A woman has pretty much decided whether she likes you within the first few minutes. Can you change her mind? Yes but it’s usually a waste of time and you could have spent that time improving yourself or doing some other fun activity. If you were to ask out women who first showed genuine interest in you then you wouldn’t worry about them leading you on or taking them out to fancy dinners because you’d have some indication of her intention.

All a man can really do is improve himself and wait on signals. You’re probably thinking ‘but what if I miss out on chances?’ The truth is what you’re probably missing out on were probably going to be flakes or low interest women stringing you along.

If you’re thinking ‘well women never/rarely show interest’ then congrats. That’s your actual SMV.

Also get off dating apps. They’re a waste of time especially if you spend a lot of time complaining that you rarely get matches anyways.

TL,DR: Men are too obsessed with chasing women and should focus on themselves and enjoying life.