AHHHHH... FDS you have been my life savior.

The man who I genuinely thought was HVM, is officially a ZVM.

He genuinely would seem like a HVM, in front of everyone else. He's successful, ambitious, solid cash, seems like a very supportive partner.

Oh but behind close doors, this man is like Jekyl and hyde.

let's show some examples:

- Buying me gifts that relate solely to his hobbies not mine, and expecting me to appreciate it(e.g. he bought me an expensive watch, i don't even wear watches wtf) And when I talk about my hobbies, he has no interest, never asks me questions, never been to any competitions or shows, nothing.

- He does chores like cleaning and laundry, but i find it hilarious that he tells me I don't do enough(girls you already know what i mean, we do so much more than they can ever imagine)

- The hypocrisy this boy has about communcation. Stonewalls and fights. that's all there is with him. And fights, omg the last one we had, i stood my boundaries in place and ran, not walked, not crossed but RAN OVER THEM WITH A DAMN TRUCK.

- The silent treatment. Man, this boy acts like a mood swinging toddler on an almost weekly basis.

Now those are only a few, the list is very long. During my pick me years I thought this boy was the best I will every get. But with FDS, I am currently planning my exit strategy out of this place with my two cats (I know he'll treat both of them like shit), and will be going once I have more than enough to move out.

Remember ladies, once the mask slips, it will keep slipping until he knows you can't go anywhere. Never give them another chance.