I know it's often claimed that BPers don't read TRP, but I just did and had an epiphany when reading "women are children"

Here are a few lines to get you into the mood

Women are children. They seek out boundaries. They require the men in their lives to define and enforce these boundaries. And just like children, if women are not given boundaries, they will occupy the space they are given and become terrible, unruly brats.

Society is structured in such a way that women will never truly understand the hardships of life.

Women are children. Absolutely nothing that could ever come from a woman will ever be from any other perspective. Treat them as such.

So I've been pondering and came up with a few explanations for why TRPers have absolutely no problem with these generalizations while we BPers stand there wondering why all women you guys interact with are like spoiled little brats.

The first one is that you must be still stuck in the 50s in the sense that you rely on outdated stereotypes that fuel your confirmation bias and ignore all the other women, because a education, job and maturity is not feminine.

The second is obviously that you only care about the hottest of the hottest and thus notice women that can easily walk through life by investing all her time into her looks more often and don't even notice the shy ugly chubby chick that has no one to support her that is working two jobs to finance her education.

But the third one is that mature women not only realized that they have to work hard as an adult and that there are consequences to her actions, but also what the red flags for cheaters and players are and thus ignores you even before you open your mouth. They are smart enough to realize what they want and also smart enough to realize that they don't want to be in a relationship with someone that places her second, will probably cheat on her or dump her for a stupid reason and doesn't even really care about her.

I mean sure there are women out there that, just like a teenager, will go partying, take drugs and have sex with random strangers every weekend instead of investing in their future, but just because they are the easiest ones to pick up doesn't mean that they are representative of the average women.

And sure there are women out there that get such an intense urge to fuck when they see a masculine men and have so little self control that they just cheat on their partner with him without using protection or caring about STDs, but that doesn't mean that all women are governed by their tingles or that all women want the same type of men. You just don't notice those that want to get to know him first and only have unprotected sex if he can prove that he is clean.

Just because the mature women notice douche red flags and don't show off their asses on the dance floor or their cleavage on tinder doesn't mean they don't exist.

They are out there, but the fact that they are outliers or unicorns to TRPers while at the same time being normal to BPers should be enough to show that TRP is limiting their dating pool to those women that already fit their preconceived notions.