She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.

neonfairylights · 2020-10-10T06:34:57+00:00

Lol she sounds like she just wanted to have sex with them. Women actually have some standards. If that makes us hard to get, that's a good thing. It's an insult to be compared to men on how easy it is to date us and please us.

ModernDayOracle · 2020-10-10T06:07:43+00:00

I get the feeling she wants to bang girls, not date them. I'm getting a real dude bro vibe from her attitude.

jayohday · 2020-10-10T06:23:48+00:00

“Not all women are allies just because they’re female” could be a whole book of stories.

ello-motto · 2020-10-10T09:26:19+00:00

I hope Anna Akana goes through her own FDS ephiphany. I used to subscribe to her as I used to relate to her. I used to definitely lean into being a "cool girl" and "not like other girls" prior to my own FDS awakening. I hope she wakes up too.

elainejay82 · 2020-10-10T06:56:28+00:00

I saw this a while back! Definitely dude bro cool girl vibes from her. But something really important I want to point at is that the woman who decides to talk instead of make out did NOTHING wrong. This girl can go ahead and be mad.

Women are allowed to change their mind at ANY given time about ANYTHING.

This girl and any male acting the same is not OWED anything and you are ALWAYS ALLOWED to backtrack on such intimate things. This can be mid-sex. You get to decide always if you're done, over it, or don't want to follow through. "This HUMAN being promised me a make out session and didn't deliver and now I'm pissy." Would hate to see her not get her way with other things.

She just met her. Maybe she was enjoying the convo? Maybe she realized she made a mistake? Maybe she grossed her out?

If she didn't like the drawn out convo and it was taking time from her needing to sleep, she should have prioritized herself and left. That's on her, not the chatty girl. If she were making out she would have stayed up for that, is that what she's saying? Maybe get some better intentions in dating outside of getting off and you won't be left pissy and disappointed. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Just another mad scrote with crappy intentions.

jayda92 · 2020-10-10T10:11:38+00:00

This chick is libfem to the bone. I disliked her when I was 'Red-Pilled' and I still dislike her now for being such a PickMe-clown.

I would love it if she would find FDS and starts leveling up. I would support her so much.

chasingconfidence · 2020-10-10T13:06:45+00:00

I don't like the part where she said she was upset she was promised kisses from a woman but didn't get any. But the thing is people are allowed to change their mind. Sometimes people want to get sexual with you and later decide they don't want it anymore. Similarly you are allowed to change you mind and shouldnt feel like you owe someone sexual experience because you said in the beggining you wanted it.

jargon_explosion · 2020-10-10T15:23:46+00:00

2020-10-10T18:06:35+00:00

[deleted]

flamborambo · 2020-10-10T11:15:46+00:00

[deleted]

2020-10-10T13:14:23+00:00

Well this whole thing is because her audience is male. I doubt she is even bisexual.

scritchandsnaff · 2020-10-11T00:31:34+00:00

The way she communicates and the words/phrases she uses is completely targeted towards a male audience. As an LGBTQ woman, she gives off weird vibes, from not empathizing with women being allowed to be in control of what psychical affection they're comfortable with, to commitment issues when you're dating?

Especially that last part, you're DATING to find someone for the long term. So why are you bashing this women for being clear with her intentions?

As a Bi women you should be much more considerate and understanding to her female partners but instead this sounds as if she's more interested in "trying" out a different gender role then actually being attracted to women. As a Bi woman wouldn't you want your conversation to be directed more equally to the different genders? The fact that it's so male orientated gives off so many red flags. If I heard her speak this way about me after a date I would think she's a predator.

I honestly think she needs to either reconsider her relationships to both men and women, or reconsider her gender expression because the girls she dated are not the issues here.

lagomlagume · 2020-10-11T19:40:09+00:00

This chick just seems like a narcissist. As a gay girl this video just upset me. All of her exhibits were lame points. Talking about who would pay for the tab, how fucking cheap are you? When it's two women, why is even who pays a fucking point to make? Receiving end of a wedding joke? She says herself she was guilty of making similar small talk, I dont get why she took that so seriously. And then 3rd, promise of kisses? Maybe you came in and said some stupid fucking shit and suddenly chemistry is off. People are allowed to change their minds, if she didn't want to kiss you, there was a reason. How fucking entitled can you be?

to_learn_to_fly · 2020-10-10T18:12:57+00:00

Yeah, this is disappointing coming from her. I always thought she had FDS potential. Some of her other videos on dating (men), relationships and singledom are on point.

letsdoityesterday · 2020-10-10T12:24:13+00:00

Since she is a woman, her own video is proof that no everyone is the same way. No all women do whatever complaints she mentioned.

youdipthong · 2020-10-10T21:14:12+00:00

I’ve watched this video before and I was appalled at the incel comments. She seems to only be pandering

2020-10-10T13:16:27+00:00

Have you guys watched her video called Take your birth control? It was a really sad story of her being in an abusive relationship with a guy where she got pregnant and he was forcing her to get an abortion. At that time her sister had commited suicide and she was in a really weak period of her life and she had a really weak boundaries. He cheated on her constantly and emotionally abused her. But she stayed because she was young and thought it was normal. She was definitely lacked self love and self esteem at that time. By the time she came out of the relationship, she was traumatised.

Later in life she started being suicidal and going though mental health issies such as hearing voices in her head (auditory hallucination). She got all the help she could get and slowly recovered.

She is doing much better than before and I am happy for her. She has been through alot in life and overcome it. I hope she continues to do well. I think she made this video without realising it was mysogynistic but she doesn't have evil intentions. I watched her other videos ans they have really good advice about mental health, achieving goals and how to have good self esteem.

2020-10-10T21:01:07+00:00

I used to like her since I she does talked about auditioning but I always got irked by her at the same time?

She's definitely the definition of a "cool girl".

yolosunshine · 2020-10-11T16:51:04+00:00

Yeah she wants to bang girls not date them. But because she’s just quacking to the incel choir now, I hope no girl bangs her, ever. She’s just a LVM with different body parts now.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-10-12T20:22:37+00:00

Used to love her and really enjoy her content, but stopped watching once the cool girl narrative became overpowering.

She needs to rethink either her attitude or the women she goes for, or both. Coming from someone who dates women too.
I can understand the bill thing, 'cause if I'm asking you out I'm obviously paying, but that's as far as I can go.

pozzalovah · 2020-10-10T17:53:01+00:00

She was a bit masagonistic tbh not gonna lie.

Title	She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.
Author	SuccessfulAppeal333
Upvotes	137
Comments	49
Date	October 10, 2020 5:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j8f8rr/she_could_have_easily_navigated_all_three_issues/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/she-could-have-easily-navigated-all-three-issues.315888 https://theredarchive.com/post/315888

Comments