Young Men Perfectly Happy Being Useless Perpetual Children

FuturePigeon · 2019-11-11T19:01:24+00:00

I have better orgasms from masturbation than sex. l don't have to worry about whether someone else is getting off when I masturbate. I don't have to bother with foreplay, and I don't get sweaty.

Behold the "master" gender ladies. Let Darwinism sort them out.

TheOGJammies · 2019-11-11T18:49:14+00:00

I was just gonna share this to discuss it. 😂😂😂

Finding a high quality man is just gonna get so MUCH harder for us Gen Z gals. Wish I was lesbian at this point ...🙄🙄😂

drazumifujita · 2019-11-11T23:04:53+00:00

I would absolutely be with a man who made less/worked less than me, if they were pulling their weight at home. A house husband would be great. Clean house, healthy food on the table, happy kids, martini and slippers at the door? Sign me the fuck up.

However, the reality for my generation is that women became the breadwinners and the career overachievers, but men are still doing fuckall at home. A lot of us are working full days, then coming home to hours of responsibilities while men are fucking off all day and night with porn and videogames.

What's in it for us? Literally nothing.

1Here4Bach · 2019-11-11T19:08:14+00:00

You know what. I’m fine if they do just that. They’re taking the weakest links out of the gene pool and we should be grateful.

What bothers me is they expect women to have sex with them when they’re like this. Of course some “gamer girls” and other subsets of women will be perfectly okay with their husband’s playing video games all day but the majority of women won’t.

They think they can sit at home all day and their dream woman will fall out of the sky and give them endless love, intimacy and affection with zero self-improvement or effort on their part.

I’m continuously improving myself in all aspects of my life. I’ve done so since I was in high school I expect nothing less from the men I allow into my life.

As long as they resign to the little holes they call “homes”, live out the rest of their existence as hermits and don’t bother the rest of functioning society I’m all for it.

femurfatale · 2019-11-11T23:44:32+00:00

I'm glad they're single. In a parent sub I'm in, they just torture women until they get the guts to take their kids and leave

SaltCupcake · 2019-11-11T19:16:36+00:00

This is all fine with me. You want to avoid commitment and be a child? Go for it! However, when you can’t find women to date you, when you’re not getting promoted and the younger guy that put in the effort did, or you can’t afford a house: don’t complain. Don’t call women gold diggers when you can’t measure up and don’t blame society.

You don’t have to work yourself to death, you don’t have to have an expensive weddings. These are all choices. You can still contribute to society without jerking off into your sock and playing video games as if it were a full time job.

Side note: I wonder what the correlation between video games and useless men are. I swear most dudes on FDS Superfans are active in gamer subs. Plus useless men my friends date game too.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-11T19:02:04+00:00

Women will be fine. If we want kids, there are sperm banks. If we want sex all we have to do is be available. If we want meaningful relationships or a social life, we have friends.

The reason I have the things that I have and get to do the things that I do is because I work hard. I've been single far more often than I've had a useless man. I was a single mom even when I was married. I take our kid to all his extracurricular things even now because his father and stepmom can't be arsed.

I feel like the lazy, self entitled bums will weed themselves out of the gene pool eventually. It will leave room for quality men in the future.

gigababejfl · 2019-11-11T19:17:48+00:00

I'm all for people doing whatever they want so long as they are not hurting anyone or costing me a fucking dime but also, that shit has to be the most unattractive thing of all time. So those same guys waving their unambitious flags high? They are the same ones weeping about Chad and not getting pussy. Like you're proud of being of no use but you demand the opposite sex still want you like some sort of winner.

And this shit about kids as if there aren't loads of young women who rather stay childless and ball out on a dual income home. These people will have you believe marriage is nothing but hell but when life shows it ass, like it ALWAYS fucking will, lemme see the forever girlfriends who make it to year 8, year 10, and didn't trade dude in for a grownup with functional masculine impulses and good dick

Men who are attractive to women are having a moment. Just like a thin woman in a sea of obese women will have far higher SMV goes the way of the Reddit male. Nibbas really think they are being avant garde by saying they want to be teenagers forever.

Hey guys, does anyone remember when black men were the so called scum of the earth and the boogeyman talking point for being exactly this? It's now forward thinking now that all men are doing it? Oh, ok!

🙄

Edit: shout out to all the white men in the comments who make it clear they are the true victims of this feminist society. Women not wanting to latch on to unreliable men who cannot produce during childrearing is evildoing and it proves society is out to get them. Golddiggers are bad but so are working women.

May nature do as it will but I don't wanna hear shit from the Aryan nation groups about their dwindling birthrates.

CSQUITO · 2019-11-11T20:51:31+00:00

“OPTING OUT OF SOCIETY”

I beg someone tell me what that even means it sounds like a manifesto written by an 8 yr old to convince his mum to stay at home instead of go to school - using big words he doesn’t understand

reddituser39682 · 2019-11-11T22:44:52+00:00

And what was a mans reward for fulfilling his traditional roles? If you take away his incentive you can’t expect him to keep filling that role.

IF I CAN'T COERCE WOMEN INTO BEING WITH ME BY TAKING AWAY OPPORTUNITIES TO PROVIDE FOR THEMSELVES THEN I WON'T GET PUSSY. AND IF I DON'T GET PUSSY THEN I'M NEVER LEAVING THIS DAMN BASEMENT.

leninleninleninlinen · 2019-11-11T19:17:50+00:00

Hurr durr women evil. Ugh those comments. I would date a man who earns less, because realistically I'm more intelligent and I have a higher earning potential than most men.

Or like, I could always be single. Men like to blame everything on us instead of the fact that the world THEY built is failing.

masterofthebarkarts · 2019-11-12T01:00:02+00:00

I'm friends with dudes like this. I have dated (and dumped) men like this. I did not MARRY a man like this though. I married a man with a career, but more than that, I married a man who had some goddamn courage and ambition.

You know why these men are so repulsive to women? Because they are telling us - loud and clear- that they are trying to do the absolute least possible amount of work for the maximum amount of fun and pleasure. These men have done the math and have realized that just barely scrapping by still gets them like 80-85% of what they enjoy. A shitty job that they barely have to work at for 30 hours a week gives them just enough money for a crappy apartment, cheap beer, high speed internet and video games. And that level of like, fourteen year-old dopamine-seeking subsistence is enough for them.

What does that tell us? It tells us - so loud it's deafening, once we bother to listen - that they will only ever put in the bare minimum of effort for anything: work, housework, us. They cannot be relied upon to be equal partners for an adult woman because they fundamentally want to avoid adult responsibilities as much as they can.

Who wants to sign up for 75% of the work being a adult couple entails? Who wants to go out, earn a living, and then come home to an underemployed man who won't go back to school because he's worried he might fail? Won't take a promotion because it might interfere with his gaming? Won't do housework because he thinks it's "fine" and you're the one who's bothered, so why should he have to?

Its exhausting. Its boring. And it's also just really depressing, knowing that you'll have to drag this man child into every phase of adult life kicking and screaming. And what do you get for supporting this man who is so crippled by his fear of failure that he can barely complete a job application?

You get to listen to him complain. FOREVER.

If your man is an underachiever; if he doesn't work on himself; if he won't try new things; if he's never fallen and had to pick himself back up; and if you have to WORK TWICE AS HARD FOR THE PRIVILEGE OF BABYSITTING THIS MAN CHILD?

DUMP HIM GIRL

randomgirlimok · 2019-11-11T19:54:25+00:00

Playing video games with your kid does not count as being a fatherly figure or spending quality time with them. It’s no different than saying the kid comes over and they watch TV. No wonder he’s divorced. Man child that wants to do nothing but play video games, go figure.

reddituser39682 · 2019-11-11T23:05:01+00:00

If that thread doesn't prove that misogynistic incel viewpoints are common among men, I don't know what will.

gravedestruct1on · 2019-11-11T19:23:02+00:00

I’m going to paste my response here that I used from my alt account. That post speaks volumes and I hope this is just the mentality of reddit men.

I don’t get how these people aren’t dumb, financially speaking at the least. If you’re not going to university then you’re prospects in the job market aren’t great in society unless you have connections or have a trade. However, being skilled in a trade requires you too work a lot of hours for the most part. If you do none of these things, work a low wage job, while spending money on video games than you’re not saving. If you’re not saving you’re one accident away from being screwed financially and potentially falling into debt. Aka you loose your job, and you don’t have a back up fund....well you’re going to be fucked. Get into a car accident but your insurance deductible is at least 3k? Fucked. Don’t save for retirement? Well good luck working until your 80. Underachieving doesn’t get you anywhere but more problems for your future self. I’d rather work my ass off in my twenties, go to university, try and own a condo or house one day so I can save myself some stress later on down the road when my health fails or I eventually get old.

I’ve seen what my parents make and how they struggle with a low wage job (they’re immigrants) so why waste that opportunity that you have here to try to at least own an asset or study something that will provide you with benefits and more mentally stimulating work later on.

Makes no sense.

Also most people can’t be a sole provider these days with this economy.....so I really don’t get that point. If most people can’t be a sole provider and you have to be in a relationship with someone who also works, except they achieved well and you didn’t then you’re not pulling your weight in the relationship

extraacct1234 · 2019-11-11T19:13:11+00:00

A race to the bottom

PurblWasp · 2019-11-11T21:26:18+00:00

And when they in a few years realize what nobodies they are for not having learned or accomplished anything at all, during the darkest nights, they will blame... everyone else.

Winter_Inevitable · 2019-11-11T19:29:27+00:00

My last FWB worked construction, and really struggled with the inconsistent hours and schedule in order to live the life he wanted. He would routinely show up to work, and no one else on the team would roll in until 10:30-11, then they'd go dark for weeks at a time with no work. I recall that I asked him--"Uhh, how do your coworkers get by?" He went through each of them, name by name, and ALL of them (all guys) lived at home with their parents still.

2020-01-23T03:28:18+00:00

43 Upvotes.

It was practically always like this for men, only before the modern age men didn't have a choice. There was nothing else besides the only possible life plan of starting to work hard while you were still a kid and keep doing it until you died, spending more time on work than on your loved ones - spending more time on work FOR your loved ones. (Feminists call this "privilege" and think women were oppressed by them not being forced into this role.) If you think about it men sacrificed their dreams, aspirations, their health and their lives for their families, and all they got in return was ...their families, and some respect.

Wow there's too much baggage to unpack here. So beggars and dead-beat fathers didn't exist before the modern age huh? No successful men either huh? Just middle class over-worked mule males "forced to sacrifice their dreams and aspirations" (of playing videogames 24/7) to work... and all they got in return was families and respect.

Equivalent_Crow4280 · 2022-08-21T21:56:45+00:00

Scores will get mad when you point this out. Of course they are happy. Men are the happiest when they have the accountability of children aka having their pickme wives make excuses for them, have the responsibility of children such as sit on their ass all day in every household, have high standards but women need to pick them out of love. But want the authority of a manly man who defends and provides.

Title	Young Men Perfectly Happy Being Useless Perpetual Children
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	0
Comments	81
Date	November 11, 2019 6:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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