In opposition to men's dating issues, the two primary mindsets are:

"Normalism", the ideology of normalcy. It's not that hard, complaining is pathetic, empathy/sympathy doesn't matter and men definitely wouldn't like it anyway, we should not talk about society (blaming others), people are normal and well adjusted, they figure these things out in high school. Focus only on yourself, wtf.

The other is "women have it much worse"-ism, the more online-feminist approach. Women are harassed from a young age, have to deal with abusers, stalkers, rapists, their partners often treat them horribly and can't make them orgasm, are bombarded by beauty standards, etc. Yes, women get 300x more matches and never have to initiate, are also seen as much hotter, but they are essentially struggling through a warzone of dating that is not even comparable to "not getting your dick wet exactly when you want to".

I don't really see these two groups clash around here, and I understand that it's probably a very important alliance, but are these two mindsets really compatible deep down? Women have serious issues while men are mostly well-adjusted and normal? Could there be potential disagreements here?