A bit of background on my situation: I have a really great boyfriend who I consider a HVM (has a 6 figure career, attractive to me, wants a family, very generous and traditional).

Things are fairly new, about 2 months, however we are talking about spending our lives together, we share the same dream of being in a traditional relationship. He really adores me and I feel so lucky.

I plan on moving in with him after a few more months of us dating (this is the only option as we do not live in the same state). If I want to I can work, however the other option is that he would pay me a monthly allowance in a totally separate account. I’d basically be a housewife without the wife part (at this stage). In the future I’d be married and a SAHM.

Basically, is this an appropriate arrangement? I don’t have a career I feel passionate about, so this is basically my dream life. I have a ton of hobbies and interests, and there’s a whole bunch of others things I would focus on like preparing myself and learning about motherhood in my free time. And of course I’d be responsible for taking care of the home and cooking most meals, and be getting paid for it.

Does anyone see any problems with this assuming we do get married after some more time has passed? Just want to make sure my excitement over this man and our future isn’t clouding my judgment.