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[–]BalkankaFDS Disciple58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Bingo. Like how fucking exhausting. If I want to fuck or am in the mood for company, there’s plenty of disposable dick available. I’m of “single for life” subset of women here.
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes!!! No wondering who the fuck this person is and whats their history and who are the looking up and wanting to etc. me too. Single for life!
[–]BalkankaFDS Disciple18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always say... I’ve known some amazing, beautiful women in my life, no matter how fantastic and gorgeous they are, their SO is always going to act like they’re a ball and chain, dread going home from work to them (despite having the house cleaned up and dinner on the table), and begin taking them for granted. It happens every fucking time bc that’s male nature. Miss me with that shit. They will be a part of my life if and when I want them to be, but they’ll never get the best of me or have the ability to undermine me or the life that I’ve built for myself. Period.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
We need a secret handshake.
[–]BalkankaFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lmao yes once this corona thing is over. So down.
[–]Classic_TouchFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Same. I may already have it. So I am down real soon. Haha
[–]BalkankaFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I truly hope you don’t!
[–]Classic_TouchFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Normally I wouldnt be to concerned but I am autoimmune. So I do worry. Thankfully I work for a great company who gave all sick a month off played two weeks.
[–]BalkankaFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel you! Stay safe sis!
[–]Aurora_BorealizFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Puh-reach! Even my dreams were stressing and filled with him cheating on me (truly they weren’t far off).
Even my DREAMS are way better these days, no joke!
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my gosh me too!
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There's a great song about this totally empowering https://youtu.be/flK2tqusitk
Chrisette Michele-Epiphany
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll drink to that. Cheers.
[–]SaddleUpBucephalusFDS Newbie204 points205 points206 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I saw this elsewhere on the subreddit but I don't have the direct link:
If men argue that them looking at other women and jerking off to their photos is because men are visual creatures and it's harmless, then you can argue that since women are emotional creatures, we can speak intimately with tons of men in our lives since they fulfill an emotional need. It's not cheating, it's biology!
Flip that script right back on them and see how their pea brains deal with it.
[–]sweatydeath47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saving this in the event I need to use it later!
[–]alivebut-justbarelyFDS Apprentice44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women are also naturally hypergamous, so it's ok if those men are rich, hot, funny, smart, and caring. What's the big deal? We aren't cheating, we just have the natural biological urge to replace you with someone better who can provide for us and our babies. But since we're committed to you, we can't. If you dont let us have the fantasy we are more likely to cheat.
[–]hotsoupleFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are a genius
[–]BigfatbeechFDS Apprentice16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this advice, may have to use it tonight.
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We will need lots of dinner dates, cuddles, and compliments from them as well.
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen to this!
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple222 points223 points224 points 6 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link
And they try to gaslight you and make you think it's you being "insecure" and "overprotective" and "I don't even know this girl" but trust me, he would fuck her if he got the chance to. He's in her DMs begging for a response.
Date men who are not on social media or barely active. Worked for me.
[–][deleted] 73 points74 points75 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
men will get caught with their dick in another woman and say "it's not that deep"
[–]wegonfuckornahFDS Newbie41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When he’s balls deep.
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LOL!
[–]21stCenturyFeministFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine “just got his dick sucked”
[–]nalia1rebelFDS Disciple97 points98 points99 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's kinda like window shopping. Guy scrolls and likes a bunch of pics of hot insta chicks, even though they're unattainable. But if miraculously he gets a reply or the opportunity, he would probably jump on it in a heart beat.
[–]oddcharmFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Yes I’ve known since I was younger I love a man who is extremely lowkey on social media. Best case, he has none at all!
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I like this too, but at the same time every guy i know who says he is "private" has been a cheater.
[–]oddcharmFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I know some of those as well smh
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same girl. My ex was that way.
[–]MonsterMegguFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my experience, the key is that they should have social media, but they should be rather inactive on it.
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The perfect boyfriend (in terms of social media use) would have a Facebook with coworkers, high-school friends, friends and family and post you every 2 months or so. No instagram or barely active without following any girls that he does not know in real life aka no 'influencers' or half naked girls.
No posting means cheater, obsessive posting means the relationship is bad or too clingy. For some it works, for me it doesn't.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From a hvm perspective, why wouldn’t he follow Instagram thots? It sadly feels like so much to ask for 😓
[–]derpinat_butterFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My bf is just like that!
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link
Same. My boyfriend doesn't use social media.
We were watching a TV show where a guy was cheating by obsessing over/liking/messaging instagram women. My boyfriend was like... "Wait, if you're horny and you're either not attracted to your partner or they're not around or whatever... why wouldn't a guy just look at porn? You can go to porn hub and instantly access the most hardcore freaky stuff, so why are they obsessing over instagram photos? The only difference is that Instagram is full of real people you could contact, so the only reason a man would choose instagram over porn is because instagram feels like a closer step to being able to cheat and actually have sex with other women, which is what he wants to do. With porn, you're just watching other people have sex and it's all pretty impersonal, but if you're following actual women and trying to have contact with them, even if they're just in sports clothes then I think that shows a guy's intention of wanting to cheat".
It made me think, following women on instagram can be worse in a way than a guy watching a random hardcore video involving a bunch of random people. Not that porn is fine but you know what I mean. Following instagram models/women and/or paying for cam girls (even if they're not getting naked or the hardcore types) - HUGE predictor that the guy will end up having sex with someone else or having emotional affairs or both.
Same can go for real life - always having inappropriate issues with female friends, like "where did that stuffed toy on your bed come from?".. "oh it's just from my friend stacey, she's just a friend", or "oh yeah, that restaurant is nice! I went there with my room mate britney, just as friends of course"... then you see him standing with britney in the restaurant on instagram, and she looks like a bombshell and he's got his hand around her waist and practically drooling on her lol. Then you see 20 other pics of them doing fun stuff and looking like a couple. Nah sis.
People will be like OMG STOP BEING JEALOUS, ITS NORMAL FOR GUYS TO HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS! ITS NORMAL FOR GUYS TO USE INSTAGRAM AND COMPLIMENT PEOPLE! STOP BEIN SO INSECURE!! But that shit doesn't bother me. I know what feels wrong/weird and I don't see any reason why I should have to tolerate weirdness, when there are guys around who will not tolerate a woman having stretchmarks or making more money than them and goodness knows what else. We make the rules. Fuck what anyone else says about your rules. There are people that will bully you for not being polyamorous and all kinds of shit. Ignore everyone.
[–]booooooooooooooooooFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hol' up. There are poly bullies now? What in the fuck? Preaching love except when you want to withhold it from the hive maybe. God damn.
[–]alivebut-justbarelyFDS Apprentice31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh yeah there are poly bullies. They never shut up about how enlightened and special and amazing they are for being able to love more than one person and how everyone else is just insecure and stupid. If you don't want your man fucking another woman, there is something wrong with you. Nevermind that monogamy makes you perfectly happy, that doesn't matter. You're just closed-minded and jealous and probably voted for Trump and like to trip little old ladies while they cross the street.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. I love when you say something like, "You think choking a woman is fun? No thanks." Then they get flustered and accuse you of being a neocon, Christian. Like, no asshole.
[–]TheVampiressReturnsFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re killing me 🤣
Most humorous description of polyvangelists I’ve read!
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, they say you're just insecure if you're not okay with your partner banging other people.
Porn users are shit.
[–]bootybootybootymeowFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This post gave me life. I dated a guy who followed tons of random girls on insta and would comment dumb shit and emojis on their photos and I found it so pathetic and disrespectful - like you said, that feeling of it being wrong - but I tried to ignore and explain it away and chastise myself for being too "jealous" and "possessive" when it's like nah dude just stop fucking doing it! Not that hard.
When we broke up he told me that "it bothered him" that I knew abt the girls he followed and I was like yeah well it bothered me that you never bothered to make me feel secure in this relationship and also it's really sad that nothing and nobody will ever be enough for you.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a douche.
Some guys will act that way and say the same shit about putting their penis in someone or professing their love to them too. Remember that
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[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He HAD social media until he moved to a different state.
You is not a real show, it is pretty obvious. Mans thinking that he puts a cap on and becomes invisible lmaooo
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice72 points73 points74 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Same dudes who will accuse you of cheating if you like guys shirtless pics or if you have them saved in your phone but yet these disgusting men have folders of other women getting fucked
I advocate women should start doing that, liking shirtless guys pics and saving pics of hot guys in her phone, except that some women might actually get beat up/killed by their boyfriends for doing such a thing. So forget it
[–]leeloo6199FDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My ex. He'd jack off to women constantly. I told him to stop because its disrespectful, he didn't stop. I then gave him a taste of his own medicine and started looking at sexy black men with big dicks. Guess what happened. He locked me in the bedroom , took away my phone, made me unfollow every guy on social media and accused me of cheating! The irony. He then proceeded to pose as me acting like a lesbian and sent my nudes to girls in order to receive some back!!!
[–]nalia1rebelFDS Disciple43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And supposedly we're the insecure ones.... Riiiiiight
[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's why I never really get the "give him a taste of his own medicine!" line women might advise when their SOs have wandering eyes. If you start downloading pictures of naked men, the man will just become MORE depraved with his sexual habits. He'll figure the bar is lowered and either act in a more disgusting way, OR he'll freak out ad become violent/physically abusive and accuse you of "cheating".
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He locked me in the bedroom
You called the police on him for that, right? Jesus.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? All of that...holy fuck.
[–]leeloo6199FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I went to the police station the next day when he left for work. At the time I was scared of what he would do to me and my kids. The police said they could not do much about it because it was hear say. I left him that day and never went back. It was the last straw.
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's usually the same guys who tell you what to wear and who to talk to!
Comes in the same package!
[–]cherieblosumFDS Disciple31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Men know what liking a pic means. They are doing it to get the women's attention. What really is the point of liking something?
[–]Kekekeke7777FDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
My ex told me he did it to “increase the girls’ self esteem”. Loooool
[–]mypepsipussyFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And why exactly are they even giving that girl the time of day to begin with?
[–]nymphaetamineFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My ex said the exact same shit. Tried to play it off like he was just trying to spread happiness and give a self-esteem boost to all those poor insecure models and porn stars.
[–]Kekekeke7777FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
God that is angering. If you get upset it’s “don’t you care about women’s self esteem?”
[–]nymphaetamineFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I can’t believe you’re mad at me for being NICE!”
😂
[–]Kekekeke7777FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nice username! 😄
[–]nymphaetamineFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks!
Omg, the gaslighting stings.
[–][deleted] 46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I appreciate that they edited it to be Miss Piggy.
[–]FishtootsFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good lord, I forgot about the term cyber. That brings be back.
[–]mypepsipussyFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s not okay if that’s what your boyfriend does as a past time and fucking hobby. Following girls on Instagram and liking their photos.
There’s nothing innocent about it. What a spit in the face and your body.
Imagine if girls did that? It would also be like 1000% easier for a girl to secretly fuck hot guys they like on Instagram.
He’s basically saying that’s what he wishes he could do IF he They would let him. Such a double, sexist standard and it’s not okay that it has been normalised as “HeALthY MaLe sExuAliTy”.
Not cool. Gaslighting, manipulative, asshole, DISHONEST, low value male behaviour.
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, if he got the chance to he WOULD.
I never ever uploaded a half naked (even bikini) photos because i am wary of these type of men, ion want them in my DMs begging for coochie crumbs.
[–]tellmesomething11FDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex liked my photos and attempted flirting with me while in a “loving” relationship with his new gf. I left the posts up so she can see them. Also he stalked me on YouTube 🙄 for an entire year until I deleted my channel.
Don’t know if they are still together, they probably are smh
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