So, I'm a woman, 28 married to a very happily married man whos 32 years old. However, I'm not so happy. I've brought up divorce to him multiple times and often an argument happens afterwards. He said divorce is WAY TO HARD AND TRAMARIC and not worth it. There have been times an argument happens first, but it's rare that we argue. This week we had a BIG argument. He was driving me nuts and I'm sure I was driving him nuts too. I brought up that I was ready for a divorce because being married is too much for me. He still said no. He said He waited his whole life to find a wife, hes not about to lose me without a fight. To be honest, I've been asking for a divorce since the DAY we said "I do". I realized I made a mistake marrying him. On the 21st of October will be our 3rd anniversary, I'm not excited but he is. I'm more anxious than anything. I don't know why he doesn't want to end it when he can clearly see I'm not happy. Idk what to do. We don't have kids, own any property, very few of our finances are joint, so I don't know what's so hard for him about divorce, other than emotionally. I guess I am just ranting or looking for advice.