The bar can’t be this damn low

Little-bit_ · 2021-06-16T19:33:01+00:00

I don’t understand, how can she BEAR being with such a disgusting ape?

Reimustein · 2021-06-16T20:38:36+00:00

I will say this once again:

YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE TO KEEP UP ON THEIR BASIC HYGIENE.

If you have to beg, he's out!

SkiesEclipse · 2021-06-16T19:37:55+00:00

Dude, if my partner ever came to me and asked me to wash more because it was causing him some kind of infection over and over, I would be MORTIFIED. I would never have sex again without taking a shower first, and aggressively scrubbing myself. Like, I wouldn’t even have to like the guy, that’s just absolutely embarrassing. The fact that the guy who claimed to love her didn’t give a fuck just further proves that men reaaaaaaally have the fucking audacity.

Mcccy · 2021-06-16T19:11:23+00:00

I heard some women that get paid for sex intentionally drop oil on their client's genitals so they make them wash and clean before they have s#x, maybe she can do that or use that other famous technique that includes breaking tf up with someone who doesn't have basic hygiene.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-06-16T19:26:59+00:00

If he doesn’t care about your health he can’t possibly love you

warinmymind94 · 2021-06-16T22:27:19+00:00

I remember always excusing myself to the restroom to freshen up whenever I was about to have sex with a guy. I would literally tell him hold on a sec I want to "get ready" and "freshen myself" I would keep the summers eve wipes in my bag and I had a little trash bag for them in my bag as well (guys didn't ever have trash bins in their bathrooms). Ugh I was a huge pick me! I would always wash myself down there before having sex. I was self conscious about having any odor, even though it's normal to have some type of smell. I just didn't want him to think I was dirty, but also the wetness from the wipes and soap would make sex more comfortable because the guys never cared to get me wet.

I can't be the only one to have done this type of stuff in my pickme past. Everything about it was wrong for many ways.

Just say NO to a dirty unhygienic man in bed. Smash his ego and say you stink down there, i am gonna go home, and leave. Don't touch him! You're gonna be the one to stuffer from a UTI and the pain and discomfort and then you'll be paying your money to see a doctor, spend your time a gas money for the appointment and then going to a CVS, and whatnot.... it ain't worth it sis. Plus maybe he has an sti, and that needs attention. They make dildos/sex toys that'll do a better job and theres plenty starting around $20.... cheaper than what you'd spend otherwise. Better yet your hands are free! He ain't worth it.

T00TSMAG00T · 2021-06-16T19:09:22+00:00

Who didnt love this girl enough in childhood?!?!

ecstatic-avocado-24 · 2021-06-16T19:22:40+00:00

I always shower after sex since I suffer from chronic UTIs (funnily enough I’ve only ever got UTIs after sex, not ever whilst masturbating). I asked this dude if I could jump in his shower, to clean myself up. It was a really quick 1 minute shower.

I headed back home. He asked me what I was up to, an hour or so later. I replied “I just showered, and now I’m eating.” And he was genuinely flabbergasted that I showered again, AT HOME. He genuinely said, “But I thought you showered already at mine?”

The second shower was definitely warranted if that’s truly his mindset. Lmao.

girl_in_red_costume · 2021-06-16T19:55:33+00:00

What. The. Hell?

KIkiappialt · 2021-06-16T19:02:06+00:00

I hope this is a joke cause wtf

Lavender_flow · 2021-06-16T21:35:36+00:00

Inthefullspectrum · 2021-06-16T21:39:55+00:00

I ain’t even watching it. This is a joke, right? There is not serious.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2021-06-16T22:22:05+00:00

His pee pee probably contains thousands, if not millions, of bad bacteria. 🤮

frostedgemstone · 2021-06-17T02:28:06+00:00

No... NO. Oh my god I’m 22 right now but I spent most of my life thinking having sex just ALWAYS has to mean UTIs for women because almost every single one of my friends has gotten a UTI from sleeping with some crusty dude. I have only ever had one relationship and he certainly didn’t treat me right but one thing he did get right (and the bare bones minimum) was that he was always clean as a whistle. Never got a UTI even once. I can’t believe women are letting that slide when a UTI can cause serious damage to your kidneys

Montanegro · 2021-06-16T23:45:32+00:00

I hate that I relate to too many of these posts

bananna_nut · 2021-06-16T21:56:48+00:00

I'm honestly so scared for her that she is showing her face on a video like this. While I'm glad that women are sharing their bad experiences and reflecting on their pickme behaviour in order to help other women, I think revealing your face when talking about previous LVM experiences is not a good look both for future employment and also if you want to avoid harassment from more LVM, especially online.

Protoetype · 2021-06-16T22:26:38+00:00

Ladies, I just wanna say that I've never, ever had a raw dick inside of me and I've never once got a yeast infection or UTI.

*knock on wood*

Dick juice is poison, condomless sex is useless.

throwaway8437764 · 2021-06-17T01:25:08+00:00

I can’t with the Pickme song in the background either lol

BusinessTwistofLime · 2021-06-17T00:07:15+00:00

Is it just me or is he possibly cheating on her? Having unprotected sex with multiple partners is another way to continually have infections since the male partner is essentially taking "foreign" bacteria/yeasts from one partner and transplanting it into another partner. This is further exacerbated if you're constantly taking antibiotics because the antibiotics decimate your normal levels of natural bacteria and cause imbalances with the yeast colonies. The bacteria and yeast ecosystem are supposed to be living in harmony, but these things can cause them to get out of whack.

IndigoTR · 2021-06-17T00:07:46+00:00

Disgusting. Really how self-centered and brutish can one be. And then scrotes have the audacity to act like they are doing YOU a favor sleeping with you lmao. 🐷

wordy_fries · 2021-06-17T05:41:44+00:00

One scrote I dated gave me UTI. Man, I was crying from pain 😔 it was horrible. So was his fucking hygiene, nasty scrote.

TriniGold · 2021-06-17T07:18:57+00:00

This is sad 😞

pinkakio · 2021-06-17T07:37:45+00:00

How did she get the UTI in the 1st place? The minute he pulled down his pants and I saw his rotten UTI-giving dick I would have dumbed his nasty ass -_- and she stayed with him to the point where she kept getting them??? 🤢🤢

QueenCrownn · 2021-06-16T22:55:56+00:00

I’m sorry what?!!?!! So you know he dutty and you still fcking!?!?!? No self respect at all! You can’t want dick that bad! Who tf raised her.

2021-06-17T13:31:18+00:00

Takes me back to the one and only yeast infection I ever had.

My ex husband (with the drastically declining hygiene) threw a tantrum because my obgyn straight up told me it was from SOMEBODY not washing their penis, and he couldn't gaslight me about it since a doctor said it

ivy176 · 2021-06-17T16:45:01+00:00

Sooo relate in my ex marriage. The quick towel wash with complaining. Ughhhhh

MACMUA · 2021-06-16T23:46:16+00:00

The bar is that low Huh?

Girl you really dating the panhandler shaking his change cup outside of wawa? Hahhahha

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-06-16T20:46:27+00:00

[removed]

cnemidophorus · 2021-06-17T19:32:41+00:00

I had a single UTI over a year ago and my boyfriend has obsessively showered beforehand now every single time. I have had some when not sexually actively as well and may just be predisposed but he doesn’t want to risk it ever being due to him. I wouldn’t stay with a man who didn’t care about me like this ever again. This story just makes me so sad.

Title	The bar can’t be this damn low
Author	loverluxlace
Upvotes	387
Comments	43
Date	June 16, 2021 6:56 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/o1cfbq/the_bar_cant_be_this_damn_low/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-bar-cant-be-this-damn-low.784214 https://theredarchive.com/post/784214

Comments