Why waste your breath?

7102a · 2020-05-09T22:20:14+00:00

My life changed forever when I realized I can simply just walk away from toxic, disrespectful behavior rather than tolerating/trying to change it. I've never been so at peace.😌

Katie-MR · 2020-05-09T20:34:39+00:00

I think I struggle with this because I feel like no one will ever naturally treat me the way I want/need.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-05-09T17:44:17+00:00

So true. Stop yourself before you go full paragraph.

greenbeanbird · 2020-05-09T17:24:34+00:00

I love the inherent power here; just throw the whole man away, ladies, you're worth it!

I know the tweet promises 'a new man' but, tbh, taking time for yourself after is honestly more satisfying!

pissed_af · 2020-05-09T22:24:08+00:00

I'm ashamed of the girl I used to be. I'd listen to the type of advice that comes from the relationships subreddits like "jUst cOmUnIcaTe". And would have hours long arguments with my ex about how he was being such a prick and would end up apologizing for making him feel bad by telling him that he was not being good with me. And he'd tell all of his friends about it but would make up stuff so I'd look like a toxic girlfriend. The relationship lasted FOUR YEARS and I was constantly stressed. When it was all over, like two weeks later a friend of his told me: "you look so fresh, you don't have anxiety all over your face". Ladies, just break up, if you're already considering it, just do it, because you don't wake up one day and decide to fuck a good relationship up, you're not a failure and soulmates don't exist.

Gypsymarz · 2020-05-09T18:32:24+00:00

It’s not even worth the trouble anymore. #nolongparagraphs2020

2020-05-09T18:08:11+00:00

lol I can imagine the screams and flames in response to this tweet.

Postcardtoalake · 2020-05-09T23:15:54+00:00

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SayNad · 2020-05-09T21:23:07+00:00

And remember ladies. being the "crazy cat lady" is 100% better because:

Cats! Cute cats!
You are happy because there's cute cats!
Got to take tons of pictures with cute fluffy cats!
You taking care of them makes you even happier because you love them and they love you!
Your house looks well kept because cats when trained well, can be very neat plus there's cats!!

Compare that to taking care of a deadbeat, lazy, ungrateful, messy, child-in-an-adult body who manages to create mess just by existing, demanding, mentally, emotionally and worse, physically abusive husband...

Dammit I'll the queen , the king, the matriarch, the emperor of crazy cat lady. I rather be happy alone that suffering with a partner.

Edit: Well damn, thanks for the gold!!

cherrypepsilvr · 2020-05-10T11:22:03+00:00

I've always found that if you need to tell someone you want to be respected, you've already lost the battle. They already don't respect you. Just get outta there.

PaciencaYFe · 2020-05-09T17:50:54+00:00

I tried to retweet

casual-nihlist · 2020-05-09T18:50:07+00:00

Oh god. That just feels good to read. Even better to do.

swiggityswirls · 2020-05-09T17:49:03+00:00

AMEN

2020-05-09T20:36:28+00:00

"boys just come and go like seasons" Listen

jojosbabymoms · 2020-05-10T05:45:12+00:00

Don’t waste your breathe on that paragraph baby go get you someone better

Spiritualgirl3 · 2020-05-09T22:55:10+00:00

What OP said is true but I was just wondering what if somebody who can treat you with respect is a person you don’t have feelings for? I need your perspective here ❣️

sadcello · 2020-05-10T22:38:26+00:00

Leaving and taking no shit from men is your superpower. Use it.

msbilliejean · 2020-05-09T20:51:27+00:00

Took me two years to realize I wasn't going to be treated the way I deserved to be and gave up.

Initially I had consistently bad anxiety about if I made the wrong decision, but there's more to life than the boy who won't appreciate my value.

xHouse_of_Hornetsx · 2020-05-09T23:50:12+00:00

Ugh. I wasted so much breath on a guy who didn't deserve my time and just drained my energy. Currently with a man who treats me like a princess who has life together. It felt amazing not having to beg a guy to treat me right.

TheConfusingWords · 2020-05-10T04:43:32+00:00

Yessss I’m so glad I woke up one day and realized this. Best thing that ever happened to me. I want to show this to one of my friends and show her the light lol

sbrooks0709 · 2020-05-10T15:49:30+00:00

Imagine arguing with a man about how you should be treated when a molded piece of silicone could treat you better AND leave you satisfied

skadiiis · 2020-05-10T00:00:41+00:00

Question - is it acceptable to... tell the man how you want to be treated and give him time to prove he can do so? Or is needing to tell them how I want to be treated in the first place an issue? Dealing with this right now and the guy genuinely seems HV so I've been giving him credit because every woman has different needs and wants.

flvctvatnecmergitvr_ · 2020-05-09T18:16:13+00:00

Preach

BornToBeWildType · 2020-05-09T18:25:46+00:00

Wish I could upvote this twice god damn.

reeldeal6 · 2020-05-09T19:22:13+00:00

How about long paragraphs of break ups?

balladwilds · 2020-05-09T18:30:50+00:00

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margiemms · 2020-05-09T23:26:30+00:00

I see what your saying but could the behave changed?

Title	Why waste your breath?
Author	Spiritualgirl3
Upvotes	2813
Comments	92
Date	May 9, 2020 4:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ggiju4/why_waste_your_breath/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/why-waste-your-breath.692300 https://theredarchive.com/post/692300

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