Haha... No

Platipus6 · 2020-10-24T10:58:55+00:00

"How can I make this sound wistful and arty" thinks a man with a panicked look on his face and a list of DV charges as long as my pandemic hair.

mtan15 · 2020-10-24T12:53:06+00:00

I think my 44yr old ex took this route with his 25 yr old girlfriend. So I told her everything. She's still there though.... so maybe she agrees with this.

Toxic-Deadly-Tacos · 2020-10-24T12:41:47+00:00

They’re praying you don’t find out their history of cheating, abuse and their side family 🙄

Sage_Planter · 2020-10-24T13:53:41+00:00

I learned this lesson the hard way. Don't let a man be vague about the past, especially since it affects the present. You need to know.

saragc92 · 2020-10-24T11:41:03+00:00

Yes and No, you definitely want to find out if the guy has kids or a secret baby momma, I just recently started dating again and the amount of BS some ppl give out just to get laid is immense.

Missybanana · 2020-10-24T15:17:44+00:00

This was written by a lady with a prison pen-pal.

__kamikaze__ · 2020-10-24T15:58:38+00:00

Hell to the no. Dig as deep as you can.

If you were buying a house you’d inspect every crack and corner—same should apply to a man.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-24T15:33:18+00:00

Authored by an abuser who goes to prostitutes...

perkytitssolidshits · 2020-10-24T17:41:56+00:00

Past gives the blueprints to what creates that person. Always dig. Don’t be afraid to ask. When you ask have insane eye contact, that’s how you can tell the liars.

You think people would forgive a German Nazi all because it was in his past? Would you forgive a man with an assult charge? Does he have a cheating past/drug past- he will most likely do it again. Has he used hookers? He will again.

Don’t be afraid to snoop when needed to get proof but listen to your gut, it’s almost always right. Women’s intuition is a thing for a reason.

daisy_0720 · 2020-10-24T18:30:59+00:00

Ah yes, this sounds like a man who has no skeletons in his closet AT ALL.

Palgary · 2020-10-24T16:33:38+00:00

The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

2020-10-24T15:54:33+00:00

Past behavior is the best prediction of future behavior. And yes, once a cheater always a cheater.

rightascensi0n · 2020-10-24T20:23:01+00:00

I wonder if this is how they approach job interviews/ background checks too.

romantickitty · 2020-10-24T16:32:54+00:00

Said Bluebeard. This is not a new game.

2020-10-24T17:17:50+00:00

Oh yeah if he has a murderous past I should just let it go. People change! 🙄

Mella_20 · 2020-10-24T18:01:41+00:00

Nah your criminal record is still important to me. In the past my ass.

elainejay82 · 2020-10-24T17:04:32+00:00

Oh hell no. Go through everything.

ItsFreezen · 2020-10-24T17:42:43+00:00

Forget about all those red flags /s

Enola_gay_ · 2020-10-24T19:37:00+00:00

Said the paedophile

eaucitron · 2020-10-24T21:17:27+00:00

Oh the treasure trove I dug up when he went off the deep end, finally left my house for good and left his gmail and Reddit accounts logged in on my personal computer. Yeah, no. If they tell you they went out of their way to try and wipe themselves off the internet and they have 100 excuses for not having any online presence yet have a bunch of burner emails, it’s likely cause they’ve got something to bury.

INGranny3 · 2020-10-24T15:58:39+00:00

There is a reason my dog makes new people go through a very long vetting process lol. I’m going to be more like my dog!

seekingcodingjedi · 2020-10-25T05:17:56+00:00

Wow the audacity! This applies to only one thing. Shitholes.

Title	Haha... No
Author	liondale
Upvotes	380
Comments	33
Date	October 24, 2020 10:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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