Methods they use to stealth unsuspecting women

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-09-21T03:01:26+00:00

I avoid one night stands, hookups, and casual sex for this very reason. Whenever I have had casual sex in the past, the man always put his desires and well being over mine. All of the men I had casual sex with bitched and complained about wearing a condom, saying that they just assume the woman is on birth control. Even if I did take birth control, i wouldn’t want to risk getting an STI from his filthy dick. And if you have sex with a total stranger he can easily lie to you about his sexual health status. It’s never worth it, as women we have so much more to lose having sex with men.

staywiththecrown · 2021-09-21T04:40:43+00:00

Yep. The last scrote I fucked (unfortunately) used a small condom that kept "slipping off" randomly. When I was concerned with his limp dick and slipping condoms (they ALL were like that), he suggested doing anal instead - without condoms.

I lit into him like, "You're over 30 years old. How do you NOT know how condoms work??", and he was surprised Pikachu that I called him out. I left and blocked him on the way out the door. I was furious that he was willing to endanger my health for shitty sex.

You're not reaching. You're right - they know what they're doing.

glendoraza · 2021-09-21T02:48:41+00:00

Yeah I always thought it was weird when someone said condoms break here and there.

I’ve never seen it happen to me and just assumed it’s what happens to other people

BasieSkanks · 2021-09-21T06:24:28+00:00

This is a big reason why women should avoid hookup culture and promiscuous men. Men do not face the same risks as women when it comes to sex, so they are not as invested in their own sexual health. If a man doesn’t care about his sexual health, he won’t care about yours. Men also lie about their STD/STI status. I remember speaking to a community dick who said he had never caught anything. A few weeks later, he let it slip that he caught a “lil infection that cleared within a few days”. Even if he doesn’t have an STI/D, he’s likely carrying herpes and doesn’t know it. Certain strains of HPV can give women cancer. Imagine risking all of this and not even cumming at the end of it. Say NO TO COMMUNITY DICK.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-09-21T04:06:48+00:00

The 97% effective statistic doesn’t even mean that three percent of all condoms fail (a number that implies that three in 100 condoms is defective, or that each condom lets three percent of sperm through). The data was gathered from a test group of couples who used condoms as their only form of birth control for a year. Most of the failures of this method were from the couple not using a condom because they ran out, or there weren’t any around. If used properly, a condom is more than 99.999% effective. Some manufacturers even test every single condom they make with electrical current to check for “weak spots”. Moreover, condoms are designed to shred apart if there are any holes in them, so you would notice it’s been compromised as it’s being put on.

TL;DR: unless you’re buying some shady off-brand condom, you have to deliberately sabotage it for it to break.

kycake · 2021-09-21T05:41:10+00:00

years ago i had a fwb and he told me he could tell when the condom was about to break or just didn’t feel like it was on correctly or securely. which made me realized how most men must also be able to feel this stuff and they just don’t care.

and just to reiterate, for women having casual sex with males is a waste of time that can have lasting negative consequences. so find toys you like and take care of your sexual needs yourself until you find a man who makes a good partner.

AriaLuz · 2021-09-21T03:14:45+00:00

There is a whole site dedicated to this. Men sharing tips on how to purposely break condoms so they can risk getting the women pregnant. Men aren’t stupid. They know exactly what they are doing.

They suggest doggystyle so it’s easier to slip the condom off without her knowledge. I always used to put my hands in between my legs and feel to make sure the condom was still on.

Don’t rely on him to pull out because when he does “pull out” he is purposely letting some go in first. My ex told me that ever man knows when he’s going to cum. So if he pulls out and he cums the instant he pulled out, he let some go in.

I have also heard men tell other young men to get her pregnant as soon possible especially if she has dreams and goals that she is achieving. They know a baby will slow you down or stop you completely for 18+ years or forever since it’s “ever woman’s dream to be a mother and nurturer.”

Also, if you as the young lady happens to get pregnant, he will stay and play the role of supportive partner just long enough for you to not to be able to get an abortion and then leave you with the child while they leave and live their life. They don’t care to take care of the child they only care that there subpar DNA was passed on.

Please be careful out here because these men are disgusting. They don’t wash properly, they don’t get tested, and they don’t use condoms with their hookups. Laid down with a stray you get up with fleas.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-09-21T04:48:48+00:00

Almost all of them. They all know.

Just like the men who start shoving their dick at your asshole and then pretend that they didn't know. They totally just got confused on the way to your vagina. THEY DON'T FEEL THE SAME AND MEN NEVER USED TO DO THAT. They do it now that porn has told them to anally rape women because it will feel hot for them. They are LIARS.

Suspicious_Bad_5178 · 2021-09-21T11:32:22+00:00

You're not overeaching. That happened to me.

sexualfoodpantry · 2021-09-21T13:01:18+00:00

When someone absolutely does not want to have unexpected kids you'll know. They are always super conscientious.

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-09-21T19:29:39+00:00

Very curious—what are the “break-y” condom brands? DM me maybe so the scrotes can’t see? I’m married but use condoms are one of my primary methods of birth control.

vagesta · 2021-09-22T17:22:56+00:00

It’s easy for men to get away with stealthing but almost impossible for a child free young woman to get her tubes cut/tied. In a lot of places abortion is heavily restricted or even illegal.

This makes me never want to have sex. Trusting a man can potentially ruin my life.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-09-22T12:24:08+00:00

Bring and insist on using your own condoms ladies. Don't trust scrotes.

Title	Methods they use to stealth unsuspecting women
Author	GigaKarenEnergy
Upvotes	630
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Date	September 21, 2021 2:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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