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[–]PaciencaYFeFDS Newbie[S] 111 points112 points113 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The way it's written, maybe he just goes in the other room.... But I picture him Naruto running away
[–]pickmieshaexorcistFDS Apprentice33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ha, I pictured how Napoleon Dynamite runs away.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lollll
[–]finalbosskittenFDS STRATEGY COACH26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Still sitting here at a loss as to how anyone can stay in such a relationship. How do you every day be treated with such disgust by your supposed "love" and not be heartbroken? I'd be backwards running away from that relationship instantly.
I wonder if he uses porn and if he liked sex earlier in their relationship...
[–]gcthrowaway2019FDS Apprentice59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'm leaning towards gay. Not being into a woman has never stopped a heterosexual male.
[–]NewGirl_WhoDis 55 points56 points57 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not being into a woman has never stopped a heterosexual male.
Yep, especially when it comes to BJs, they'd happily whip out their dicks even if it were one of the Gorgon sisters that asks to give him one.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could be pornsick with ridiculous expectations.
[–]BluefoxcrushFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Who care why” I believe is key. Spinning yourself into circles trying to figure it out takes your efforts and puts into a place that isn’t effective.
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[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There's a lot of gay men who use women to prolong their stay in the closet. Which is toxic. That's what these women are alluding to when they call men gay.
[–][deleted] 84 points85 points86 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I feel sorry for them both. Her being a clown, for him to not be able to date guys.
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I actually think he is denial. Even the most pornsick scrote would happily receive a blowjob because they can just sit back and imagine one of their porn women blowing them. They love that. But him being scared and freaked out by sex, I honestly think he is just freaked out at the thought of having sex with a woman.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe he isn’t gay but asexual but feel the pressure or performing “ a masculinity “. Or he get a trauma and doesn’t want to engage in sex anymore and the lack of trust and respect between them is truly heartbreaking. Once I read a anonymous confession of a man who get raped, told his wife and she divorced him cause feel disgusted.
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yeah but I know some a-sexual people and they are pretty upfront about it. Now I am not sure, but he just sound gay to me. Like if she looked through his computer and see he watches porn, it is a porn problem, but perhaps he watches gay porn. We dont know, but yeah. My partner has been traumatized by two different women sexually, it was 100 % assault, if the things he went through had happened to a woman it would be classified as rape and coercion. I am still with him and love him, he is an amazing man, but he has never told anyone else because society's view of toxic masculinity.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
❤️wish you and your beloved one only best in life.
[–]sofiacarolinaFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂🏅
[–]PaciencaYFeFDS Newbie[S] 62 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Something about the way this is written and the physical running away doesn't sit right with me 😂
[–]villagefunambulistFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is wrong and disturbing on so many levels. Her - zero self respect and self awareness 🤡. Him - possibly gay and/or just with her out of convenience/utility. Perhaps, she pays his bills and gives him a free place to live and he cannot stand the sight of her and pursues other women (or men) on the side.
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[–]Ka_Tetof99FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There’s a very weird martyrdom complex going on over there. I can’t imagine openly admitting to staying in a shit relationship for a decade or more. They all love to make excuses for why they can’t leave, too.
[–]Top-BabybearFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's sad, and a common solution on that sub is to simply lower one's expectations because other aspects of the relationship are "fine." I don't have room to talk because I'm in a DB situation myself, but I'm trying to grow some self respect, slowly but surely.
[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Even if he let her give him a bj then what? He cums, then carries on with his day and isn't interested in sex till she offers the next bj. Trying to overly please your partner when they're not interested is always a losing game because you'll give and give and they'll take and take and never reciprocate. The resentment will grow.
[–]QuodpotFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's hoping that he'll be excited one of these times by this offer, because we're all so societally brainwashed to believe that men are complete animals and want sex 24/7. She wants to be wanted so badly. I feel sad for her, she must be young. I think this has happened to a lot of us
[–]bey124FDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hahahaha I don’t really believe a woman wrote this
[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why not? There's loads of women who are unknowingly dating men that are still in the closet.
[–]bey124FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Probably, yes. I guess I just have a hard time imagining a woman practically begging a man to allow her to give him a blowjob (outside of porn settings) for any duration of time.
[–]PaciencaYFeFDS Newbie[S] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You'd be surprised
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She begs to please him ? Lmaoo pathetic
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
ugh, I have said it once and I will say it again: Deadbedrooms is the most disturbing, sad and worst Reddit of them all. I can't even read there because of the complete and utter lack of self respect these people have. On top of that they have the most abusive and toxic relationships which completely baffles my mind. So I just can't deal with that Reddit.
I just can't.
[–]notbasic4karenFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
And when you post there, you get a bunch of DMs from creeps trying to start an online affair. Just what every failing relationship needs /s
[–]QuodpotFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm willing to bet there are tons of thirsty men who lurk that sub because they think it'll be easier to pick up women who are in dead bedroom situations
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
UGH indeed and EW!
I just imagine Sweaty, fat, balding guys when I think of men that sent DM's like that.
[–]PicklesNBaconPickmeisha™️7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He’s totally cheating
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cheating or pornsick is a possibility. It seems that more and more men are so riddled with erectile dysfunction that it takes way more than “normal sex” acts to keep them hard.
[–]DivaPeachesFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
(Raising Hand...) Could it be that he's in a relationship already, and in his twisted little mind--->
"As long as I don't have oral sex with the side chick, I'm being faithful!"
I'm being totally serious; I have heard this crazy explanation about why a guy was turning down a BJ, but still wanted sex.
Otherwise, don't no man turn down a BJ unless they just don't want to be bothered with You.
[–]LondonDaPinkFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm asexual, he could be ace and is trying to force an allosexual person into a relationship with him which isn't fair to the both of them. Either way, she should leave him alone, he obviously has unsorted issues she can't help with.
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[–]LondonDaPinkFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no idea, I'm just speculating like everyone else. But I hate the assumption that someone is gay because they don't want to have sex, there's a multitude of reasons why.
[–]NewGirl_WhoDis 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe he's gay or asexual... most likely gay...
Most straight men would NEVER decline BJs, even if they are on their deathbeds and are offered one, they'd readily accept it.
[–]MotherofvampiresFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm willing to bet a gay man wouldn't turn down a BJ from a woman either. It's not like he has to touch her body even.
[–]MagnoliaMirageFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so weird....
[–]faircreditscoreFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like is it that hard? If it doesn’t work for you and won’t in the future THEN LEAVEEEEEEEEEEE
It’s like that option never crosses some women’s minds. It never crossed mine once when I was miserable. Being single by default should be awesome. If your quality of life goes down being with someone? Then. Leave.
That is why I think it is so important to to spend some time being actively single and learning how to love life alone.
[–]BetterToBeLonelyFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've lurked on that sub for years and I've come to the conclusion that half of them are married to spouses who are disgusted by them and the other half married to controll freaks using sex as a manipulation tactic. Either way, there is no dignity. None. Begging to give him a bj? Just the idea makes me shudder.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is just badly written fiction
[–]Buckley92FDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like either gay, pedophile, alcoholic or porn addiction.
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