We’ve been married 8 years last November, 2 kids, 8 and 5, it’s been about 8 months, since she flipped the switch on me for good. I’m “not worth anything but a paycheck” and she would “fuck someone else just so I can’t forgive her” and would stop trying to fix things. I fought for our family and marriage for years. I did kinda quit after she said that. I’ve always said that was one of the few unforgivables, if you’re going to cheat just break up. Only reason she said that to me I’m sure.

At this point, aside from what I’ve seen with my own eyes, idk what the fuck has actually happened over the last 9 years.

She has a pathological history of lying and generally a high conflict personality. She was diagnosed with bipolar type 2 about 5 years ago, and borderline personality disorder last year.

I’ve been through so much and fought so hard to make this work, gave up months ago, almost a relief she’s moving out but I have so many mixed emotions and feel like an absolute failure for my family falling apart, my kids are devastated.

She’s having strangers in our house tomorrow to help her move, I’m sure that will be fun. Im taking care of the kids but can’t leave the house cause I don’t rust