I cringed 😬

PaciencaYFe · 2020-06-11T15:51:41+00:00

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Lavender_flow · 2020-06-11T16:46:11+00:00

I feel sorry for them both. Her being a clown, for him to not be able to date guys.

PaciencaYFe · 2020-06-11T15:40:33+00:00

Something about the way this is written and the physical running away doesn't sit right with me 😂

villagefunambulist · 2020-06-11T16:11:35+00:00

This is wrong and disturbing on so many levels. Her - zero self respect and self awareness 🤡. Him - possibly gay and/or just with her out of convenience/utility. Perhaps, she pays his bills and gives him a free place to live and he cannot stand the sight of her and pursues other women (or men) on the side.

Ka_Tetof99 · 2020-06-11T17:44:33+00:00

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Quodpot · 2020-06-11T18:09:08+00:00

Even if he let her give him a bj then what? He cums, then carries on with his day and isn't interested in sex till she offers the next bj. Trying to overly please your partner when they're not interested is always a losing game because you'll give and give and they'll take and take and never reciprocate. The resentment will grow.

bey124 · 2020-06-11T17:07:21+00:00

Hahahaha I don’t really believe a woman wrote this

2020-06-11T17:54:05+00:00

She begs to please him ? Lmaoo pathetic

Lavender_flow · 2020-06-11T19:09:12+00:00

ugh, I have said it once and I will say it again: Deadbedrooms is the most disturbing, sad and worst Reddit of them all. I can't even read there because of the complete and utter lack of self respect these people have. On top of that they have the most abusive and toxic relationships which completely baffles my mind. So I just can't deal with that Reddit.

I just can't.

PicklesNBacon · 2020-06-11T20:14:52+00:00

He’s totally cheating

DivaPeaches · 2020-06-11T21:04:11+00:00

(Raising Hand...) Could it be that he's in a relationship already, and in his twisted little mind--->

"As long as I don't have oral sex with the side chick, I'm being faithful!"

I'm being totally serious; I have heard this crazy explanation about why a guy was turning down a BJ, but still wanted sex.

Otherwise, don't no man turn down a BJ unless they just don't want to be bothered with You.

LondonDaPink · 2020-06-11T17:11:35+00:00

I'm asexual, he could be ace and is trying to force an allosexual person into a relationship with him which isn't fair to the both of them. Either way, she should leave him alone, he obviously has unsorted issues she can't help with.

NewGirl_WhoDis · 2020-06-11T19:27:19+00:00

Maybe he's gay or asexual... most likely gay...

Most straight men would NEVER decline BJs, even if they are on their deathbeds and are offered one, they'd readily accept it.

MagnoliaMirage · 2020-06-11T20:34:38+00:00

This is so weird....

faircreditscore · 2020-06-11T22:33:53+00:00

Like is it that hard? If it doesn’t work for you and won’t in the future THEN LEAVEEEEEEEEEEE

It’s like that option never crosses some women’s minds. It never crossed mine once when I was miserable. Being single by default should be awesome. If your quality of life goes down being with someone? Then. Leave.

That is why I think it is so important to to spend some time being actively single and learning how to love life alone.

BetterToBeLonely · 2020-06-12T04:46:11+00:00

I've lurked on that sub for years and I've come to the conclusion that half of them are married to spouses who are disgusted by them and the other half married to controll freaks using sex as a manipulation tactic. Either way, there is no dignity. None. Begging to give him a bj? Just the idea makes me shudder.

2020-06-11T21:15:14+00:00

This is just badly written fiction

Buckley92 · 2020-06-11T23:44:10+00:00

Sounds like either gay, pedophile, alcoholic or porn addiction.

Title	I cringed 😬
Author	PaciencaYFe
Upvotes	212
Comments	48
Date	June 11, 2020 3:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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