EDIT: He deleted the videos after arguing with some commenters from here. Then he texted me to let me know he is done with me. Guess that solves that problem. We sure are a powerful group.

So I'm in the process of divorcing my low-value husband. I met him at a time of struggle in my life and it took years until I realized that he was a full-blown narcissist and only furthering my anxiety. He had anger issues, a drinking problem, he would smash my furniture and put me down constantly, even asking me to give up my career for him. I finally found the strength to leave last month. The divorce was amicable up until last night.

He had been texting me often, trying to get me to come hang out with him. I told him no repeatedly, and last night I finally told him to stop contacting me if he couldn't respect my boundaries. He went a little insane, and said he would just come to the house and find me. I left immediately, and then received at 25 phone calls (ignored) over the course of the night, along with voicemails and text messages telling me that he was at the house and refusing to leave until I came to see him. He was demanding that I see him in person. The longer I ignored him, the crazier he got. Finally, around 3am, he gave up, said he didn't love me anymore anyway, and left.

This morning I found a series of tiktoks he made during the night discussing our relationship and how blameless he was in the dissolution of it. It's an interesting view into the mind of a narcissist- the way he thinks he's telling a story where he is the hero, but if you read between the lines, you can see just how insane he really is.

This is the link to the first video - see how many red flags you can spot!

https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdMR73o3/