Say to a man : "I don't trust men"

yoursultana · 2022-02-18T21:54:29+00:00

This can work on getting major scrotes to de-mask early on but beware of the male feminist types that know how to regurgitate feminist speech in an attempt to trick you.

londochig · 2022-02-18T15:40:23+00:00

This is true, HVM have expressed empathy and understanding when I've said things like this. They didn't judge it try to argue.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-18T19:27:10+00:00

I actually got the "not all men" reaction on Twitter and people piled on him.

My specific was concern was traveling and assault..."not all men" doesn't make me trust men more!

Men who are empathetic to women's concerns is a green flag...the "not all men" thing is the kiss of death for a conversation to me.

fuckbeingautobanned · 2022-02-18T14:53:38+00:00

Men don't know half of the shit other worse men do, and it might be their friend too. It's an uphill battle, that's what it is with these types of men.

kumquat_fds · 2022-02-18T20:33:47+00:00

HVM will not only sympathize when you trash-talk men, but they’ll go off on their own tangents about most men being garbage.

Iamawonderfulcitizen · 2022-02-18T14:43:41+00:00

Its just smart to not trust men. Or anyone, but of course, especially people who can do you harm. And those are mostly men.

You have to develop a bit of situational awareness and people skills. Otherwise things might become unpleasant.

smittydoodle · 2022-02-19T00:47:23+00:00

I said this to one guy because I was nervous dating again. We had gone on a few dates and I finally admitted to him that I’d been through an abusive relationship and wasn’t ready yet because I was scared of men. What did he do? Jumped out of the car and literally STOMPED away like a toddler. It was weird. He texted to apologize later, but whatever, I haven’t seen him since.

MacrameGoose34 · 2022-02-18T15:01:58+00:00

Yesss if he wants to debate the obvious, he's gone. Either he gets it or he's complicit in the system.

anadreamy2 · 2022-02-18T23:49:31+00:00

That’s sounds like a good thing to do because guys who expect you to trust him immediately or feel offended if you’re not telling them everything or that you not that open with them early on are a red flag to me. It’s like they don’t understand the reason why we would be cautious around a man we don’t know that well as if there’s no potential dangers for us while interacting with men.

Nonsluttymen · 2022-02-18T22:21:31+00:00

I wouldn’t word it quite so negatively. I would instead say that it takes a lot for me to trust a man.

ItsFreezen · 2022-02-20T00:03:44+00:00

"Not all men" Know the crimes of their friends and don't say anything.

misandryisnotreal · 2022-02-19T03:30:19+00:00

There are SO many good men out there, and I’m lucky to have a handful of them in my close circle. Not ONCE have any of them tried to “yes, but” or “not all men” me.

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Title	Say to a man : "I don't trust men"
Author	SayNad
Upvotes	608
Comments	31
Date	February 18, 2022 2:17 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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