Let me guess, she initiates every single date, too. Oh wait, she confirmed in the comments that, she in fact, does.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-09-27T05:28:25+00:00

Oh he knows she wants him to pay his own way. He’s just trying to wring as much value from his sugar mommy/bangmaid as he can before she’s thoroughly disgusted by him, and leaves him by the side of the road.

sruslywhytho · 2021-09-27T05:49:17+00:00

And this is why you don't ask men out. He's not interested in her but if she's willing to be his free entertainment he'll go along until he meets someone he actually likes. If he was gonna have to come up off $20 for his own ticket he'd suddenly be sick and unable to go.

He's not interested in paying his own way. He's interested in free entertainment. She'd be better off going with one of her girlfriends.

Technusgirl · 2021-09-27T06:59:39+00:00

She should have not started a pattern of paying for dates, even if she makes more money. Now that's what he expects so obviously he's not just suddenly start paying for things. Plus it sounds like he's really not into her if she's initiating everything. She needs to take this as a lesson and leave.

08__80 · 2021-09-27T10:21:13+00:00

Girl, you let him put his dick in your vagina, but you're too scared to tell him "Hey, I need you to pay for your own food/entertainment during dates."

This isn't just a her problem, this is a HUGE PROBLEM for millions of women out there, they are terrified of saying basic things to men because they know the men will create drama and leave. This is not healthy, they are emotional hostages. If you see yourself in what I'm saying (whether it's with a guy, or with a friend, or family member) please, do something, get yourself out of that situation!

chainsawbobcat · 2021-09-27T12:18:02+00:00

It's just so impractical to ask men out on all accounts. For me it's not even that I'd be assumed as the financer but WHAT ELSE DID YOU DECIDE I'VE AGREED TO WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE!?! Tread carefully, the unspoken contract of what women owe men once they've given her any lick of attention is fucking sneaky and brutal. I'm ruthless to men who want to give me attention, no. Doubt bother bc I'm gonna shut down the cute bullshit upfront I really don't give a fuck about playing the game 🤣 it's so liberating.

aquietsword · 2021-09-27T05:45:02+00:00

Why does some scrote she is casually dating even know her income? So many wrong things here...

Determinedblonde · 2021-09-27T05:15:03+00:00

Once again, I’m learning that all the accusations LVM throw at women are all comments about them. The projection is real.

ello-motto · 2021-09-27T10:46:43+00:00

You stop dating them!

extragouda · 2021-09-27T13:44:18+00:00

He's using her for her money! He's a younger man using her for her money, shame on him!

miwamus · 2021-09-27T17:39:50+00:00

A man being a golddigger? It can’t be. It just can’t be.

Jnnjuggle32 · 2021-09-27T11:48:34+00:00

This is actually a great example of why an age-gap relationship where the woman is older is also a bad idea. Men fetishize women over a certain age and gain social capital to an extent for this. Your value to a younger is male is 100% tied to your wealth and the much reduced risk of fertility. As you age, the wealth factor will become more and more important- even if you feel something more, younger men will discard you the moment your no longer positive social capital (your age become more of a factor than wealth) and move on to a younger woman or a wealthier woman (I’ll add your willingness to be his mommy is also a factor as well). Run!

ElevatedEmpress · 2021-09-27T15:39:35+00:00

NAH ✋ I don’t claim this energy. I’m not getting shit under my nails scraping the bottom of the barrel. Again 😭

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-09-27T16:11:33+00:00

I bet she also was the one who made the initial move and asked him out because something something equality and men are dense.

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-09-28T07:10:14+00:00

Proof that men can use women for free food and be gold diggers.

saint-jezebel · 2021-09-28T11:14:51+00:00

OP’s downvote for the win 😂

Title	Let me guess, she initiates every single date, too. Oh wait, she confirmed in the comments that, she in fact, does.
Author	Squidwrd_Tortellini
Upvotes	309
Comments	25
Date	September 27, 2021 5:09 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pwaaun/let_me_guess_she_initiates_every_single_date_too/
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