Is reality different from what redpillers say on the internet?

SweelFor- · 2022-06-06T15:22:04+00:00

Go out and take a look at the couples. Are most women only in couples with the most attractive men? No?

Problem solved

Newbie1955 · 2022-06-06T15:27:30+00:00

Yes. Just do a brief survey of the couples you know in real life. Are you seeing large age gaps where the women went for men 20 years their senior? Are you seeing only ripped, rich men in any sort of relationship at all?

Reality does not match up to red pill rhetoric.

AnAbsoluteGhoul · 2022-06-06T18:43:14+00:00

Yeah.

Think about it: The single trait red pill dudes have in common is that they have trouble with relationships with women. They are essentially the last people who should talk about what women want or how women think because they are men and aren’t even close to any women.

But they are also the people who are most confident that they understand this subject. But how would they possibly know?

They get all their idea about women from other men who aren’t close to any actual women either. Then tell actual women “you don’t know what you’re talking about.” It’s sad.

Initial_Instance8457 · 2022-06-06T15:29:42+00:00

Redpillers seem to forget that love is a thing that exists and relationships go beyond what you look like, how much you make, what car you drive and so on. There is a concept of the “6 6’s” that you must have in order to pull women and my man only meets one of the criteria. I love him dearly. Being hung up on superficial ideologies isn’t the best way to go about relationships.

goodboy92 · 2022-06-06T15:24:06+00:00

Yes. Look at Lisa Peachy on IG. Her Boyfriend is everyrhing but a "Chad".

Curt_doggy_dog · 2022-06-07T02:36:11+00:00

Reality is different from the way they are perceiving it. One thing you have to understand is that terpers view reality through a filter. When they get away from their communities and go out into the real world, they often observe things that contradict TRP. However, rather than question their beliefs, they reinterpret what they see to fit RP "logic." This is what is known as doctrine over person, and it occurs when observable reality and lived experience are subordinated to an ideology (see here for more detail).

somethinganonamous · 2022-06-07T01:05:21+00:00

If you wear any sort of “lens” that says all people of x class behave in a certain way, your confirmation bias will kick in. Even if your belief is accurate when appropriate randomization and experimental controls are in place, your bias will make ambiguous information fit into your beliefs structure.

All pill culture has a bit of truth to it, but it’s constantly over generalized.

In psychology, it is often the case that within group variability is greater than across group variability. Women and men come in all sorts of shapes and flavors, and yet when “collapsing” within genders and comparing averages across groups, there are differences.

WhoDoomsTheDoomer · 2022-06-06T15:05:28+00:00

Inareskai · 2022-06-06T15:10:02+00:00

absolutebeginners · 2022-06-06T15:16:59+00:00

vcreativ · 2022-06-06T15:39:12+00:00

I mean, of course.

Issue being, depending on where you're at you'll see what you want to see. The question isn't so much what reality is like, but rather what you want to see.

Reality can seem like all kinds of things. It'll be trivial to find examples in the real world that support RP ideology. But that doesn't make it true.

Grappleheart · 2022-06-06T15:19:18+00:00

sernamedeleted · 2022-06-06T18:27:53+00:00

Yes, and drastically so.

Ithrewallofitaway · 2022-06-07T03:17:05+00:00

Yes and no. You can have a good relationship with women, but you need to be a good person yourself. A lot of redpillers, like myself, we are downtrodden to the point where we do not want to date anymore for our previous relationship(s) have beaten us so down, we vow to never look at a woman for love again. I don't prescribe that all women are one way or the other, because like me, we are all different. A lot of redpillers, honestly, they should be redpillers because maybe they can be at peace with themselves and never go into a relationship, at least until they come to terms with their own shortcomings. A lot of channels, I could see past their messages, I could see the hurt in them, but beyond that, I see a lot of self-denial. That same self-denial is also in myself. I won't say I was a bad or a cruel person, I was fair, but I had my shortcomings. The worst of which was that I tended to ignore and force myself to forget my wrongs instead of confronting them. The other was to stand up for my beliefs, and to stand up to bullies, I had a problem doing that, especially to those that I thought that loved me. It wasn't until I realized that if I were to stay in this relationship I would explode and do something that I would regret. It wasn't until I realized, in all my good looks and physical attributes, that I did not love myself. I did not love myself to grow as a man and take accountability for myself.

neoexileee · 2022-06-06T15:10:51+00:00

Oh big time.

2022-06-06T18:21:45+00:00

Yes.

Carloverguy20 · 2022-06-06T19:34:00+00:00

Yes it is.

xvszero · 2022-06-06T20:18:59+00:00

Yes.

Think_Growth4990 · 2022-06-06T22:24:44+00:00

No soy un conocedor de ese movimiento, pero lo que vi en internet me parece totalmente incompleto, te cuentan la mitad de la historia o menos

tpobs · 2022-06-07T02:40:23+00:00

Redpill says there is a correct and only answer in your life.

No it isn't. There is no silver bullet. In general rule, if someonse says they have an ultimate answer of all things, be skeptical.

MagicalMichael1 · 2022-06-07T04:06:09+00:00

YungxMidorya · 2022-06-07T05:44:07+00:00

Very different indeed. It's filled with much more nuances that trp leads on

Tooma8 · 2022-06-07T09:21:51+00:00

Zero_Budget · 2022-06-07T20:13:44+00:00

Depends on what things.

Redpill became too radical and too much hatred there, but many ideas have real ground in reality, yes if you are a 5 you cant expect to land a 9-10 woman, unless you have lots of other assets to offer, from money, to confidence, social status and many other things, which would help you.

Yes if you are obese, stinking, no shower guy - nothing will help you, heck remember that virgin shooter, with a bmw, good looks, but a creep, he could not get ANY woman, i bet even ugly ones ran from him.

Its true that you cant be just a random, unhygienic weirdo and attract women, but its also not true that you need to hit a gym, be alpha and its the only way to attract women.

For each their own, but you MUST develop yourself, one way or another, to have the best chances in dating market, if its intelectual or other ways - for you to decide, but if you are a basement dweller it will not work, simping WILL not work as well, addictions to a person or porn as well.

And learn to move on and accept "NO" as an answer, even if its subtle, friendly, etc. Most people want to be kind and reject you in the most polite ways, dont be stuck in a friendzone, move on, accept that you cant get everything you want in your life and at the same time you MUST understand that you have a limited time in here, so dont waste your time and there will be something better or meant for you around the corner.

Title	Is reality different from what redpillers say on the internet?
Author	Pension-North
Upvotes	19
Comments	53
Date	June 6, 2022 3:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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