about police overstepping their bounds. He was cleared of all domestic violence charges quickly.

Title	Man Refuses to Allow a Homeless Woman to Stay with Him; Loses his Job, his Car, and nearly his Home Because of a Clearly False DV Allegation.
Author	JimBobDwayne
Upvotes	2172
Comments	187
Date	August 16, 2016 1:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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