Major trigger warning. This is what pro kink / pro sex work activists are advocating for. They always rant about women having bodily autonomy & making their own choices, but does it look like the people who engage deeply in kink are mentally healthy? I’m sorry, but this mentality is psychotic.

makeawomancum · 2022-03-26T01:19:21+00:00

I really want this to be fake, but on the off chance it’s a woman who really has gone off the deep end;

She’s just constantly reliving her trauma and now she promotes the traumatization of other women. Just because it’s a ‘cope’ doesn’t mean it really helps… I think that’s where a lot of the former victims of sexual assault get it wrong when they get into bdsm, we hear about how it can “be healing”, but most of the time it’s just further damaging our psyche.

Honestly if this is real; I’m incredibly depressed and horrified reading how far gone this woman is mentally. I seriously hope she seeks help. I’ve truly struggled with unlearning kink due to being groomed and raped in the past, but I never once fantasized about spreading my pain onto other women like this. Like fuck, we should be entitled to our own bodies.

How does having the bare minimum degree of self respect make us egotistical? Why do you think you’re crying and wonder what’s it like to be like the victims you make fun of? Maybe because deep down you know you do wish to heal and learn how to healthily function in society without being degraded. Because women are human beings, people with real feelings and real lives. You cry because you are tired of being treated like shit. It makes me so mad, but also sad realizing “doms” are often just abusers taking advantage of their submissive partner’s mental illnesses.

Women like this who have depraved intentions on feeding us to the wolves are the ultimate pick-me’s and pose a major threat to women around them. This woman was groomed by rapist males and wants to help them groom more young girls because that’s the only way she thinks she can have power. This is obviously a disgustingly false sense of power though, she’s not proving that she’s better than other girls. She’s doing the opposite since she’s completely embraced her internalized misogyny. Rapists do not deserve our sympathy.

Meanwhile I think the women on FDS, who were groomed like me hope to prevent this kind of thing from happening to future generations.

If this was just a creepy man cosplaying, holy shit. It still disturbs me that someone is thinking about this. I looked at OOP’s post history, it does seem to be a very disturbed trauma survivor. The account has a twitter and an onlyfans attached. 😞

I do not suggest looking for this account, it was highly triggering for me as a survivor and I don’t even want to look through it again. I found this post on a super fucked up confessional Reddit page I read about that was meant to be quarantined. I was not prepared for the level of depravity on the sub.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-03-26T02:28:39+00:00

It's sexual doublethink, where women are supposed to believe that sex is no big deal to men, but men are also willing to ruin their own lives and go to jail just for a few minutes of sex.

makeawomancum · 2022-03-26T02:21:19+00:00

"If someone wants to punch me in the face, it may be bad. But, because so many people punched me in the face in the past (lol I'm not good at school!) I might as well charge for it. All those women crying about getting punched in the face should be passed on to men who will do it more. You see, because I choose to let a man punch me in the face, it's empowering and feminist! It definitely isn't a form of self-loathing, self-harm, and learned helplessness! It definitely isn't cognitive dissonance. I'm a-ok with my deep beliefs men want to punch me no matter what, so why not give it to them? Yay empowement!"

That is what these sex pozzy libfem kinksters sound like. It's not about consent, women's rights, or women closing the orgasm gap. It never was. It is just normalization of men's misogyny toward women. Calling abuse "kink" is our modern version of "The Emperor's New Clothes."

dontblinkyoullmissme · 2022-03-26T02:03:51+00:00

This was written by a man who views women as sex toys. It’s so obvious. Probably a guy who wants to murder women he knows he’ll never get a chance with while they’re still alive.

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2022-03-26T01:22:23+00:00

This sounds like cosplay

Edit : sounds like a man pretending to be a woman for those who misunderstood.

Glad_Boysenberry_337 · 2022-03-26T02:02:58+00:00

IMO, this sounds like it’s written by a man

StrawberryMoon3 · 2022-03-26T09:26:27+00:00

She's a handmaiden

KitKat1705 · 2022-03-26T09:40:39+00:00

English isn’t my mother tongue but this one sounds unhinged. i dont even understand the train of thoughts here ? Why do people feel the need to express every little thought going through their head?

basuragoddess · 2022-03-26T02:03:54+00:00

Holy shit ima pray for that woman.

SakuraGirl88 · 2022-03-26T02:12:17+00:00

Ugh. Disgusting and disturbing. I hope this was written by a man as some sick fantasy.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-26T03:58:10+00:00

I think this was written by a man, but that is equally disturbing

NotYourCirce · 2022-03-26T03:51:58+00:00

You won’t convince me this wasn’t written by a man

ultblue7 · 2022-03-26T02:26:22+00:00

I think what scares me is how normalized this is becoming. I almost went down this path and most likely would have retraumatized myself if I hadn’t found FDS.

I was given no sex education growing up and turned to porn when I was desperate to be liked. It always left me feeling disgusted. When I went to friends and family, very few even wanted to broach the topic. Out of frustration and trauma I had a one night stand and almost a mental break. Then I had a relationship with a kink positive man and thought I had to participate to be loved. He knew what he wanted and I wanted him.

After being discarded I went back to the apps seeking any sort of validation. Its so easy to fall into this cycle of despair and retraumatization. Especially in a society that never addresses women’s sexuality except in comically unrealistic porn or shows. I really don’t know how the majority of women do it. I feel so broken when I think about sex and have so much to heal before ever considering another sexual relationship. I’m so glad FDS showed me I wasnt insane to want to be loved in a “vanilla” way.

Peak_Tree · 2022-03-26T21:31:26+00:00

Pick mes ARE DANGEROUS. I don't really give AF about her mental health, she's dangerous to other women and I don't have pity left for that.

Efflights6 · 2022-03-26T13:52:11+00:00

I think I had too much internet for the day.

Colour_riot · 2022-03-26T14:23:08+00:00

If this isn't a male troll (which I strongly suspect it is by the last few sentences... basically an incel confession), this is the mentality that pickmes who harm other women have.

ConstantNurse · 2022-03-26T05:57:25+00:00

Jesus, this breaks my heart.

She’s become hypersexual due to her past trauma and is using it to relive/hopefully control the situation.

I seriously hope this is fake.

Maingurl · 2022-03-26T16:36:24+00:00

hyper sexual little girl

🤢🤢🤢

Ew, this person is sick.

Pokegirloras · 2022-03-26T20:35:48+00:00

Women don't write like this. What are the chances a man vs woman uses the word primal to describe sex

Jay-Qualin · 2022-03-26T01:27:19+00:00

Disgusting bitch, reading this made me sick to my stomach...I don't care how traumatized she was, a lot of women get traumatized and they don't turn out like this, so I have zero sympathy for her deranged ass

detikripur · 2022-03-26T14:49:04+00:00

It’s a man. Probably late teens, early 20 with a rape fantasy. No woman would write this shit.

MarsV89 · 2022-03-26T18:45:13+00:00

If self harming was a personality, it would be this. Jesus

FI-REfox · 2022-03-26T16:05:07+00:00

Zero chance a woman wrote this, very fake "teehee iMaGiRl!" vibes. This is how incels actually think we talk.

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