What are your views on anal sex? My ex boyfriend used to push it on me all the time because that was his primary method of sex with his ex (she was a trans woman). I repeatedly said no. Once we got in an argument over it. He called me closed-minded, told me I don’t care about his feelings because I never actually considered it with a positive outlook and instead slam the idea back in his face every time he brings it up.

I regret not dumping him on the spot. When I told him to get mental help, he started crying and telling me he wants to die and feels so broken.