Best ever

Ok-Cause1108 · 2026-08-11T21:47:20+00:00

Good for you mate. Time to upgrade the gf tho and go hit up some 30 year olds.

chicken90909 · 2026-08-11T21:34:04+00:00

so….your ex wife of 25 years wants nothing to do with you but it’s okay because you have a Porsche now and some rando making you breakfast in her underwear? You gotta be a troll, it sounds like a 20 year old incel wrote this post

r0bay · 2026-08-11T20:17:37+00:00

Just so you’re aware, she asked for nothing because being away from you was the prize for her.

That’s the only time people don’t want anything. Because they were so miserable with their partner that just being able to get away from them is enough.

Your whole post reeks of an egotistical man. Owning a Porsche doesn’t make you better than anyone. Having money doesn’t either.
People that are successful with woman don’t actually brag about being successful with woman.

Have you heard the metaphor “Old money whispers. New money shouts.”

Old money tends to be understated because wealth is established, while new money often shows wealth through flashy designer goods and status symbols

This reads like an 18 year old bragging that they bought a sports car because they work for their parents company, and talks about how “all the ladies love them”. You can read how emotionally immature and insecure you are.

You can read how actually upset you are about your divorce but that your burying it very deep inside.

You literally comment on 18 year old nude posts. You’re the definition of a creepy old man pervert obsessed with sex. By your own admission, you’ve been emotionally detached from your ex for years.

It’s clear you don’t value or respect women and just see them as sexual objects. It’s gross. You’re gross.

Go to therapy. You need it.

Edit: Here’s his response before he deleted his post because he’s a big strong secure man. No wonder his wife left him 😂

“Thanks for nothing. Your post is exactly what I paid for it. Nothing. GFYS”

Coolcat1975 · 2026-08-11T20:03:37+00:00

Happy to read this. I’m going through divorce now. 51m was married to 37fm for almost 6 years. She had two young children and I was basically their dad. Their biological father wasn’t much in their lives and passed away a couple years ago so I was really their dad after that. Our marriage was rocky. Mostly over money this woman could not stop spending and she had an affair that she never truly owned up to. I did so much for them but it all came crashing down almost a month ago. Luckily she’s not asking for much but it’s been devastating. Have not seen the kids since only brief chats with the daughter. It’s understandable they are going to be loyal to their mother and only see her side of it. It just hurts.Glad to see happier times ahead and can’t wait until I get there

DowntownLife_ · 2026-08-11T19:13:16+00:00

Mine made the same decision but with one small difference, she wants everything🤦

Techdude_Advanced · 2026-08-11T17:21:48+00:00

Winning. They are out there guys. We should not marry them. Date and have fun. Allow them to stay a day, maybe two but that's it. Protect your peace and assets.

upvotersfortruth · 2026-08-11T12:27:25+00:00

Is the divorce final? Were there settlement negotiations?

Significant_Koala_61 · 2026-08-11T03:21:24+00:00

Great to hear, recommend not letting her stay at the house too often to preserve your assets

6StringFiend · 2026-08-11T01:52:53+00:00

I need a new friend that will come over and make me breakfast, shit she comes over, I’ll be happy to make her breakfast

TimelyResearch1702 · 2026-08-11T00:21:07+00:00

This is a very fortunate story, but not all boys can get what you got. If I divorced my abusive cheater, I'd be paying her unholy amount monthly till I died. Confirmed by multiple lawyers. She'd be driving a porch while never having to work, and I'd be living in a shitty basement scrambling to make the next payment. She'd be making breakfast for some dude while in panties and tank top who'd be happy that "she has her own money".

WizardyoureaHarry · 2026-08-10T23:19:59+00:00

Best ex-wife ever. She bet 100% on her new man financing her life. Rookie move.

Plastic_Efficiency35 · 2026-08-10T23:10:23+00:00

Then ……you live your life! Party on, dude!
I just picked up another Omega Seamaster to add to my collection!
Enjoy your Porsche, bro. And stack up on your pills for da lady!!!!I did!!!!!

I am 58 now. My lady is 44! I need to keep up!

Have fun!

NomadicMango26 · 2026-08-10T23:09:13+00:00

No man under 70 should be dating a 51 y.o. woman.

jimsmythee · 2026-08-10T22:37:55+00:00

So many of us wished our now exwife’s would have just up and left.

To escape her financial demands, I take to go to divorce trial. The judge had to tell her she was being unreasonable and needed to get a job and take care of herself.

Bagman220 · 2026-08-10T22:37:00+00:00

Damn, I’m a single dad in my late 30s and all I get are younger women who want kids or single moms. 50s sound promising, but I don’t even know if I’ll survive until then.

DarthDad25 · 2026-08-10T22:35:54+00:00

Just finalized my divorce as well. Nearly broke me. Hardest thing I’ve ever went through. Truly love that woman and I wanted nothing more than to reconcile with her. But unfortunately, as the divorce went along, truths came out, and she is happier now with her affair partner.

Hurt like hell to find out she was cheating during the last leg of our marriage. But I’m glad I found out the truth. After grieving and healing, it made moving on easier.

I unexpectedly met a wonderful woman. We are going slow and proceeding with caution. She is by far the most attractive woman I have ever pulled.

Keep your heads up gents. There are plenty of fish in the sea and there is a woman out there who will meet your needs.

BunkaandBadassery · 2026-08-10T22:15:06+00:00

This gives me hope. 52 and split up 2 months here. Really have been preparing myself to fly solo for the next 25 years

DetroiterInTX · 2026-08-10T22:13:23+00:00

Congrats! I won’t lie and say I am not jealous of how yours went, lol.

Miserable_Dare_5958 · 2026-08-10T22:10:19+00:00

Great work bro. You are living the dream (or the American dream if you are in the US). Keep living the best version of your life and thanks for your encouragement and positivity.

Plastic_Efficiency35 · 2026-08-10T21:57:48+00:00

That’s awesome ,bro. But…..is the divorce finalized yet?
I am officially divorced last year. In the beginning, she didn’t want anything. Then BAM…….someone got in her head. Destroyed my real estate business. Went from driving a Viper to a Hyundai…….but am slowly rebuilding my empire again.

So,my advise……don’t “show” anything until it’s done and signed.

Ps- I am happy she didn’t ask or know anything about my watches- she said I can keep my stupid watches.

Motor-Hat-3061 · 2026-08-10T21:46:12+00:00

Yup. I got a gf who comes over after the ex takes the kids for a few days and fks the shit outta me on the inflatable mattress, which is all I could afford after moving out of the house the ex kept.

We just cook, play videogames and fuck.

Being single is awesome! 😅

CryptographerKey3781 · 2026-08-10T21:45:53+00:00

We need more encouraging posts like this! Glad you are finally living life man!

dukeofthefoothills1 · 2026-08-10T21:34:06+00:00

Fortunate — mine took 55% of everything at age 59 after 35yrs married. My condo rent is very much more than then old mortgage, but I’ve increased my net worth over 75% in less than three years.

Regular-Bat-4449 · 2026-08-10T21:23:12+00:00

Just wait, your ex will be back eventually, they always come back

Hippy667 · 2026-08-10T21:14:28+00:00

What a beautiful post. Excellent work sir. Throwing your username into the situation you describe makes it sound even better.

I'm two years post my split and couldn't be happier for similar reasons.

Title	Best ever
Author	Backdoorman1973
Upvotes	109
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Date	August 10, 2026 9:07 PM UTC (5 days ago)
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