Without turning this into letters to penthouse.

I notice whenever bdsm/kink is brought up in our debates, and that does happen a lot with our natural discussion of domination and submission, a lot of people here claim to be pretty into it.

So I have a few questions about that.

Do you think more then average people interested in gender dynamics also have a intrest in kink? Or is red pill or blue pill in your opinion more likely to practice it?

Do you practice it? In a social/club setting or just behind closed doors?

If you do, without going into detail does your kink run counter clockwise to your stance on gender rolls, or the pill you subscribe to? For instance a red pilled man who believes in the "man should be a captain" ideology but is into Femdom. How do you reconcile those if they don't line up?

My theory is that a lot of blues practice it as a way to buy into gender rolls without feeling like they are supporting a every day system that is toxic or oppressive.

The counter to that is I expect to see a lot of alpha red pilled men who like to blow off steam and let someone else be in charge.

I remember reading that people who seem more in control in their daily lives enjoy less control in their private ones. Curious if that holds true.