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And this is why you should NEVER allow yourself to become financially dependent on a man.

Heather619

August 27, 2021
57 upvotes
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Title And this is why you should NEVER allow yourself to become financially dependent on a man.
Author

Heather619

Upvotes 57
Comments 27
Date August 27, 2021 1:47 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pcdj5l/and_this_is_why_you_should_never_allow_yourself/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/and-this-is-why-you-should-never-allow-yourself-to.1065517
https://theredarchive.com/post/1065517
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As I was reading this... I was thinking "He must be significantly older than her." But she handled it perfectly. 💅 👑

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Comments

[–]apple_coresFDS Newbie 50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This has to be fake lol. If it’s not then yes listen to everyone and sell your shit and move on. You accepted his lavish treatments and now he’s not paying up so what other choice do you have. Doubtful any contracts were signed.

[–]naeats 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree lol. Wanting to sue him? 🤦‍♀️

[–]sluggish_pruneFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I smell 💩

[–]Technical_Moth248FDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I would not be shocked if a man wrote this. I’ve seen lot of posts like this going around on fb lately (even one from a fake FDS sub) that scream fake but get a lot of outrage comments because “GOLD DIGGER” lol

[–]bombas-Pickmeisha™️ 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Seems fake yeah. I’m sure women this naive are out there but…I’m not buying it. Women in these situations know perfectly well that losing the main means losing the support, and they’re often vulnerable to real abuse because of that.

[–]aquietswordFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm sure women this naive are out there too, but I HIGHLY doubt they would blame the man at all. They'd be racking their brain trying to figure out "what did I do wrong" and they would probably let slip the creepy sex shit he pressured her into trying.

[–]NottodayScroteFDS Apprentice 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Now that you mention it..It does seem like something a guy would come up with

[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS STRATEGY COACH 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I feel like an actual business owner would say that she runs a shoe store or boutique, not that she "sell[s] shoes and bags". AFAIK there isn't a shoe MLM out there, so if you want to sell shoes, you have to own a real registered business and deal with suppliers.

[–]Technical_Moth248FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s a really good point! I thought that line did sound a bit like “what’s some random generic thing a woman would sell… idk, shoes and purses?”🤣

[–]Own-Substance-8792 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait, why would a guy write something like this? Like what do they get out of posting pretending to be a woman in financial distress?

[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

To perpetuate a narrative that women feel entitled to male money. If women are seen as morally inferior, in misogynists’ minds, it’s more justification that women need to be controlled. It also justifies a position that it is acceptable to, in turn, use women for sex.

Or, they wrote it just to stir shit up because obviously this post would be triggering to men, and trolls find internet fights delightful because they can’t find the same delight in wholesome things as they can in drama and discord....even when it’s over something that didn’t actually happen.

[–]fogplumFDS Newbie 54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Ok wait 30k weaves? Is this real?

[–]onlyeightfingersFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe she’s wearing thirty thousand weaves at once? Like, her hair must reach halfway to space.

[–]electroloopRuthless Strategist 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why her hair is so big, it's full of secrets.

[–]creamtart_FDS Apprentice 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is there actual gold weaved into her hair or something? What am I missing here??

[–]ThrowawaysumcleverBS 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thankyou because fr I couldn’t get over that part

[–]guava-catFDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No woman wrote this.

[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not buying this story.

[–]athena702 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’ve never heard of a 30k wig

[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it’s not a woman that wrote it. Some scrote got ideas

[–]SoSurrealItsUnreal 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is not like abuse. Not by a long shot.

[–]ThrowawaysumcleverBS 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The part that feels so fake specifically-apart from a 30k weave which is like a dollar figure a man would make up not knowing how preposterous it is-is when they wrote ‘this is like abuse.’

Women actually know what abuse is because many of them or our sisters or mothers or friends or daughters or students or loved ones experience actual abuse. Not many women would call this experience of having to pay for their own insurance ‘abuse.’

[–]spitinmymouthplss 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this is so scary..that’s why i’m afraid to engage in a relationship with obvious LV rich scrotes

[–]LR_todayPickmeisha™️ 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No way this was real or written by a woman.

The most expensive wig is $15K. It's an obvious lie.

And also so what? If there was nothing promised in writing he would continue paying, you have to assume at any time he could take it away.

Are her new friends too good for her if she lives somewhere else? Sounds like not very good people to begin with if that's all they care about?

Doesn't matter though, this isn't real.

[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This sounds fake. So she was just sitting there getting “lavished” the whole time, never thinking about her own bag, never thinking about her future or career or independent ideals about her life? At all??

Then “drifted apart” from a person who was apparently the be-all and end-all of her entire lifestyle and personhood at the time??? If she were truly a gold digger she’d have at least paid attention to that.

[–]ChgItToRayGunYouFuckFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Total BS. What guy would just stop paying these things and not tell her he was going to stop? I mean, I feel like any man would loom it over her head or something... Not just go silent.

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