So I occasionally go on OLD, but usually don’t go on dates from there because the quality is so poor.

Talking to one guy now. He seems nice, but I want to talk more. He tried the let’s text instead of using the app. I said no, and he was fine with that. Green flag I guess.

I talked about cooking (I am really, really, really into cooking). He tried the ole I’ll come over and you cook a meal and I can judge. I said no and that I only cook for someone when things get serious. He was fine with that.

We talked about music and he mentioned going to an 80s party. I said I’m not really good with parties and I think in a few weeks the Corona regulations will change.

There was some banter about Oktoberfest and how it has been cancelled for the past two years. he said he can create our own Oktoberfest. I asked the logistics of this. We go to a supermarket and get beer, he can play Oktoberfest songs, and then teach me Bavarian.

I don’t mind coffee and drink dates because if I don’t like the person, I can leave very quickly. The thought of a dinner date gives me anxiety of being stuck eating with someone I don’t know when I can’t even eat when I have anxiety anyway. I know people are divided about this topic. Do what you feel best with.

But I live in the beer capital of the world and he can’t even suggest going somewhere that serves nice beer?

I see him trying to find out ideas, so that’s good I guess.

Give me your best bad date suggestions you have gotten. When do I just unmatch this guy? When do you unmatch?