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LVM/NVM Child Predators Grooming Young Teens For Nudes in the Guise of “Sex Positivity” - Mom Says She Tried To Prevent Daughters From Falling Victim To Online Predators, But They Were Still Groomed

CakeSprinklesUnicorn

December 9, 2021

293 upvotes

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Title	LVM/NVM Child Predators Grooming Young Teens For Nudes in the Guise of “Sex Positivity” - Mom Says She Tried To Prevent Daughters From Falling Victim To Online Predators, But They Were Still Groomed
Author	CakeSprinklesUnicorn
Upvotes	293
Comments	28
Date	December 9, 2021 1:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rc6u31/lvmnvm_child_predators_grooming_young_teens_for/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/lvmnvm-child-predators-grooming-young-teens-for.1087854 https://theredarchive.com/post/1087854

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[–]DivineGoddess1111111FDS Newbie 176 points177 points178 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]CakeSprinklesUnicornAt-Risk Pick Me Youth[S] 113 points114 points115 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]DivineGoddess1111111FDS Newbie 79 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]hensbanexFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]tomaito_tomarto 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

From your description, this girl is desperately seeking male validation. Who taught her that? I'm guessing mum.

The whole of society taught her that. Young girls are raised and conditioned to believe that they have nothing to offer except for their beauty.

From the time they're born, young girls are told how beautiful they look in that dress. How beautiful their hair looks when it's plaited. How beautiful their smile is. It's dished out as a compliment whenever a parent wants to praise their daughter.

Take note the next time you see an article or hear a story about a woman being murdered, almost without fail the friends and family will describe the poor woman in a way that boils her existence down to just how she looked. They won't say anything about how smart she was, how accomplished or how kind. No, it'll be about her beauty. "She was so lovely".

Stop telling your kids they're beautiful and instead tell them how smart they are. How brave, amazing, creative or how kind they are. Compliment them on things they can do and achieve FOR THEMSELVES and not something that they have limited control over, like what they were born looking like. They will start building their self esteem off of the skills and traits they develop and not how flawless their face is. One day that face will start withering and what happens then? They have no other foundation for their self esteem.

Is it any wonder we have 12 year old girls seeking out old men to tell them they're beautiful? They've been gifted those magical words as praise for their entire lives, of course they're going to start seeking it out, it's probably all they know.

[–]peaches88888FDS Newbie 89 points90 points91 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]misandryismadeupFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ZeniiteFDS Newbie 48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This reminds me of when I was in my very late teens and my brother, 6 years younger than me, would use some online chat. One day he brought his laptop into the kitchen and turned the screen to face me where I could see a man on camera from the neck down with a bare torso. I SCREAMED at my brother, slammed the computer shut, and told him to never show me to a man or show me a man online ever again. I told our mom about it, but she didn’t have the kind of response that she should have had if she were trying to be protective of us (but she was emotionally neglectful overall). My point here is that parents need to pay attentive and not give their kids the benefit of the doubt when they’re on their devices all day, and boys/male teens need to be educated about this shit, too. I’m sure these online predators could convince young, misunderstood boys to send photos or videos of female relatives or friends without the girls/women knowing.

[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]fireforestfairyFDS Apprentice 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CakeSprinklesUnicornAt-Risk Pick Me Youth[S] 121 points122 points123 points 4 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

A mom discusses how her 14-year-old daughter and 12-year-old daughter were groomed by adult men on Snapchat and TikTok to send nudes and graphic media. The 12-year-old said she did it because the men made her “feel beautiful.”

I don’t have kids yet, but this genuinely makes me worry about how to raise kids in the future, if the digital environment is going to be saturated with this type of “sex positivity”, “liberal feminist” pro-porn environment (where kids are groomed to be sexualized at a young age for the sake of attention). I actually wish there would be some sort of controls here by the government to keep this from being normalized; it’s likely the girls here had been influenced by the current Pornhub culture, where even 7-year-old boys can click on Pornhub and watch BDSM orgy porn videos from their iPhone at recess.

This is not the type of environment that should be permissible for kids.

In terms of FDS relevance, not only is it a definite that NVM abusers are the child predators in this scenario, but these girls are being conditioned to become desensitized to sex and abuse. The twisted part is that their groomers were able to use “sex positivity” / positive reinforcement (both products of liberal feminism) as a way to reward the girls. In addition, young boys who are watching porn on their phones grow up to be the next generation of LVM/NVM.

Additional thoughts - If you eventually want to have kids in the future, this presents a sort of nightmare scenario on how to raise them without having them being inadvertently groomed. Do you keep them from having cell phones, social media or laptops until they reach 16/17?

What are your thoughts on this and what do you think should be done?

[–]dangermommiFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Ninja_Flower_LadyFDS Newbie 88 points89 points90 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]HappyCoconuttyFDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]CakeSprinklesUnicornAt-Risk Pick Me Youth[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]tellmesomething11FDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have children, they’re 10, they don’t have cell phones yet but they have tablets and many, many search engines are blocked. Many sites are blocked. I get an email when they try to download something and I have to approve it. They each have a desktop and it’s in the living room only and they aren’t allowed to play with their tablets in their room. At night all tablets go into my room.

some might think this is a lot but I have to do this bc I caught one child looking at porn like a year ago? I was just trusting and now everything is locked down. I had to talk to them about how women are abused and that if they watch porn they are basically saying it’s okay to be abused.
I don’t know how I feel about a cell phone, technically I’m not required to buy one for my child lol. I may get something simple, that does text and calls only, they can buy their own smartphone when they turn 18. My daughters are okay with it. But I don’t know I’m slightly hippy and earth centered, I don’t even have cable and they have limited screen time.

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[–]KindredMaximusFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At least 500 000 a day in one country. I bet that's a conservative figure - there is a neverending avalanche of predators in every echelon of society where women are - work, transport, sports, online, on streets, shopping centres, beaches - every single place. but NoT aLl MeN. Men don't believe us, even as they sit in front of their computer searching for 'hot barely legal' and yanking their sorry selves for dear life. God they are boring as hell and dangerous.
I think feminism made a mistake when we insisted that we have freedom to do what men do. What we should have been rioting about was insisting they conform to our standards and stop being basic and predatory. Why did we think that behaving in their godawful way would be freedom? I used to think that in my marriage as well - why is he bringing me down? Why can't he come UP to my standards of behaviour?

[–]SupremeDearLeaderFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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