Married for over 5 years, with a 2 year old child.

I just don’t understand what is happening or why it is happening.

No matter what I do to mediate or make amends, she pushes me away.

We had a small disagreement outside ( as married couples do), she verbally abused me in public.

Even after this, I tried to reconcile and apologise, not because I was wrong, but for my child and this relationship.

The only thing I am getting back is anger and resentment.

This is very sudden and hasn’t happened to this extent. I got a mediator involved because we were going nowhere.

She said her part, I said my part. In the end the mediator said the wife claims she didn’t say the abusive word ( when she did), we then said let’s speak face to face to clear out the air.

She even refused that

I just don’t know why

After everything I done for this women from bringing her over from a 3rd world country, paying for visa , travel and essentially giving her my bank card for spending.

All of a sudden I am met with anger and hatred towards me. For no reason, no explanation. Refusing to even dialogue.

I wish I had done something so horrendous to warrant this, but I haven’t…..

Thanks for reading and please share if you had similar experience. The divorce seems to be looming…