Does sex positivity have limits?

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CreepyVictorianDolls · 2024-12-15T14:55:41+00:00

What Lily Phillips did is literally Jackass. To me it doesn't "cross the line" anymore than eating 76 hotdogs in one sitting does.

Yeah, it's kinda gross and why would anyone do that, but it's not like anyone wants to emulate it.

bluepvtstorm · 2024-12-15T15:12:42+00:00

Ya’ll are so young and cute and it shows. She is not the first porn star to do a stunt like this. Former Porn Star Houston did 500 men at one time. She was big on Howard Stern.

It’s a gimmick and this is fringe. This isn’t sex positivity. This is the desperate attempt for a young woman to capitalize on her dying brand.

Perfect-Resist5478 · 2024-12-15T15:29:49+00:00

People do gross stuff with their bodies every day. Trying to get famous for fucking 100 dudes in a day is no different than trying to get famous by going on real housewives.

mlo9109 · 2024-12-15T14:47:54+00:00

Unpopular opinion, but yes. What is being framed as sex positivity today is not it. If anything, it's degrading, especially towards women who may feel pressured to act a certain way to "get" and "keep" men.

Express any discomfort or boundaries you've set and you're called a prude (even by other women), your own morals and comfort be damned. I find it ironic from those who crow about consent and women's rights.

Financial_Leave4411 · 2024-12-15T15:05:35+00:00

Never heard of her till you brought her up.🤷‍♀️

Why are men choosing to give her so much attention rather than paying attention to the sweet innocent women they claim they want?

If being such a whore is so gross to men then why do men push so hard for the whole ‘if she really likes you she won’t make you wait for sex’ mentally when if a woman did that for every man she dated her body count would be through the roof as most men focus on only the most attractive women and ignore the “prudes”/low body count women?

Yes being sex positive has limits to me as I’m one of those “prudes” men hate but men only have sex positivity complains when they aren’t the ones getting laid by said whores. I bet those 1k dues LOVE sex positivity.

Routine-Present-3676 · 2024-12-15T15:17:38+00:00

Deviant behavior from societal norms makes people uncomfortable. I think we're just conditioned to react this way. That doesn't mean it's the correct way to react, just the way that it is. I'm not going to assign any moral value to what she did, though personally it makes me feel a little ill to think about being in her position and wonder what could ever drive a person to do that.

I think it opens up discussions that are infinitely more interesting like are we all equally complicit in what she did because we consumed that content or even casually discussed it? If there weren't a market for this, we would never be having this discussion at all, so does that justify her behavior?

Idk. There are a lot of ways we could branch off from this that would be a lot more fun to talk about than just calling her and those men disgusting.

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Ppdebatesomental · 2024-12-15T15:50:07+00:00

Not my monkey, not my circus.

ConstantCode8637 · 2024-12-15T15:57:50+00:00

Yes! You can actually lose yourself in the pursuit of sex with many people- both men and women! You get caught up in their energies and emotions.

I am not promiscuous at all, I've generally considered sex as a scared bond, and had sex for the first time at 26, but ended up having casual sex with some men 😵‍💫

As much as the act itself felt good, I overall did NOT 🙅🏾‍♀️ enjoy it. Not sure if other ppl can, but whatever the dude is feeling, I also felt. I could feel his distance, his indifference, his sadness etc. You don't wanna be carrying other ppls energies around.

So I'm wondering if this was the case for Lily Philips 🤔

Based on research, people who have a huge desire to have casual sex with many ppl, have excessive amounts of Testosterone, which ultimately means they do not value close relationships.

And, so many men of this sub love to say how they can fuck many women, and women will not care about their n count, when it comes to a relationship but that is not true at all. Yes, some won't care, but many others will.

It just shows he doesn't value close relationships with women, and would rather drown in 😺. A man who practices sexual discipline and wants sex with a woman he loves will always be more sexy than the former, just as men say the same about women.

flipsidetroll · 2024-12-15T15:59:44+00:00

What exactly does sex positive mean? I’m a little blurry on the meaning to be honest.

Title	Does sex positivity have limits?
Author	DietTyrone
Upvotes	13
Comments	42
Date	December 15, 2024 2:41 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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